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@violenttransmalewitness
I have a few new tags on this blog that I wanna introduce to you guys
#AMABviolence - violence by trans males (since @violenttransmalewitness is now inactive)
#violence against AFAB trans - for violence against TM or AFAB trans ppl
#anti semitism - any time the word “feminazi” is used or when radfems are compared to nazis
Send asks and submissions here or just @ the blog
Since @violenttransmalewitness is now inactive, if the person I’m collecting the receipt of has it in their bio that they’re male, I’ll tag the receipt with #AMABviolence
this blog is no longer active
For personal reasons, I’m no longer accepting submissions for this blog. I’m leaving this blog up as an archive. An alternative blog you can use is @anti-female-receipts Thank you for your support in the last year.
New Support Blog
I’ve created this support blog “Harmed-by-amab-trans” for people who have been raped, sexually assaulted, abused, or otherwise victimized by amab trans people. I created this blog after opening up about being victimized by a trans woman and receiving little support from the community, pleas to not report her, accusations of lying and transmisogyny, etc. I unfortunately found this isn’t uncommon in social justice circles with people who have harmed by them. A few things while I get this set up: - This blog does not hate trans women, transfems, or other amab trans people. In fact, trans women, transfems, and other amab trans people are 100% free to get support from this blog. - This blog does not believe the amab trans population as a whole are predators, rapists, or abusers, nor that they are inherently predatory. - You can feel free to vent to me, ask questions on or off anon, submit your story, etc. I’m not sure I can do private messages atm, but if it’s urgent I can try. (Does anyone know if mods can handle PMs on sideblogs?) - Again, this blog is not meant to make amab trans people look bad, out to be rapists, etc. This blog is to support victims who find legitimate support that focuses on them within social justice difficult to find, but don’t feel comfortable talking about it elsewhere.
I know I have some followers on here who've been hurt by TW and other amab Trans ppl so maybe this would be a good resource for you guys 💕
can someone please point out to me where any trans activist has ever said that cis lesbians should have penetrative sex involving a penis? somehow transwomen asking to not be misgendered and to actually be treated as human beings=sex with penis you know you can date someone or respect them without having sex right? you can have sex without using a penis? dysphoria is a thing for trans people so what makes you think they’d even want their body parts anywhere near you?
no one is demanding you have sex with anyone so stop using it as some poor fucking excuse to misgender and discriminate against trans people.
Here is a workshop held by trans women called “Overcoming the cotton ceiling” the cotton ceiling refers to lesbians underwear.
The Cotton Ceiling was coined because a lesbian porn actress refused to do a scene with a trans woman porn actress. The entire discourse surrounding the cotton ceiling is about this idea that a lesbian should have the ‘audacity’ to deny a trans woman sexually. This is also the root of a lot of the “penis is female” and “biological sex doesn’t exist” discourse that has come about in the subsequent months.
From this post by Avery Edison, a trans woman:
“Look, it’s not like I require the women I date to be cool with having my dick inside them. In fact, I’m fine if that never happens. But being shut off from the very idea of it, not even considering that having my penis inside you is different from having a man’s penis inside you? That hurts. It’s such tiny slight that I wish I could get over it, and not let it fester into something I feel the need to write an essay about, but apparently I can’t.”
(For transparency: the linked post was not talking about the cotton ceiling; the situation which spurred that remark was a woman whose arrangement with her boyfriend allowed her to have sex with women, but no PIV, which meant that she did not want to have PIV intercourse with Edison.)
From this article by Julia Serrano, another trans woman:
“And when the overwhelming majority of cis dykes date and fuck cis women, but are not open to, or are even turned off by, the idea of dating or fucking trans women, how is that not transphobic?”
(Note: Serrano is not a lesbian; however, as a bisexual woman, it would appear she feels she has the right to refer to lesbians as “dykes.”)
And from this blog post by Natalie Reed, another trans woman:
“The refusal of lesbians to consider us viable sexual partners, or their seeing intimacy with us as somehow a threat to their lesbian identification… is to ultimately, when it comes to staking your own identification upon how you conceive of our gender, to walk your talk, assert that beneath whatever lip-service you’ve paid to the legitimacy of our identity you simply don’t really regard us as women. At least not fully so.”
(Reed did later update the post with “I did not coin the term ‘Cotton Ceiling’ myself, nor do I at present support this particular term or the admittedly creepy, rape-culture connotations it possesses. I was primarily using this term for the sake of referencing a very particular conversation that was occurring in the trans-feminist community at a very particular point in time. Frankly, I’d prefer if we all moved on from that term, its connotations, its limitations, and its unduly narrow focus on one particular space and context in which trans women’s sexual agency is denied or subverted. Such issues are much broader than what occurs in queer women’s spaces, and we can talk about it in ways that don’t demand self-defeating terminologies like ‘Cotton Ceiling’.”)
There are, in fact, people who are saying that lesbians are morally obligated to be open to sex with people who possess male genitalia. And some of them, whatever dysphoria they may have, do desire and enjoy PIV. Acting like all trans women have dysphoria to the extent that they would never want to penetrate their partner is simply ignorant.
You can absolutely respect someone without having sex with them. But as it says in the original description of the Cotton Ceiling workshop, above:
“…no matter how much basic, nominal acceptance a trans woman can receive in feminist or queer or women’s spaces, we’re still always ultimately rejected when it comes to breaking the sexual barrier, and being accepted as women to such a full extent that we are accepted sexually as women.”
In other words, in the minds of some people, mere respect is not enough. Lesbians must be willing to have sex with male-bodied women in order to be truly accepting. (And people born with the body-type associated with the production of the smaller of the two types of human gametes [i.e. sperm] are male. That is what the term means. It is not misgendering to accurately name biological sex, as sex is different from gender.)
In other words, it’s sex-as-identity-validation. Lesbians are apparently supposed to prove they accept trans women as real women by drawing no distinction between female-bodied and male-bodied women, and by being equally willing to engage in intercourse with both. They are not permitted to have a sexual orientation that excludes male-bodied people; apparently, some people believe that everyone is inherently attracted to both sexes, and that it’s only cultural conditioning that causes some people to be gay (or, at the very least, that lesbians should examine their sexualities to be sure that they’re really not attracted to any male-bodied people, or if they only think they’re not due to cultural conditioning.)
It is deeply screwed up to suggest that a gay woman not not being willing to engage in intercourse with a member of the other sex is somehow denying trans women full acceptance–that they must be willing to have physically male partners in order to not be bigots.
Sex–both the act, and the biological category–is the issue, here.
I know that the majority trans women don’t promote this idea. But there are some who absolutely do think that it is bigoted and wrong for lesbians not to want male-bodied partners. And there are many, many self-appointed allies who, in their zeal to support trans women, are all too eager to try and attack and guilt-trip lesbians for their disinterest in male-bodied partners.
the fact you're so quick to reduce a woman to her genitals and how other people treat her instead of her mind is what raises my brow. Sorry bub, but a woman is more than her body and how people treat her. sorry you seem to think its ok to reduce them to that.
A womyn is def more than her anatomy, but her experience of the world is shaped by the worlds perception of her body. I'm not "focusing" on TW junk, I'm just not ignoring it and the danger that are capable of. Wake up.
ok but a transwoman isn't male. she's a woman. show some respect.
Born male, socialized as male, conditioned as male, raised on testosterone and masculinity. It's not a matter of respect; it's a matter of respect. The fact that you so easily dismiss the experience of what it means to be a womyn is disrespectful.
"transwomen" "other trans male" those are two different things you're contradicting yourself.
Ppl born as males, regardless of identity.
Zachary Antolak is a man who identifies as a woman named Zinnia. He advocates allowing convicted rapists unfettered access to women’s private spaces.
terfs like you deserve to get skull fucked so hard that their jaws break
No one cares dude. Keep doing my work for me and showing everyone what “terf” is really all about.
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New Receipt Blog
If you’re a rad fem, a les fem, a gender critical feminist, a sex critical feminist etc and you’ve experienced violence at the hands of liberal feminists or members of the trans/queer community: - send us an ask - submit to us - @ us on a post
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It’s horrible that you were raped, but if you were really a feminist (you’re a man, so you can be btw) you’d prioritize the rape of WOMEN not males. There’s an epidemic of rape among women all over the world, but wait! what about teh MENZ? Women don’t owe you anything. Fuck off.
Link to the tweet with the screen cap of the women: https://twitter.com/sophiaphotos/status/540227961710845952
Link to the article he’s referencing as “the media”: http://www.macleans.ca/news/canada/ive-been-groped-so-often-i-wonder-if-this-is-normal/
She spoke about her own rape and how cis women attacked her over it and yet you wanna tell her that she needs to prioritize other women because she’s a “man”. Woooooooooooooow. Gold star for you for being an a+ asshole and being a transphobic douche. She didn’t mention men once, she mentioned the fact that when trans women are raped it’s swept under the rug in favour of writing them off as men and perpetuating harmful ideology. You are literally disgusting and the fact you keep using male pronouns for this women points you out as an abusive person.
He himself is a sexual predator by his own admission. I have no respect for males who use their power over younger females to take advantage of them sexually. He's gone back in the closet and lived as a male at times. That fucking male privilege that he CHOOSE.
I agree that rape is disgusting, but that doesn't excuse how HE perverts rape culture.
TW are sexually assaulted by males in an act of aggression to punish males that don't conform to their gender roles. To be a woman in our society is to be used by men and to exist in relation to men. Rape culture isn't the fault of women; rape is a tool OF males used primarily against females.
Trans survivors of rape matter, of course they do but the way that ~Sophia twists things, it's all about the victimization of TW by cis women. I know many trans pp who've been raped, the minority of which were TM raped by TW; females attacked males.
Rape is a tool of male violence. Until they point the finger I the right direction, I'll be here.
got receipts on yourself lol? you called a trans woman a man. you're incredibly violent. you need to stop, you're a violent and dangerous person.
I don’t want anyone to be hurt. This blog is proof that there are dangerous trans women we need to be aware of.
How to deal with TERFs post-revolution
Step 1.
"Trans women aren't as violent as males" "There aren't any TW who actually want females to be hurt"
Smh. You should be ashamed of yourself you misogynist asshole.
