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A Love Woven with Patience and Faith

As I prepare to leave this place and journey to distant lands, I know that physically I will be far away, yet she will remain forever etched in my heart, deeply, profoundly. ILHSM, with all my soul, I hold her close, with sincerity and intensity. My prayer is that God’s eternal grace will always keep her safe. The thought of being apart from her feels overwhelming. I will miss her more than words…

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A Heart’s Echo in the Silence

Losing you feels like yesterday’s whisper still echoing in my mind, time drifts swiftly, yet the ache remains. If only I could find a portal, a passage to meet you once more for every moment I missed, I would cross it daily without hesitation. An unfillable void resides within me, casting shadows even on the […] A Heart’s Echo in the Silence

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A Heart’s Echo in the Silence

Ramadan is almost to end. So many hearts to mend, so much love to give, so many tears shed, so much void, so much confusion, so many if's, so many but's.

Hurry up, hasten, forgive everyone as quickly as you expect Allah swt to forgive you

#praise allah #allahisone #allahisgreat #allahknowsbest

Deal with people in a way that will leave a positive impact in their minds for years to come. Deal with them in a way that you will continue to live in their hearts, even after you have died. Deal with them in a way you will be remembered with a smile.

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#easy #kind #love #loving

Dear Society,

If someone doesn't want to do something, please listen to them and don't make them do it.

Forcing people to do things they don’t want to do is no way to build a team.

For years I've been observing and people have been constantly reaching out to me as to how to deal with this, based on personal experiences and on a request im doing this WRITE UP, which has been way long over-due. I've been so so tired preaching and counseling same to many in sisters and brothers.

Just because your ways of dealing with a situation or people have set of ways, your old ways, your mothers ways, your ancestors ways and blah, do not expect same from the opposite person, and make them feel helpless, different people, different backgrounds, different caste, different creed, different religion, different mindsets, different ethnicity, different upbringing, different perception, different Perspective, different morals, different humane, different level of patience, different characteristics, different values, don't compel, don't persuade people, accept people as they are don't push them to the edge of the cliff. Someone poor and dear people get so dreadful even with your presence let alone be your baseless advices, spare them, put your foot down before any harm is caused. Mind your own business, unless your dear and loved ones come seeking your advise on their own. Do not impose your ideologies when the opposite person is in disagreement/disapproval. Live and let live.

As soon as you’ve successfully forced your loved or dear one to do something that they do not want to do, the mission is accomplished, you have separated that person from the team; you have made them different. You may think they are still physically with you but you have lost them to heart and soul, what a great loss. This can be difficult, since different people will find different things uncomfortable. The trick is to find an activity where different members of the team perform different roles, so there is something for everyone. And when you think about it, isn’t that how teams tend to work anyway?

I don't think so anybody should force anyone, not parents to children, not children to parents, not sisters to brothers, not brothers to sisters, not friends to friends, not neighbors to neighbors, not even to helpers of the household, not to any human being, and nobody should force anything on anyone it shows very low.self-esteem about yourself. Everyone must seek permission whether if they want to do it what you are asking them to do, rather imposing/compelling them into doing something.

Take permission from your people before you want to request something, ask a favor, want them to do something for you but don't expect or push someone to do things that they don't want to do please.

In English there are some ways as to how to ask for permission politely: May I .. ? Can you .. ? Could you .. ? Do you mind if .. ? Is it alright if .. ?what do you say about? Please could you do this for me?Would it be all right if?

And even after you have placed your proposal or request to the person for doing something for you and if the person still says a humble/polite "NO", and refuses to do so, then just leave people in peace, don't impose your ideologies that you have been living with in your head or seen growing up for years and expect someone to do the same and leave people in peace, and after the person has refused just leave without feeling bad or offended. DO NOT MAKE ANY MATTER COMPLICATED FOR a FELLOW BROTHER OR SISTER. There are very innocent men and women out there who don't have a voice, just because they are intimidated by you, or are shackled by family values, or are binded with the so called respect they have for you, but in reality there is no respect, they are forced to respect you. Don't use them. Don't take their silence as weakness. Fear Allah(GOD) swt.

And most importantly it's a forgotten SUNNAH/MANNERS not to force anyone. Its ABSURD. Some people don't even knock the door these days before they enter someones space.

Don't EVER FALTER TO SAY "NO" when you don't want to do something, just say "NO" without blinking of an eye.

May Allah(GOD) swt give us all such Hidayah(guidance) and salahiyath(ability) to be so

Much love,

vasiya♥

What you see is not what it is but what you don't is what it is.

For years I have been only hearing from many that nobody is helping people/loved ones get through the heartache or trauma they have been dealing with for weeks, months, and years and telling them to get over it, without being fully aware or asking what has been bothering them in the first place. We are humans and not machines who have a reset button, different people heal in different time and pace, some take mins, some days, some months, some years, and some never even get out of it, just because you or many I see let it go in a jiffy, do not expect the same from the WORLD. Hearts have been rubbed in over and over again is a long-term damage, heart is a fragile thing, most importantly guard your tongues with harsh words coming out of your mouths, it all starts with sadness, then anxiety, then stress and then depression and it has stages and levels, its hard to get people out of it and then its starts to effect emotionally and then mentally. Do understand your children, your parents, your siblings, or be it any relationship. Apologize when and where you must, if your loved ones are going through something then be there for them instead of telling them to get over it, talk to them, ask why they have been so weary these days, hug them, help them get through with it. Keep up with your loved ones, don't give them you are busy excuses, no one is too busy in the world its all about priorities. Take care of the hearts♥ of your loved ones before its too late. Always, remember physical recovery is usually faster than emotional recovery. Be there for the ones who are your family, your loved ones, and random people who need healing. May allah swt give us salahiyath to do it. Aameen.

Much love.

Vasiya♥

Assalamualaikum and welcome.

Im Vasiya Sharieff, you can call me V Who is a wanderer. Forever trying to find home. I come alive at the night time and at the tip of my pen.

This is my proverbial tip toe into the ocean of the internet. Even though I’m glad you found me, the introvert in me might need to nap after this encounter. Lets give this a shot so that many can benefit, is my only intention. No matter what I write I will always feel it could have been better and that's what will help me grow.

Call me a Blogger, Influencer, Ambivert. Emotional Counselor. Thought-Provoker, life coach, I do narrative and islamic writing. I love poetry, haiku, glossary of poetry terms, and literature(Ancient Greece, poetry, drama, and prose) I’m just an amateur writer. I like to write random thoughts that normal people can relate to.

My connection with books is cerebral and sometimes emotional. Its a heredity gift.To know that you’re not alone in your misery or happiness is the greatest reassurance of all. I may not be physically going anywhere, but my thoughts wander endlessly.

I don’t pay any attention to what people say about me, good or bad. I firmly fix my sight on what I want to achieve.

Im not a fancy person. I love small spaces. I like tiny cars. I don't buy things, aside from sports and books. I get loads of attention even though im kind of boring. I think Im boring, but I have different interests. I don't go out much, not because Im hiding but because Im not a big of outdoor, but only if its nature and into the woods. I go out and have a good time with family mostly.

I'm not a presidential, historian, or who makes promises that I can't live upto but I am who is consistent and considerate. I teach, I preach, and I counsel.

I always believe in improvising myself and learning something new everyday - I invoke this lesson daily in my life. I do not appreciate the ones who do or say something in a roundabout way.

Sometimes I just cant articulate and most times im on rock and roll.

Was never the type of girl that some Prince Charming to open doors for her and compliment her hair but I love being reminded that existence itself is all about the tangling of souls

Sometimes, I ruin moments. I do it with panache, for valid reasons that are repetitive and sometimes im terribly vividly mean. Just being super honest. It's like underneath all these layers of angst and sarcasm, and at times im not the best judge of my words or my actions, im a human I err.

Lastly, I am certain and know this fact, all writers, poets, prosaist, haijins, poetess, novelists, satirists, librettist, haikus, write at their best when they are broken, longing for a loved one, hurt, pained, sad, missing loved one and im at my best now, been there done that, lived all those moments. Not everyone can write. So whoever write are bruised soldiers and they come out so beautifully

Much love,

Vasiya♥

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