a heart is a heavy burden

rain/ adult / they / nonbinary lesbian / black not very active

[transgenders]

managed to catch up on some bills with previous help received (tysm)! so i want to focus on paying this older cshapp borrow off, as it was for rent to the small cult im stuck in. it was $860 originally, $805.48 left to fully pay it off. honestly must pay asap, considering early june im going to have to pay other urgent monthly bills like normal. id rather not be late on that like last time, especially since i still need to get litter liners & food too. anything helps & i appreciate it.

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june is both pride & my birth month, id rly love to not be as stressed/behind on bills if possible. im continuously trying to get work as well.

[transgenders]

$574.26 left to pay on the borrow. storage is past due but (for now) still $57. two loan debt repymts of $69.34 (June 8th) & $218.11 (June 12th). i only need like $4 more to pay storage on time but everything else listed here still very desperate & urgent to pay off. im recovering from heat exhaustion currently from walking 9+ miles. any $ appreciated—ty for the help, love & support 🫂.

[2well2water]

no one cares that you shave your legs because of sensory issues shut the fuck up forever

[2well2water]

really galling amount of people misinterpreting this post so i'd like to clarify. i'm saying that when discussions about patriarchal beauty standards and the way women are heavily shamed and coerced into eschewing their own natural state of being (hairy) are occurring, it is unhelpful (AT BEST) to interrupt and say that the reason YOU remove the hair from your body is because of sensory issues. that's not what we're talking about. stop asking for validation for doing something that society at large wants you to do. stop derailing the conversation because you feel uncomfortable about being made aware that you, for whatever reason it is, adhere to harmful, unfair and ridiculous beauty standards. you're stepping into the middle of an important conversation that needs to be had and making it all about you. shut the fuck up forever.

[2well2water]

also quite frankly i think a lot less people would experience sensory issues if they let their hair grow out so that it isn't bristly and rough and irritating. and i cannot help but wonder why these sensory issues aren't as predominant in men. maybe you're uncomfortable with the hair on your body because you've been taught to be uncomfortable with it. just a thought.

[macbethisms]

*bravely* i think more things should be about women

[fluoresensitives]

happy pride to Black lesbians and Black trans women!

[2well2water]

no one cares that you shave your legs because of sensory issues shut the fuck up forever

[2well2water]

really galling amount of people misinterpreting this post so i'd like to clarify. i'm saying that when discussions about patriarchal beauty standards and the way women are heavily shamed and coerced into eschewing their own natural state of being (hairy) are occurring, it is unhelpful (AT BEST) to interrupt and say that the reason YOU remove the hair from your body is because of sensory issues. that's not what we're talking about. stop asking for validation for doing something that society at large wants you to do. stop derailing the conversation because you feel uncomfortable about being made aware that you, for whatever reason it is, adhere to harmful, unfair and ridiculous beauty standards. you're stepping into the middle of an important conversation that needs to be had and making it all about you. shut the fuck up forever.

[2well2water]

also quite frankly i think a lot less people would experience sensory issues if they let their hair grow out so that it isn't bristly and rough and irritating. and i cannot help but wonder why these sensory issues aren't as predominant in men. maybe you're uncomfortable with the hair on your body because you've been taught to be uncomfortable with it. just a thought.

[phleb0tomist]

happy pride month to disabled lgbtq+ ppl who get told “you can’t be lgbtq AND disabled”. happy pride month to ppl who experience ableism and physical exclusion from lgbtq spaces. happy pride month to ppl who can’t safely come out because they’re dependent on bigoted carers. happy pride month to ppl whose disability inhibits their gender presentation, either by affecting ur movement and mannerisms, or making it hard to wear the clothes u want or have the hair u want or bind or wear makeup, or any other way. happy pride month to ppl who get desexualised and infantilised; happy pride month to ppl who get oversexualised and fetishised. happy pride month to ppl whose condition makes it hard to have the sex life they want, either by making it physically difficult, painful, or unsafe, or by making u hypersexual or lowering ur libido or sensation. happy pride month to ppl who have gender affirming care denied because they’re “too disabled” to make their own decisions. happy pride month to ppl whose disability has made it difficult for them to explore or maintain relationships. ily all

[alleesaur]

the productivity creatures

[lestatfag]

STAY SAFE!! [ID: the Gilbert Baker pride flag with the words “Happy pride to all those who are unable to celebrate openly and safely. You are loved and seen!” in all-caps black text over it. /end ID]

[roswellsoup]

bonus/proof:

we tipped her well dw. best waitress ever 🍒

[serpexnessie]

Average Tomodachi Life Conversation

[redstonedust]

i think its fine to have limited tastes in media if you understand your limitations. like i wont shame someone if they only watch cartoons because thats their choice but i also dont think you can go making hot takes about the horror genre if the scariest thing youve watched this decade was the owl house finale. that seems ill advised.

[prismaticram]

i want to bed rot

[erodingsinner]

once you learn about pseudoscience you're forever doomed to get angry when people talk about like. love languages or stockholm syndrome. but forced to stay quiet lest your lose your mind trying to correct millions of people

[glowcowboy]

i love you video games i love you character customization i love you romanceable npcs i love you well-written storylines i love you indie games i love you backwards compatibility i love you open world games i love you jrpgs i love you farming sims i love you life sims i love you video games!!!!!!!

[uwillneverknowwho]

Literally always take headphones with you. If you decide that you probably won't need them today, that's the devil talking. You will. You will

[arachnixe]

Also while we're all talking about anti-racism, here's a helpful tip:

Performative self-flagellation over being white is not a substitute for doing serious introspection about the ways you have been complicit in or rewarded by a white-supremacist society, nor doing the work to dismantle white supremacy.

A white person chiming in to a conversation about racism to say "I'm sorry for being white" or "white people suck, I say this as a white person" is just a masturbatory way to try to assuage your own feelings of shame without actually doing anything. It doesn't make you look like "one of the good ones." It makes you look like someone who centers your own feelings about it.

[gem-andromeda]