okay okay i agree bojangles whoever sucks and should really be kicked outta here, but take a step back and really think about the twitter shit. like even if someone is the worst person, you dont like do transphobia at them cuz at the end of the day thats still just doing transphobia..... you know..... like deadnaming them...... cuz sure they Might be lying, but what if they arent? are you willing to be transphobic because of them?
I have put a warning on my initial post about the deadnaming and I have refered to them as Bo or Maric and never what they have told people is their deadname. I’ve been using the pronouns last used by Maric. What was said in the screencaps was said for reasons and observations, not lightly or because I wanted to throw some transphobia their way just for fun. Is it transphobic to question someone like that? Generally, yes. And I would not say that to anyone.
Bo has their pronouns as she/they everywhere. Maric had their pronouns as he/him but Maric was a persona created by Bo. Bo has identified as F/NB in places that were not connected to their real life and to internet friends. Maric was a persona created that was transitioning and used he/him pronouns, but it was only a character and not a real person. And that’s my point, Bo pretended to be a trans man as Maric.
Yes, not everyone feel safe coming out in their real life, it’s something I’m too aware of and something I still feel. But Bo has also said to friends on the internet and not their RL that they identified as F/NB and used she/they pronouns. Maric is just another character Bo wrote and played.
I wish people understood that Maric was just a persona that Bo created to come back to the RPC. Maric isn’t real. And Bo definitely identify as she/they and not just on Twitter but in other places where she can be entirely anonymous. Maric was a trans man but Maric doesn’t exist. And I understand that people get mad about this, i would too if it was anyone else and we should never assume someone’s gender based on pronouns. But Bo hasn’t and isn’t transitioning like Maric was and that’s also a huge problem and in itself, how Bo used Maric to bait the RPC. It’s not about transphobia. I’m trans and I know it doesn’t mean I can’t be transphobic and believe me, I’ve been transphobic towards myself a lot. It’s about someone who created a persona and used issues that are not them to generate sympathy and make friends by sharing experiences that they took from other trans and made their own.
This is honestly such a great way to word the conflict. Maric isn't real and was only Bo's attempt at coming back into the RPC and fly under the radar.
Less than a week ago, Bo was claiming to be receiving death threat, who had apparently all said they were coming from Twiggy's blog and were misgendering them. But I've seen on more than one place, some from screenshots sent my way, that Bo pronouns are she/they and not just on Twitter were they could possibly be identified but on Reddit and Ao3. I've also received screenshots of Bo introducing themselves as F/NB in a place that was not connected to their RL and the people in it. I've had people come to my DMs tell me that stories they told about their own discrimination as trans were then later used by Maric as his own.
I'm also trans and not all trans see things the same way and won't agree on issues. I think it's incredibly fucked up what Bo did as Maric considering all of it was lies. If people want to call me transphobic for that, I'm fine with it because I've seen and had more than one person confirm this to me. I would never doubt anyone else but this situation is different. I know it's highly triggering, it is for me too and the thought that someone would have pretended to be someone else entirely that way almost makes me physically sick.
i think it's so funny how everyone is against maric's socials being tracked down and having him "doxxed" when he literally supported people tracking down my socials and me being doxxed for shit i didn't even do lmfao. this kinda shit is why i left the rpc, it's full of gross double standards.
I am so sorry that it happened to you! Maric/Bo has done so much hurt in the RPC. And my intention has never been for people to find him in RL or go after him. But a lot of people were still defending him about @stevvyhosseini post and even kept saying Maric and Bo were not the same person. And that had to stop because I know people who have been bullied for saying they were the same person, for warning others about him.
someone people want to be allies so bad that they are actually turning up against victims within the community.
People don’t like what I did and that’s fine. But Bo still has done very hurtful things to a lot of people and if they don’t care about how casually he tried to gaslight me when I brought up my gender dysphoria then they could at least show a little decency to everyone else who has been abused by him and his friends.
the police report and jail threat is kinda funny to me because from what i'v seen, you didn't gave any personal information, there has been no doxxing and you find them because they posted their socials very publicly. what is the police going to do? jail you because you clicked on a link that someone put on their blog? they're only trying to intimidate you.
If only I could fill a police report every time i get a DM I didn’t want.
everyone is more pressed about you finding out their twitter than what they did to people in the spam of almost a decade. that’s wild to me honestly.
People are acting as if I’ve spent the last year of my life on this. I used to be on friendly terms with Bo. I ran into Art a few times and followed his blog way back then. I saw that Bo was brought up again and looked at my follow list. Saw Art, looked at the blog to see what he was up to and saw he posted his Instagram more than once. That’s the scope of my detective skills. It was 30 minutes.
Also, to the people asking, no I will never give out any of the personal information that was found, even if it was easily found from public Tumblr. I also have not kept any screencaps that are not blackout, not for myself or anyone else. There has not been any doxxing and there will not be any of it either. Stop asking for accounts.
For those who do not approve of some of the things I’ve asked Bo/Maric, I understand how you see it and receive it. I would not have asked that if not for certain things on his twitter (and would never asked that in any context other).
Bo constantly referred to himself as a woman and girl.
Bo went out of his way to comment on other people’s post mentioning they are a woman (ie. someone grew out their nails for a cosplay and talked about the disgust they received since they are a man and Bo took the time to say that he had no such reaction when growing out his nails because he’s a woman and there is a gender problem there.)
And other similar instances.
The question was asked in a moment of anger to see someone who had appropriated my trauma express themselves that way. Personally, before coming out, I would avoid mentions of such things and would not make a point to remind everyone every chances that I got and I know a lot of my friends who feel that way. So that’s why the question was asked. It’s incredibly distressing to see such a thing. You don’t have to agree with me, support me or anything. But the question was not asked to hurt him but because I was hurt by him. And despite all of this and my doubts, I will continue to say him until being told otherwise.
EDIT: Also, when Bo was told about my own gender dysphoria, something that I still go through, being the reasons I was not willing to do a video call with him, his own answer was that it showed my intentions was not done in good faith. I was denied that aspect of who I am by him in order for him to gaslight me. He used my own gender identity against me in that moment. I told him I had gender dysphoria and he tried to turn it against me.
that part will be super controversial and not one person will agree on it but as someone who is trans and has been told by maric that he was a trans man and seeing him say he faced discrimination for being trans, it's really hurtful considering that, while transphobia is present and not everyone feel safe coming out, he did not experience these issues in RL.
This is a very sensitive subject and it's almost impossible not to approach it without some degree of transphobia because of how dificut it is to come out, how violent it can be. I will contnue to refer to Bo as he/him because these are the pronouns he gave to the RPC.
It's very likely that he doesn't feel safe coming out and that is something no one should have to feel but is a reality, once that I have also faced.
The problem is in identifying with issues that aren't entirely him. The discrimination faced as an AFAB who uses she/they pronouns is not the same as an AFAB who has transitionned or is in the process o tansitiong and used he/him pronouns.
It doesnt mean he doesnt suffer from transphobia, body dismorphia or any distressing issues that comes with it. Just like I don't experienced the same issues as other POC because I'm white passing. It doesn't mean I'm not a POC, but I cannot appropriate the issues of my peers.
Bo do not consider that an apology is needed. It’s also very interesting that when others are being bullied because of his lies, it’s not his fault but when he wants to be the victim, he pretends to receive death threat from anons and then it’s the fault of those who have said he was Bo.
There is a lot of attempts at manipulation, gaslighting and guilt tripping, as well as him playing the victim in these screenshots. There is also no threats to anyone’s security and he doesn’t have to warn anyone about a stalker, this is the extent of what we’re doing. No one is trying to go into his real life, or it would have been done. All we wanted was for him to admit to truth. Trying to force someone to tell the name of victims is incredibly toxic. There is absolutely no acknowledgment and accountability for his actions, past and present.
The definitive proofs that Bo is Maric and also a big fat liar.
Before we continue, you’ll see Bo referred as what he called his dead name. This isn’t out of spite or to be hurtful in any way but because it’s a name he still uses. I will not use that name when talking about him, the same way as I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt and continue to use he/him, as he used in the RPC, despite using she/they on Twitter and in RL.
You’ll also see Art mentions a stalker and talk about how traumatic it was to be messaged and how they are now scared for their safety. Considering the number of lies told by that person, the stalker is most likely a lie to intimidate us. This person, Art, claims to have left their blogs due to their stalker, yet they were in the RPC in recent weeks, using the same name he always used. Furthermore, he posted his personal social media on his own blog, which is accessible to everyone, allege stalker included. And his social media featured his full name as well as many geolocation tags. Art, it took us less than 30 minutes to find you, your stalker would have done so by now if they existed.
All screenshots are edited as to not give out personal information about these individuals, not that any of it was actually hard to find. Also, please note that both Art and Bo were given this exact post before it was published, giving them the opportunity to come clean on their own and avoid all of this. If this has been published it’s because they refused to do so and preferred to continue the lies. All they both have said are threats and what Bo has called a general apology by only saying he his sorry for his actions without being willing to name them. Bo has also pushed really hard to have the names of those who have been hurt by his actions, those who have been bullied for 2 years now for speaking the truth. The fact that we refused to give names of victims made him say we were doing it in bad faith. He also tried to guilt us into doing a video call with him or he wouldn’t talk.
@stevvyhosseini posted screenshots of some of Bo’s friends who were also very close to Maric. One of these friends is Art.
Art was contacted on Instagram, through a link on his own Tumblr blog. He denied that Bo and Maric were the same person, which was to be expected. Most importantly, he denied still talking to Bo and said the two of them hadn’t talked in years. Well, years ago was as recent as 3 days ago. **Art’s link to his Instagram is no longer working which is why the screenshot was posted.
Now, we need to establish that the account Art interacts with is indeed Bo and Maric.
Bo first appeared in the RPC under what he has called his deadname, Madison. He them used Maddie and eventually Bo, because of his URL, Bojanglesrph. As you can see here, this person uses Madison with she/they pronouns. And you’re probably thinking, well, that’s not Bo. Bo doesn’t use their deadname and is a trans man. Well, that’s apparently not always the case. This is an incredibly sensitive issue because there could be a lack of freedom and sense of security for him to identify as a trans man outside of Tumblr but he also has a tendency to lie and make up things (like death threats) to gather sympathy and discredit others by putting guilt on them for what he is going through.
One of Madison’s best friend is named Lex, and that same Lex has mentioned Bo as their best friends on their own Tumblr. Lex also links to what used to be one of Bo’s blog and her own Twitter, which has been verified.
So with these facts, it’s clear that Madison is Bo. And since Art has interacted with Madison only 3 days ago, his claim of not knowing anything and of not having talked to Bo in years are lies.
Now, is Bo actually Maric? As @stevvyhosseini showed in screencaps, they have the same birtday, May 2nd, which is once again confirmed on Madison’s twitter. And they are both 27, which means they were born on the same day, the same year.
They have the same friends
They are both trying to be actors
They are both into Linus Roache (seriously, who is that guy and who else has heard of him?)
And basic white old men
They have the same personality
They were born on the exact same day
They have a victim complex and will lie to get out of certain situations
hi guys, i just wanted to remind everyone that in the UK, there is a very dangerous event called “punish a muslim day” happening. here is the link to the new york times article about it but i’m imploring you to reach out to support your muslim friends/family/coworkers/etc. please make sure they are safe and aware of this, and if you could please please reblog this and spread it that would helps us immensely. the letters are going through the UK right now but many people think this will come into the united states and even other countries may follow and it’s really important that muslims are aware so they can take as many precautions as necessary.
hey um can y’all stop using real greek organizations for your rps! they’re trademarked and also um it’s a really special deal when you can be apart of these organizations that have a bunch of secrets and traditions that only their members know about! thanks!
Are these secrets and traditions also known as abuse, bullying, racism and sexism?
For everyone in need of some enlightenment, here’s the REAL reasons we should ban Greek Life RPs.
Fraternities don’t just tolerate misogyny, they celebrate it.
Studies show that men who join frats are three times more likely to commit sexual assault and that women in sororities are nearly twice as likely as other female college students to be the victim of sexual assault. Researchers point to a culture of “male peer support of violence against women” as part of the issue—it’s not just that misogyny is tolerated, it’s celebrated. Men bond over their diminishment of women while schools shrug their shoulders and assume “boys will be boys.”
And, as of 2014, more than 60 people had died in the previous ten years because of incidents linked to fraternities. Countless more have been harmed by hazing, drunken accidents, and fires.
Young rich men invented “social” fraternities to isolate themselves from their middle-class peers, thumb their nose at the religious values of their professors and wrest control away from the administrators who set their schedules, curricula and objectives. They came to prominence during a period of widespread and largely forgotten campus violence.
Timothy Piazza, 19 years old, a pledge at Penn State’s Beta Theta Pi, fell twice down the stairs after being instructed to drink what a forensic pathologist called a “life-threatening” amount of alcohol. Surveillance footage shows brothers carrying him, turning him over, pouring liquid on his face and slapping him. A massive bruise blooms on his torso. They put a backpack on him to make sure he lies on his side and doesn’t choke on his own vomit. Someone Snapchats his lifeless body. At 10:48 a.m. the next day — twelve hours and one minute after he first appeared unconscious on film — they call 911. Only then did they spring into action, concocting a plan to destroy and withhold evidence. Now 18 of the Beta Theta Pi fraternity brothers and the fraternity itself are facing 850 criminal charges, including involuntary manslaughter.
In the aftermath of Piazza’s death, Penn State’s president wrote a heart-wrenching open letter. He detailed the facts about Greek life: excessive drinking, high rates of sexual assault, hazardous initiation rites and fatal accidents. He also listed the well-intended and genuine efforts by Penn State to change Greek culture — efforts that don’t seem to be working — and wondered if the right answer is abolition.
The above are only a few example of what really goes on in these fraternities and sororities. I encourage everyone to educate themselves on these realities and to stop roleplaying Greek Life for these reason and not because “they’re trademarked and also um it’s a really special deal when you can be apart of these organizations that have a bunch of secrets and traditions that only their members know about!”
