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Hey guys is it always good to trust your gut instinct no matter the doubt swirling around.

“women don’t know how much rejection hurts” i wasn’t allowed to play with legos or touch a football or look at sports. i wasn’t allowed to eat more. i wasn’t allowed to talk loudly, to laugh too much, to inject myself into male conversations. i wasn’t allowed to be good at science. i was told “oh sweetheart, have another college in mind, STEM fields are hard.” i got turned down from jobs in favor of boys where were less qualified. one boss told me he was hesitant to hire me because my last name is hispanic and i’m pretty and he didn’t want the “controversy.” i couldn’t take up space on the train. i would be talked over in public places. i couldn’t eat steak or drink beer, they were “boy” things. video games were off limits, i wasn’t allowed to ask if i could see more characters like myself in them. super heroes were all men, women were just love interests. i wanted shirts with wonderwoman, with black widow, with harley quinn, i found next to nothing. i wanted pockets and colors other than pink and clothes designed for warmth, not sexy, i got nothing. women change their name to be published nationally. i wasn’t allowed to be emotional, i wasn’t good at driving, i wasn’t in charge of my own body. i wasn’t allowed to show off my body, i wasn’t allowed to dress modestly. i had to be pretty, whatever it took, but my eating was constantly made fun of. “she’s, like, anorexic” was a punchline, not a disorder. “she’s fat” was a death sentence.

boys said no because: i wasn’t pretty i wasn’t small i was too loud i spent too much energy on being funny on because i wouldn’t shut up what a feminazi i wasn’t smart i was too smart for my own good i was always reading i was always busy i was too needy i was too independent i was not who you took home i was too much of a house mom i was perfect and it was scary.

women don’t know. women don’t know. never sat in a room and wrote angsty poetry about this shit. somehow both overemotional and not capable of knowing how much rejection stings. which one is it. which one is it. i’ll give you a hint: we’ve been rejected since the first time our parents said, “no, not the blue blanket, it’s for little boys to play with.” we are used to having “no” slammed in our faces. we got used to it. maybe the reason it seems so unnatural to hear “no” is because for your entire life, you heard “yes.”

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“Maybe the reason it seems so unnatural to hear ‘no’ is because for your entire life, you heard ‘yes’.”

#rejection hurts #speak the truth #more than just yes #stand up for yourself

Guys I might finally delete this blog

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Hey everybody! I’m so happy to see you guys are excited about Andiversary Week! After taking into consideration all of your feedback, here is a list of prompts and themes for the week.

July 19th: Ships

July 20th: Favorite Quotes & Moments

July 21st: Favorite Story Arcs

July 22nd: Favorite Characters

July 23rd: AUs & Crossovers

July 24th: Favorite Parallels

July 25th: Favorite Friendships & Family Bonds

July 26th: Fandom Appreciation Day

A few people mentioned they’d like to see a day to celebrate our favorite moments in the fandom, which I thought was a lovely idea. Today is for celebrating our favorite headcanons and fan additions, times we collectively lost our minds (like seeing the words “relationship woes” in the episode synopses), and things that were important to us (like the Paper Crane Project). It’s a day to celebrate ourselves and each other, plus everything we love about this show.

*Bonus Prompts *

These were some more ideas people liked that can be celebrated any day:

Crack ships or underrated pairs

Favorite outfits

Favorite settings

Favorite episodes

Favorite season

Favorite activities (ex: basketball, frisbee, crafts)

Anything else you want

I’m posting this early in case people want to get started already, but I’ll repost this all again as this gets closer. I’m really looking forward to seeing what everyone does. Let’s have fun :)

I might drop this blog

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Wandi headcanons

Guys send me headcanons you want me to do for these artsy babes do it do it just keep it clean.

#Wandi #Walker X Andi #Andi Mack #Just send stuff in.

Wandi headcanons

Guys send me headcanons you want me to do for these artsy babes do it do it just keep it clean.

#Wandi #Andi Mack #Walker x Andi

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To whom it may concern

Not sure who needs to hear this but Tyrus isn't the main focus of Andi Mack the titular character and main protagonist Andi Mack is. Another thing stop getting upset when you see a straight couple other than muffy interacting some of y'all aren't even apart of the LGBT community and while I'm happy we have support don't disregard every heterosexual pairing

#Tea so delicious #Stop forgetting about andi #do not forget her storyline #She matters too #Period that is all.

Show i do a least favorites andi mack set of ships.

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I knew this episode was going to deal with racial stereotypes and I was excited for that, but I was actually shocked when Andi was venting about it and actually used the word “Asian” multiple times. Based on last week’s promos I knew that’s what they were going for, but I guess I didn’t expect them to be so direct about it. Especially considering both of the previous episodes that incorporated racism (Buffy’s hair & Metcalf’s social experiment) failed to actually mention race. I’m so glad they were allowed to bring the conversation out of subtext for this.

Other things I really appreciated about this storyline: Buffy and Cyrus could have easily responded by listing off their own experiences with stereotypes (being black and Jewish), but they didn’t. Instead, they just listened and validated and supported their friend. I really appreciate that we talked about racism without actually majorly victimizing anyone, but instead focused on the “little” things like shitty stereotypes that are far too often overlooked or excused, especially among kids and teens. And I also love that Andi was allowed to solve this problem for herself. She didn’t get parents involved, she didn’t make her friends help. It was about her finally being seen, so she did it on her own.

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THE LOOK OF PRIDE FROM BUFFY & CYRUS - the good hair crew’s friendship is really the purest thing out there huh

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Can we talk about Andi?

She was angry, hurt, disappointed, and frustrated. She could easily have gone to the rage cage to deal with her feelings. Instead, she used that energy to create something beautiful. SHE is beautiful.

Please tag your spoilers. Haven't seen the episode yet.

Hey guys do you think i should write some wandi content like please suggest to me stuff to write about them. Inbox me different things to write about for them.