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Lenten Prayer of St. Ephrem
O Lord and Master of my life, take from me the spirit of sloth, despair, lust of power, and idle talk. But give rather the spirit of chastity, humility, patience, and love to Thy servant. Yea, O Lord and King, grant me to see my own transgressions, and not to judge my brother, for blessed art Thou, unto ages of ages. Amen.
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“Imagine Jesus crucified in your arms and on your chest, and say a hundred times as you kiss His chest, ‘This is my hope, the living source of my happiness. This is the heart of my soul; nothing will ever separate me from His love’.”
~St. Padre Pio
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Tony directing at OPA today.(I assume since Verica just tweeted it and didn’t say it was old).
Hmm, so no pictures of “director” Fooley who directed for 100 years, but yes please to Tony :)
Yes, isn’t it amazing how at least someone knows that NO ONE wants to see the other one, and a HELL OF A LOT OF PEOPLE want to see Tony instead? Actually the only person left in that cast that can garner this much publicity.
Apparently everyone knows T’s importance to the show except the show runner and the gopher.
And meantime Verica posted ANOTHER photo of Tony directing at OPA. With Kerry being directed, too. LOL
I’m not watching, because I’m tried of being used & abused by this showrunner. There are too many other dramas, that I’m enjoying & excited about.
Bye.
Anyone who wants a love story between Olivia and Jake does not love Olivia, and has not been paying attention to Scandal’s narrative...
I’m free-wheeling here.
I’m truly sorry for people who think O[redacted] is ‘on’ and that includes the shallow media because the show isn’t selling that. Yes, Olivia having sex twice on a Sunday with [redacted] is trite, boring and gross. It’s kinda supposed to be the latter. There is nothing empowering, desirable, or ‘grown’ about that nolationship. Their fluid exchange, lack of intimacy and future reflect the choices Olivia has made for herself. Those choices? Giving up on living in the light. And since she is the sun (407), light itself, Olivia has given up on herself. There’s no more light in her apartment (not a coincidence that in the midst of this dark lair she finally invited daddy over for Sunday dinner); her clothes are predominately not white. She’s not even practicing white knight-hood at work. She is impotent in every way, and this is reflective in the substantive conversation she has with Huck in 512. She tells him the only winning move is not t play. That’s giving up; that’s not taking command of her life—what (to me) the S5 poster eventually signifies for her.
So, Jake is a manifestation of all the dark and nasty inside Olivia. The Olivia who thinks she is so profoundly skewed, that she would not inflict her fuckedupedness on new dick. (after all, she didn’t leave Fitz because he wasn’t enough; she left because she wasn’t enough). This is why she reaches for that same old comfort blanket with whom she doesn’t have to try; who will accept her ill treatment because he has committed worse against her. The one who has a PhD in her psychoses, as trained by the same man who programmed her. And since Jake is a profoundly monstrous person is the umbilical cord to her father. This is why she keeps “forgiving” him (508), and casting him in the role of victim, as she most recently did (512), and has done ad nauseum before. Because so long as she believes Jake isn’t making the choice to do the things he’s done, so long as his misdeeds are just programmatic damage, then she has someone to rescue.
“The secret to you is that you always have to save everyone” (410).–Ian
When she doesn’t have that, she doesn’t know who she is and she feels a profound loss of control due to that loss of identity anchoring. That rescuing forms the substantive basis of her identity, which I’ve written about since S4 (I know it’s tacky to quote yourself but it’s also very efficient):
“For nearly 15 years (she’s almost 35), Olivia created an identity for herself as ‘The Protector’ (newspaper clippings, 308). A protector depends upon objects that need protecting. If nothing and no one needs protecting, does she cease to exist as a person? Who is she outside of that superhero persona? Recall that on an African island with Jake (401), with no one to save or protect, ‘Olivia Pope’ ceased to be. She became ‘Julia Baker’… After all, for so long, indeed, it was like father like daughter. Rowan derives his whole identity from being the protector of the Republic, and Olivia was an extension of that.”–KP
The show has made it unmistakeably clear for those who did not get it in seasons 2, 3, and 4: there is no substance to Olivia and Jake. They will never be a couple. Nor is Shonda trying to sell one. They will never be a love story. Never. Be mad about it.
I hear you: but when will this end? I’ve had enough of this dysfunction! I want better for Olivia!
I want it to end and I want better for her, too. I’ve had false starts before, but I now see that Shonda needed to eliminate all of Olivia’s excuses. She needed to try and fail at the relationship with Fitzgerald so she could see that his love can’t fix her. Her love of self needs to do that. The good thing about what’s happening now is that as Olivia is purposely deluding herself about her father (he’s the lynchpin to her formation; the man who makes chaos normal), she is also surrounded by people who are tired of her antics and have begun to see through her. They calling out her denial (Abby in 510, Mellie in 511, Huck in 512). Huck however, is best placed to call Olivia out. Not only has he suffered the most from being an adopted family member, but he has also achieved something Olivia has not: he worked at overcoming his mental trigger and he won. Of Huck in 509, I wrote:
“Olivia’s only excuse is herself. I wonder if Shonda will now allow her to seek therapy, though it’s hard to imagine. Huck managed to confront his greatest trigger: Rowan. He tested himself and he prevailed. Before that, however, he spent time working on himself after looking to others to fix him proved fruitless (501, 502). Olivia has the same trigger, and I want her to prevail. Season 5 is the season of Olivia Pope putting love on top, and that includes love of herself. I still believe she’ll put in that work, even though she’s hit a hurdle. We’re only nine episodes in, so there’s plenty of time for the confrontational work she needs to do. If Olivia does not deal with the spectre of her dysfunction, which is the legacy of her father, she will forever remain stuck in gear. Whoever she is with, she will always be there. She cannot be happy alone, or with anyone else until she confronts herself.”–KP
The incestcapades with Jake have to stop for Olivia to begin moving on. She’s the only gladiator who isn’t trying to move on at this point and seek some normalcy. The only one who no longer has a future in mind (“There is no future”—509). The dysfunction she has come to know isn’t normal, it’s just familiar. Familiar and empty because she’s certainly not happy. What the hell is the point to life if you can’t be happy? The naked quest for power is not going to bring her that, and I know she’ll figure that out.
Yes Queen!!!!
How many people really want this twisted & violation story? Sorry, I can’t use the word ‘love’ here.
Anyone who pays this much attention to fictional characters, should get a real life. Or better yet, find out why the life their presently living is so void of interest, that a fictional character has become this much of a focal point.
“Detachment from possessions is not a punishment of the body; it is choosing God in what one does, rather than relying on material things. When we tie ourselves to things, we forget our essential spiritual nature. If we are dependent on things, we can only have greater need. If we are dependent on God, we thirst in our freedom for yet more freedom.”
~Amma Syncletica
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Meyer Lemon Cheesecake
Really nice recipes. Every hour.
Show me what you cooked!
I need this right now!
omfg it’s a Ray reunion
How lucky can Jamie get. Two beautiful talented women he had the pleasure of working with at the same time. One needs lipstick and the other needs a padded bra. Jus sayin.
Let’s celebrate love!!!!
He is such a great actor. Doesn't get the recognition he deserves.
God loves a generous, kind, compassionate soul. God loves Angie. We all do.
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cute nicknames for your extended family members: walking mucus bag, uncle slumlord, synonymous of some Holocaust-level atrocity like the Cinco de Mayo Massacre or Civil War II
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Thirty Days Prayer to the Blessed Virgin * Taken from The Golden Manual: A Guide to Catholic Devotion
This prayer is recommended for all days during Lent and on Fridays throughout the year.
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Two things define you. Your patience when you have nothing, and your attitude when you have everything.
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Not all heroes wear capes
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This is awesome.
Can’t wait to see him coming.
Real talk.
Nightmare.
