Weekend Whispers

I don't have a dirty mind - I have a sexy imagination 

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yo

Yo yo

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Let's get under cover Don't try too hard to think Don't think at all

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I close my eyes Then I drift away

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Well my boyfriend did me wrong about 50 times and i still love him so much , the last time i told him that i was giving the last chance and he accepted that and kinda promised to be true and not to lie to me I asked him everyday if he's still talking with his ex and he said no but i knew the truth somehow and he lied to me again, what am i supposed to do?

Ditch him, girl - you're worth more. I know that you still love him and it will be hard to move on, but I think that's what's best. You'll find someone better. xx

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Wake up, look me in the eyes again, I need to feel your hand upon my face.

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I'm slowly losin' my ground Slowly sinkin' down 

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Don't you know you're Queen Whipped Heaving Flower bloom at my feet

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Baby, don't rush, you're no waterfall Love me that is all

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She looks like the real thing She tastes like the real thing

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Hey so I asked a question about me and my bestfriend a while ago, I took your advise and did what I thought was the right thing to. It was amazing, he was so romantic, and we did the dirty a couple times in one day and did all this awesome stuff. Thank you so much. You were a great help and really gave me stability in a time of need. We're gonna keep it a secret (hence the anon) because we aren't officially dating, people don't even know that we have a "thing". I just wanted to thank you heaps

Hey, anon! 

Nice to know that my advice actually helped someone! I wish you the best of luck. 

x N

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Hi, I'm a 15 year old girl, (16 next month) and I'm going out with an 18 year old guy. Although he tells me how much he loves me and he treats me amazingly, I'm just scared if he's just going to use me for sex and then ditch me after. My ex and I went out for 2 years and he didn't treat me that nice and I'm scared my new guy will also use me and I don't know what to do?

I know it's hard to move on from a bad relationship - you might start having trust and commitment issues. But, you're only 15-16, you have your whole life ahead. If I were you, I would rather focus on my studies and friends, especially if you don't trust the guy you're dating. Just let if flow and if you finally feel that he truly cares about you and you start trusting him, then carefully start considering it and think about it well. x N

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so i like this guy he's really cute, a little smaller than me and he likes one of my best friends who I've known since i was 6 (I'm now 16) and I'm pretty sure my friend is starting to like him back and flirt with him in front of me even tho she knows I'm interested in him. what should i do?

If that guy doesn't like you but likes your friend, and she likes him back, then you should step back and be a good friend. If you really care about your friend then you should let her be happy and do her thing. But talk to the guy and make it clear whether he likes your friend or not. If it turns out that he likes YOU, then go ahead, but talk to your friend first. Also, don't let one silly guy ruin your friendship. You've been friends for such a long time and it would be stupid to let him break you up. x N

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So, I have this ex that I was super in love with. We dated for a month kind of like a summer thing. Things ended on a bad note and we broke up. She goes to a school 3 hours away. I have recently started talking to an old ex of mine that lives in Texas. I live in Ohio. Well, my recent ex wants to talk to me next weekend and I'm not sure where it is going to go. We hit it off like nothing I've ever felt. But I just asked the girl from Texas to be my girlfriend again. I have no clue what I'm doing.

I think you should meet with your recent ex. You said that you've hit it off like nothing you've ever felt before. That's a pretty big sign for me to meet her. Also, why the hell did you ask your old ex to be your girlfriend again? Are you just feeling lonely and want a rebound from your recent ex? Rebounds are never a good thing... x N

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I'm 15. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. He wants to finger me and take things further. Do you think it's the right time?

You shouldn't ask me whether I think it's the right time. It's about what YOU think. Do you feel comfortable with going further? Do you trust the person? If yes, then why not do it? But overall, you have been dating for a very long time so you probably trust each other. If you are still in doubt, ask yourself why. Are you simply not ready? Or are you having trouble with your relationship? Also, only do it if you want to, don't let your boyfriend or anyone else pressure you into its x N

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Ima guy and 19 and a virgin...I'm kinda holding out for someone who cares about me to loose it, alot of my friends think I'm secretly gay or just scared or weird. Is it honestly that weird for a guy wanting to hold out for somone who cares?

No, it's not weird. It is completely fine. It doesn't matter what your friends think - it's none of their business. You will remember losing you virginity for the rest of your life, so you better do it the YOU want to. If your friends think this about you and don't respect your choices then they are not that great of friends... x N

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Let's take it right back to where it all began But we never look back

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So my boyfriend and I are just like best friends. Literally. And we are super playful and go places with each other all the time (kinda like adventures I guess) and I was just wondering when we should have sex, we've done other stuff but I just really want to have some intimate time just with him and do it out of love not just for pleasure. We've talked about it a couple times and we are both waiting until we are older but we both also want to do it now/soon. Always situation. Thanks

You haven’t mentioned whether you are a virgin or not, so I will answer assuming that you are. If you feel ready and you feel that you trust each other, you should do it. Sex is often portrayed as just an act of pleasure, but your intentions are right - you should do it because you love each other. It seems to me that you trust and love each other, and that you are comfortable with that sort of thing so I do not feel that you will face any trouble :) Just do it when you’re ready. 

x N