do you ever get frustrated that you never asked to be born nor to be abused, but You are the one who has to do the work to heal yourself and your relationships (if you choose to)? I feel so frustrated and exhausted sometimes. I know my mother will never accept responsibility for fucking up my mental state nor will she ever try to improve herself :(
personally i don’t want to cut her off completely but i do keep myself at a safe distance (800+ miles away lol)
I'm so frustrated I want to scream at my mother "What did you do that for HUH? Why can't you make a single good decision, how could you do this to me, go back and have an abortion NOW" but sadly she wouldn't care and would interrupt me to say I'm ungrateful xD
But yes it isn't fair. I think people should be encouraged to think through if they'll be able to give someone a good life, if this person will be safe and happy at 10, 20, 30 and 50 before deciding to have a baby. Because if the answer is uncertain then you're just increasing the amount of human suffering in the world and what do you need to do that for. Just don't have kids and give yourself a good life instead. Having kids only to create a life of pain and suffering should be considered a sin and a crime.
I'm so sorry your mother did that to you. None of them ever accept responsibility but we can point fingers and say its their fault anyway, they do this at court even when the criminal says "it wasn't my fault". We have evidence that it is.
800+ miles away sounds right. Hope you stay safe anon. I'm sorry you've been born into this mess. You deserved better.
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