kinks include but are not limited to: feedism, weight gain, D/s, praise/shame, outgrown/tight/revealing clothing, teasing, body comparison, humiliation, degradation, corruption, lifestyle change, eager and gleeful self-destruction, horror and suspense, teratophilia, mind control, conditioning, edging, psychosexual torture. I like to include these kinks in AU versions of some fandoms, but it has to specifically fit the characters in my mind. Some of the fantasies probably aren't safe or sane, but those aren't real. All my fantasies happen with ENTHUSIASTIC consent, and NEVER with minors. Don't even start. >>> jar of kinks <<< why feedism? >>>
I've always had the fantasy of getting very fat on purpose. I never wanted to actually do it, but the thought has gotten me excited for many years. Eventually my egg cracked and it took me a while to get from "I'm an ugly fat woman" to "I'm a chubby man and that's hot." Some examples from popular fiction (Aziraphale, Laszlo Cravensworth) helped with that, but imo there could be more canon fat characters. I'm not gaining weight deliberately IRL. However, accepting my kink has helped me go from fat-shaming myself to enjoying my extra plush.
Trauma
I grew up chubby (in the 90s, R.I.P.) and was ridiculed for it even though I was objectively not that big. My mind turned fatshaming into kink, but in my imagined scenarios I'm always enjoying myself, which is very different to being fatshamed at school. I think it's a way of reclaiming it, and the friction of shame and consent turns into arousal. Idk. It do be that way.
Gaining
I'm not gaining IRL but I've gotten a bit thiccer in recent years because I'm allowing it. For me this kink is mostly a fantasy, paired heavily with themes of D/s and (see kinks in blog description). I like to imagine scenarios in which fictional characters (by proxy for myself) get obese, on purpose, or by force/coersion (but enthusiastically). I enjoy themes of degradation, alternating between equal amounts teasing and praise for "letting oneself go" and "losing self control" and "ruining one's body". Sometimes the weights I find exciting are much higher than I would ever realistically want to be. Fantasies can escalate, and that's okay. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Liking 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 something 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 as👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 a 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 kink👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 does not👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 mean👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 you 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 want👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 it👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 to 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 happen 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 for👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 real 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 (or maybe just within a degree that's safe and sane IRL. And also, no shame if some of you take it further! You do you! Have fun!)
Sizeism
I loathe sizeism and fatphobia IRL. I'm all for positive representation of plus size people and I will not shut up about the politics of it when talking about popular media. Thor should've stayed fat and Disney are cowards. Etc.
If you can't stand thoughts of consensual shame and humiliation scenarios about fat bodies, this blog is probably not the place for you. In my kink fantasies I enjoy fat shame. Fetishes work that way for some people.
FEEDISM ASKS BENEATH THE CUT
1. Do you have a goal weight? I have a FANTASY goal weight which would probably be around 200 kilos. I like exploring the extremes in my *fantasies*. But it's important to note I'm not setting out to gain weight intentionally. I want to continue being able to cosplay standard sized characters and fit into my clothes, especially the rare and selfmade ones I own. So I'm not setting out to gain more on purpose, but I'm not too concerned about it either. If it happens, it happens. I've gained some over the last few years, since I don't weigh myself I assume it's maybe 10kg. And that's fine, it's hot. I like it.
2. Do you have a weight limit? My current weight, maybe +/- a bit.
3. Where do you jiggle most? Belly, I think.
4. Do you have cellulite? Yes, mostly on my thighs and ass.
5. Do you have stretch marks? Old ones on my hips and chest.
6. Do you waddle? No, I'm too thin for that. I like the fantasy of being so fat I waddle, though, the fantasy of letting my utter indulgence and hedonism reshape my body so much it changes the way I move is very hot a gives me the same excitement bondage does.
7. Do you find it easy to gain weight? Yeah, I have a really slow metabolism. When I was trying to lose weight I'd say I'm one of those people who only need to look at carbs and put on a kilo.
8. What’s sexier, weight or size? Size.
9. Do you enjoy a stuffed belly, or just wish it was fat? Soft, jiggling, folding fat.
10. Is food sexy or is only fat sexy? I get turned on by junk food because of the shame and greed attached to having low self control around fattening food. I love the moment right before eating, when I'm feeling really hungry and can barely contain myself anymore. But despite loving gluttony, overeating can get really gross if it's not done neatly. Messy eating is a hard no.
11. Favourite cuisine? all cake with buttercream icing, indian food, sushi, vietnamese, fried chicken, burgers
12. Favourite binge food? chocolate, crisps, indian, sushi
13. Do you eat because you love gaining or gain because you love eating? historically, I gain weight because I love eating (too much). I'm not gaining intentionally, but I get horny thinking that I'm gonna get fatter while I'm eating.
14. What’s the sexiest food? Cake, because most savoury foods are gross as soon as they're not either on the plate or neatly in my mouth. I wouldn't waste cake smearing it all over me, but it can be eaten neatly and so it's the only one I'd say was sexy. Also, the idea of eating a "whole cake" face down ass up is really hot.
15. Do you want to be funnel fed?
I could imagine it, maybe not for the high calorie content but for the roleplay of it.
16. Into mutual gaining? No
17. Do you prefer a skinny feeder or a fat feeder? I love body contrast, I find it very hot being the fat one or getting deliberately fattened up while my partner is very slim. I find fat people hot as well, so if my partner for some reason wanted to be fat as well, I wouldn't have a problem with it. But size difference of them being slim and me being large is just what I'm specifically into.
18. Would you rather be fatter than your partner or skinnier? Fatter
19. Do you like to be on top? Sitting in someone's lap with my belly on display, yes Active fucking, yes
20. Favourite bit of fat for a partner to play with? Belly, back rolls, hips, thighs, ass, double chin
21. Into public displays of feedism? YES
22. What are the sexiest clothes to be fat in? Shorts, crop tops, anything tight but comfortable. On days when I feel provocative, I love going out in too tight or revealing clothes and show off that I'm "too fat to wear that"
23. Would you rather be worshipped or teased? TEASED! Could be absolutely cruel as well. I get off on the fantasy of being bullied about being too fat, put in clothes that don't fit, made to overeat in public, to show off how greedy and out of control I am. Everything I was ever ashamed of, but done by a loving partner who enjoys how hot and fat I look and how much I enjoy the degradation.
24. Do you enjoy friends and family reacting to your gain? I don't want my family to react at all. Some friends, I do kind of enjoy when they notice me getting chubbier and letting it all hang out, but obviously I don't want to harass them with my kink. One "friend" who has since been cancelled once said I was "brave" to go out in a crop top, which is a back handed compliment if ever there was one. But the comment itself is kinda hot. So you think I'm too fat to be out here with my gut on display? Tell me more, asshole.
25. Do you enjoy strangers reacting to your size? Yeahhh. I like to provoke and see how far I can push my fat shame reaction. I grew up in the 90s. I'm very self conscious of my rolls and bulges and my width. That self-consciousness turns into arousal really fast when I'm out.
26. Do you want fat friends? It doesn't matter to me what my friends look like
27. Do you wish you were fatter already, or is it all about the gain? Sometimes I wish I could shapeshift and be really fucking huge for a day and then go back down to my regular size.
28. Any aspects of gaining that you’re not a fan of? health issues obviously, messy eating, losing access to interesting clothes
29. Most underrated fat body part? arms, thicc arms are really hot
30. More food or better food? Better! But also... junk food is so good.
31. Sweet or savoury? Both
32. Soft feeding or forceful feeding? Gentle but forceful. I also love the idea of "having to" eat, almost like a Saw trap situation where I have to eat "or else".
33. Even gain or disproportionately fat?
Even, fat all over
34. Fat with muscle or soft and flabby? Soft and flabby, though muscle chub is also hot.
35. Active fatty or lazy fatty? I'm pretty active
36. Do you want to stay fit or let yourself go? Letting myself go and being unfit and then teased for it is SUCH a hot fantasy, but I'm not going to do it. I need to be able to move.
37. What is something that surprised you about gaining weight? that I genuinely like it so much now, after years of fat shaming myself and losing weight desperately
38. Have you ever broken furniture? probably like plastic chairs, but honestly, who hasn't broken those
39. Have you ever burst out of your clothes? yeah my thighs/ass broke an old pair of pants recently that I obviously got too fat for. Or maybe they were just old, idk
40. Have you ever got stuck in a tight spot? no, I'm not that big
41. Has your gain brought any new struggles? I have outgrown a few clothes, mostly pants.
42. Do you like to be measured? I'd like to be measured in a kink setting, tape around my belly, fat jiggled, fed cupcakes and told what a fat pig I've become and how much I've let myself go. IRL measuring would be stressful, but that's where kink and RL are completely seperate things.
43. Being tied up while fed? YES. I fantasize a lot about restraint and non-consensual roleplay.
44. Are you into squashing? Just mildly sitting on my partner, nothing extreme
45. Are you into bloating? no
46. Do you burp a lot? no and I'm not into it at all
47. How messy are you? as little as I can manage, messy food is a major squick
48. Do you wish everyone was fat, or would that make it less exciting? I don't care what other people do
49. If you are what you eat, what have you been eating? Indian food, most recently. I'm fried butter bread?
50. Ask anything!
