Good Girl Gone Greedy

Tales of an escort in the making...

[honeylimbss]

Sugaring is honestly 40% luck and 60% persistence. 💭

Don’t ever forget this, ladies! I’ve been wanting to say this for a while now, especially to the black and brown aspiring sugar babies. I can’t even tell you how many times I’ve gotten down on myself about not receiving the same kind of attention as I know white sugar babies do, or reading through a profile that sounds ideal and then at the end seeing the part that says “Caucasian, Latina, and Asian only - just a PREFERENCE”. 🙄 Don’t give up.

The other thing that I think needs to be said is that I am not conventionally pretty. I did the Big Chop about four months ago and still think that my nose is a little too big for my face (I was told that all the time growing up). But guess what? Every POT date that I’ve been on, I’ve walked away with an arrangement offer. I have been begged for second dates, been promised $150 for a first date and walked away after being given all the cash he had in his wallet, I’m preparing to move into my own studio apartment, paid my mom back all the money I’ve owed her, started saving again, and was able to buy my best friend a really expensive gift that I knew she’d love (lots of tears were shed).

I spent almost a year after my last vanilla relationship feeling like I wasn’t worth it. I was 19 when that relationship began; he was 26. When it ended, I felt like he had stolen something from me… my time, the gift of my intimate self, money I had spent going to visit him almost every weekend. I realized that what I had provided was labor – emotional and sexual labor, that was never reciprocated or compensated in a way that I felt okay with.

If a man wants you, he needs to be providing something in return. To me, orgasms aren’t enough. I can literally give myself a better orgasm than I’ve ever had with a man by using a vibrator. I have deeper emotional connections and conversations with my best friends than I’ve ever had with a man.

Do these men believe they can have that mind blowing orgasm without a woman? No. Can they feel that highly desired level of feminine energy without a woman? No. They need us. And for that, we deserve to be compensated for it.

Don’t forget that. You are worth it. You are beautiful. You deserve whatever it is that you want. You can have it. Go get it. 💕

xoxo, K

[theblackcourtesan]

All I want to do is focus on my hustle and connect with like minded women.

[dancinginlosangeles]

“A man will pick a hoe 9 times out of 10 because men cherish excitement over stability. ”

[danielle-mertina]

Not long ago somebody asked me my opinion on casual sex and I said that some ppl aren’t built for it on an emotional level but do it anyway and feel used.

I’d like to add that casual sex is just plain dangerous for women. Morally, who cares? I’m not into purity, saving yourself for marriage, or any of that. I firmly believe people should have sex when they feel like having sex in a consensual situation.

However, I would feel like I’m doing a disservice to any young women considering casual sex if I didn’t say that shit is potentially dangerous.

Out of all the men in the world, a lot of them are manipulators if not actual rapists. You have the violent rapists who are the minority but then you have the ones who will coyly try to make you wasted to lower your defenses, you have the ones where you consent to one thing and they take your defenseless during the act to force you into something you did not sign up for. Whether that is removing a condom, letting another man or men into the room, doing a sex act you’re not comfortable with, recording it and later disseminating it. This stuff is sooooo common!

And I’m not even gonna get into the ones who will say what you want to hear to get you to have sex. And then rescind it immediately afterwards.

Casual sex is physically and it is emotionally dangerous for women. Period. Any woman who has lived on a college campus knows this either firsthand or thru the experiences of their friends.

You don’t know what kind of man you’re dealing with if you know little about him, if you haven’t spent time with him. Even if you feel you do know him, you’re still at risk because some men are great actors. But when you don’t know him you really have zero idea what you’re getting yourself into.

Am I saying don’t have casual sex? No. I am saying know the risks. Really understand the risks. Because it is a very dangerous world for women and sexual exploitation is as serious as it is common. Don’t think it won’t happen to you.

[realmymelody]

i just wanna have soft glowy skin, long eyelashes, pink lips, rosy cheeks, lots of cash and no responsibilities

[brownandbomb]

I might be a ho BUT............ I'm a smart HO, a STRATEGIC Ho

[blackgirloutrage-deactivated201]

Couple of facts about me

1. I am NOT pro-black. I am pro-black women and children ONLY. There is a difference.

2. I don’t care to preserve the black family. Black women have been trying to preserve the black family for centuries. It’s time we become selfish with our energy, time and loyalty.

3. I don’t care about #blacklove. If you are with or if you find a black man that loves you and treats you like a queen, that’s great. However, contrary to popular belief, black women DO have options and I encourage them to explore all of those options. 

4. I am NOT black male-identified. I do not coddle black men. I do not say “not all”. I do not give them the benefit of the doubt or make excuses for them. I call them out actively and vehemently and I will never stop calling them out for their hatred and degradation of black women.

5. I don’t encourage black women to struggle. Struggle love is dead. I am very much so ANTI-STRUGGLE.

6. I realize that not every black woman is my sister. Some of them are just as evil and maniacal as black men and they will go down with the ship. Tough, but I don’t care!

7. Finally, I do not encourage black women to mule, suffer, or “hold a brotha down”. No one has ever held us down so why should we strap ourselves down with other people’s dilemmas? We need to stop with the kumbaya shit because time and time again we continue to kumbaya with our enemies.

[exposingmisogynoir-deactivated2]

Omg, can we be best friends? So happy to see a like minded person here.

[blackgirloutrage-deactivated201]

Best friends we shall be!!! 😊

[afrikangyal-deactivated20190204]

this shit here is all me 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[soflobrat]

Wow I’m here for it

[thecosmicheaux-blog]

Same

[angelsugarb-deactivated20180603]

Never let a broke man break your heart.

Instead, find a rich man and break his bank.

[missfiney]

I hate when I’m actually rooting for a nigga & they end up disappointing me like really bitch

[collegiate-confession]

[whore-n-training]

Menstrual Sponges

Fellow escorts: What kind of sponges do you recommend for hoeing on your period? Links would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance :)

[bitchycode]

[whore-n-training]

I'm officially an escort now

I had my first incall yesterday! Sold this pussy on backpage AND screened the ever living fuck out of every man I saw. Backpage and safe hoeing are not mutually exclusive. Im so happyyyyyyyy

[lonniiii-deactivated20170829]

Don’t share too much. Your goals need to be a mystery to many. They don’t need to know what you’re doing until it’s done.

[whore-n-training]

I need to remember this...

[theluxeblonde-deactivated201601]

The hardest part of being an Sb is this

(In my opinion) All of your fairy tale moments.. The ones you swear would be with the perfect guy? Some will happen with an old man you’re using for money. Sex doesn’t matter, faking emotions is whatever, but when he creates a fantasy that you wanted with someone else, be it a candlelit beach dinner, a private jet flying to Maui, or even your first apartment - it’ll be him. And it will be bittersweet. So just be ready.

[citrine8-deactivated20160610]

I’m sorry but holy shit. This. This is it, put into words. Too real

[tankaramo]

[sheholdsyoucaptivated]

Me @ myself

[okayysophia]