Musings about friendship ( and That Picture )
This is me literally typing out thoughts regarding That Picture. I'm going to put the hudcon of it all aside for a moment, there are far better posts by far more informed people, who have far better thoughts on the matter.
If this is recent ( which is apparently questionable at this point ), and you as a friend make a comment on the picture "missed these guys" this implies you haven't seen either of them for a while, right? And you're happy The Gang is back together and hanging out after being separated for a while. Why is neither of your friends looking happy or at the very least that they're enjoying themselves??? I'm no longer chronically online, especially not on IG, but when I was it was riddled with hang outs with friends and you can see everyone having a damn good time. Supposedly H and K and K2 are reunited but... the atmosphere is... like that? One can argue it's a snap shot of a candid relaxed moment, fair enough, but if The Vibe is Reunited Friends why choose this pic that showcases exactly nothing.
If this is recent, what is the narrative and who does posting this serve exactly? Even if you're a civilian ( like K squared are ) and even if everyone involved is new to all this, after a certain point your friendships and connections have to realize that nobody is in Kansas anymore... K squared have, by now, seen the madness firsthand, have been at parties, and they have definitely seen the social media madness. From a friendship perspective, and maybe I'm projecting too much of myself here, if I was in their shoes I would be VERY careful about posting/sharing/commenting ANYTHING atm. And if I was H I would be looking sideways at these things a little harder at this point in my life.
I don't know, friendships are very important to me, I have several long distance ones across the globe, and trust in friendships is so important especially when the dynamics change due to work, other friends, or plain old distance.
