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ovaries catching fire from watching turntablists killin it
like shit why do i find this so hot
Garden Party By Andrea Farina
where is drake I need him
i’m really bad at talking about things but i have not been doing so great lately
me for like the last three years but especially these past 2 months
literally just watched that episode HAHA
What are the signs of emotional abuse?
Abusive Expectations - Makes impossible demands, requires constant attention, and constantly criticizes.
Aggressing - Name calling, accusing, blames, threatens or gives orders, and often disguised as a judgmental “I know best” or “helping” attitude.
Constant Chaos - Deliberately starts arguments with you or others. May treat you well in front of others, but changes when you’re alone.
Rejecting - Refusing to acknowledge a person’s value, worth or presence. Communicating that he or she is useless or inferior or devaluing his or her thoughts and feelings.
Denying - Denies personal needs (especially when need is greatest) with the intent of causing hurt or as punishment. Uses silent treatment as punishment. Denies certain events happened or things that were said. Denies your perceptions, memory and sanity by disallowing any viewpoints other than their own which causes self-doubt, confusion, and loss of self-esteem.
Degrading - Any behavior that diminishes the identity, worth or dignity of the person such as: name-calling, mocking, teasing, insulting, ridiculing,
Emotional Blackmail - Uses guilt, compassion, or fear to get what he or she wants.
Terrorizing - Inducing intense fear or terror in a person, by threats or coercion.
Invalidation - Attempts to distort your perception of the world by refusing to acknowledge your personal reality. Says that your emotions and perceptions aren’t real and shouldn’t be trusted.
Isolating - Reducing or restricting freedom and normal contact with others.
Corrupting - Convincing a person to accept and engage in illegal activities.
Exploiting - Using a person for advantage or profit.
Minimizing - A less extreme form of denial that trivializes something you’ve expressed as unimportant or inconsequential.
Unpredictable Responses - Gets angry and upset in a situation that would normally not warrant a response. You walk around on eggshells to avoid any unnecessary drama over innocent comments you make. Drastic mood swings and outbursts.
Gaslighting -A form of psychological abuse involving the manipulation of situations or events that cause a person to be confused or to doubt his perceptions and memories. Gaslighting causes victims to constantly second-guess themselves and wonder if they’re losing their minds.
Love, Salem
The last one is a killer and very important.
this is extremely important tw #abuse
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No longer walking on eggshells and being able to be completely me has been an amazing transition in my life.
lol half of the guys I’ve been romantically involved with, some people in high school, and even a close friend (not anymore, thankfully I came to my senses), have emotionally abused me in several of these ways, while completely aware that I already have mental health problems… and thinking that they are completely in the right for doing so and hurting me; thinking that their treatment isn’t abuse, but a reprimanding that I “needed”.
No one reacts to emotional abuse in the same way. People who already have mental health issues tend to be affected more severely. Not knowing of someone's situation still is not an excuse for that kind of behavior.
Suicidal thoughts come from a feeling of worthlessness and a lack of belief in your own potential. This feeling may come from within, but it’s brought out by how you have been treated by others. I’m sad to say that I have had thoughts about ending my life at several periods of my life since 2011, an aftereffect of the emotional abuse others have inflicted on me- the way my mind reacted to it. All that time, I thought that I was the only one at fault, that I didn’t deserve to live and the perpetrators were giving me what I deserved.
Physical abuse leaves bruises on our skin; mental abuse leaves marks ingrained in our memories forever and tears on our perspectives, tainting and destroying any positivity we might have possessed about certain people and events. It leaves a dark hole waiting to suck you in at any moment once an emotion is triggered, a negativity that will eat at you every day until you muster the power to fight it back- and even so, it is a long battle, and mostly with YOURSELF.
The other person doesn’t understand that they’ve brought this upon another person’s life- they think that they not only haven’t done anything wrong, but further, they are self-righteous about their abuse.
You probably don't even know everything that a person has gone through; you don't have to know. It shouldn't take being aware that someone has a mental illness to be consciously considerate towards them. On that note, if you are aware of someone's mental health struggle and you're still not considerate, I have nothing to say to you.
Let's try not to fuel self-hate. Let's try to be more aware of how we treat each other.
PSA: Mental health is just as important as physical health. Mental abuse can be just as bad as physical abuse.
my life at home has become so mundane i talk to my parents like i'm aubrey plaza
side note, obsessed with parks & rec
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That pack of kraft cheese got more singles than she do tho.
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An English writer telephoned me from London, asking questions. One was, ‘What’s your alma mater?’ I told him, ‘Books.’
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We are dying from overthinking. We are slowly killing ourselves by thinking about everything. Think. Think. Think. You can never trust the human mind anyway. It’s a death trap.
Anthony Hopkins (via psych-facts)