Wine and Self-Loathing

PhD student - Theory head | Lover of wine | Lord of the idiots

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I really, really hate how awful I am in regards to keeping in contact with others. I want healthy and fulfilling relationships with my friends, but it’s very hard for me to wholly invest myself. I want to talk to you, but it’s difficult for me to muster the energy to do so sometimes. I want to hang out with you, but isolation also sounds nice right now. I’ll read your texts, but I’m not necessarily in the mood to reply at the moment. Then I feel anxious attempting to reach out when I do have the energy and I am in a good mood because I feel like I pushed you away and you dislike me now, so I usually remain isolated. I feel selfish because of it. And I feel like a bad friend.

[joli--coeur]

love is on its way to you.

good friends are on their way to you.

happy moments are on their way to you.

life is about to get so good.

[dankmemesreasonforliving]

[cannibal-rainbow]

“they” (1 word) is shorter than “he or she” (3 words)

“they” is more inclusive than “he/she”

“themself” flows more naturally than “him or herself”

“they” is less clunky than “(s)he”

it’s time to replace the awkward “she or he”

[edgar-allen-potpourri]

“hey can you go ask they what does they want for dinner, and when is they coming over to watch movies with they?”

[edrec]

“Hey, can you go ask them what they want for dinner, and when they’re coming over to watch movies?”

Step one is learning how to talk like a human person.

[agirlnamedally]

the most universally sacred childhood experience for milllenials was listening to breakaway by kelly clarkson as we dramatically stared out the window during long car rides

[transpocsuggestion]

i hope all the trans people of color reading this have a wonderful year filled with happiness, safety, and success

[themadcapmathematician]

Kids with bad parents are more likely to be shaped by cartoons characters they idolized growing up than their bad parents, pass it on 

[mabylc]

me: not today, satan 

satan: you’ve been canceling our plans for weeks now. if it’s something i said, please just tell me

[lesbianrey]

wanting to be an informed citizen by engaging w/ the news versus not wanting to become even more depressed than usual

[youngadultquoted]

I can almost hear it—the distant clang of the next phase of my life, hurtling down the tracks.

Emery Lord, Meet Cute

[c0nt8ct-deactivated20211225]

[shacklefunk-deactivated20220623]

whenever somebody starts talking about how mean cats are i start thinking about how mean to cats they must be

[wineandselfloathing]

Me: I'm so stressed, I have way too much to do this semester.

Chair of the Dept.: Hey! Can you cover this class next week?

Me: I sure can!

Professor: Hey! Here's a really crazy opportunity but it has to be done way faster than normal. Do you want to do it?

Me: I sure do!

Also me: *internally screaming* what the fuck did I just do

[truuqueen]

where’s my packages I ordered a second ago

[chaarmandeeer-deactivated201904]

no reason for yall to hate raccoons theyre just tiny dogs in need of a loving n caring home

[blonded004]

dogs dont have hands

[canthinkofaurl-deactivated20221]

they should

[nolabird]

@recovering-academic

[1980vibes]

when someone fucks you over, don’t you dare ask yourself, “what did i do to deserve this?”  NOTHING. you didn’t do shit. someone taking advantage of your kindness will never be your fault.

[bob-belcher]