[strawberryhorrorshow]

Being abused made me such a “good kid.”

I was

Always polite

Never acted without permission

Never spoke out of turn

Always did what I was told

And it’s shitty that I was considered mature and praised for those things, and all of those characteristics have translated into me being an immature, “bad adult.”

Now I

Have difficulty making a keeping friends

Can’t act without permission/am dependent on others for direction

Am terrible at communicating

Have no agency/personal compass

It’s a really difficult thing for people who were abused as children to grapple with. What made us good children make us bad adults.

[clarknokent]

This is Important

[alternativeblkgal]

THIS IS MY LIFE WOW

[cyberpunknoire]

Conversely, while 90% of the time we’re kind and polite and accommodating, we get super fucking angry and have major outbursts when we feel threatened Which is not a good look either

[kanyeshrugtae]

Wow. This is an eye-opener

[ayemuhhfucka]

wow i’m really fucked up

[sin-for-the-win]

Oh god it’s uncanny

[withoutblindfolds]

Oh my ... This is me

[mautlyn-deactivated20170727]

but yeah it does seem that most het men aren’t even attracted to women lol they find women in their natural state repulsive, they find the female body as it naturally exists repulsive and make all kinds of crude jokes about ugly vaginas etc even TO the women they date sometimes, but they are turned on by the power they can wield over women and that’s why they’re so attracted to hyperfemininity and sex dolls and hurting women, they’re attracted to dehumanization and degradation of women…male heterosexuality in our society is mostly sadism

[mypsychology]

If you’re thinking of studying psychology, follow this @mypsychology.

[brightlightsloudnoises]

heavy books

we are taught in school that the average person has nothing important to say, that only the great minds should be studied, that only those who have been wounded by god in the heart and mind should be memorized and recited

but i have heard stray comments from faceless voices while waiting for coffee or buying gum,

off-handed lines that lift me higher than the heaviest books

[babyanimalgifs]

[sleepygyal]

me: *keeps creating dramatic love scenarios at night and can’t fall asleep*

[zachsgay]

Accidentally watches three seasons of a show in 4 days

[kieletlanguage]

When everyone doubts your language abilities just because you are not as good at speaking as at writing.

[hallolanguages]

Don’t forget when everyone doubts your language abilities because midway through a sentence in a language, your brain just stops working and can’t think of what it wants to say.

[introvertunites]

A perfect day. Reblog if you agree.

[introvertunites]

If you relate to being an introvert, follow @introvertunites​.

[just-shower-thoughts]

I wonder how many times a small delay such as losing my keys for 15 seconds has saved me from being in the wrong place at the wrong time, ultimately saving my life.

[introvertunites]

Be an introvert and also be a vegan is like a nightmare: EVERYONE needs to ask WHY and HOW you live in that way, forcing you in endless conversations (and sometimes trying to change your mind... like WTF u care???). Plus, when you eat at restaurants you don't know well or are new for you, you have to collect all your courage to ask if there is any dairy, meat or other stuff... be both a vegan and an introvert it's just hard -___-

That must be horrible. We support you here (:

[mareya]

the other side

[relative]

i dont think i can put into words how much i enjoy this

[khoaphan]

Baby Octopus!

[khanos-deactivated20170219]

I refuse to die without being fluent in at least 5 languages

[alisonhendrrix]

do you ever think you’re special to someone but then you see this person acting the same with everyone else and you just kind of 

oh

alright

[sarahseeandersen]