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idk wtf this sideblog is anymore...mainly just keeping it for nostalgia. my main blog is @somearoshit which I actually use

[beawuar-deactivated20260320]

I love hijab Mohawks

[wowwwgross]

one of the cute things my gf does is she'll say the most unhinged thing in a silly voice and then go "you know that one? 😃?" and I have to inform her that no, I absolutely do not know that one

[wowwwgross]

follow up to this being sometimes she'll do a dramatic performance of whatever songs stuck in her head and then go "did you like that? 🥺👉👈" in the softest little voice

[wowwwgross]

sometimes sex is just an elaborate way to stim

[aroacearchangel]

aro and/or ace culture is wondering “is that actually a thing alloromantics and/or allosexuals experience? or is it just the Media™ pushing unrealistic narratives for everyone involved?”

[wowwwgross]

my gf: I think dating an autistic person is better actually, because you just stim them for a bit and they get happy

[wowwwgross]

just thinking about the fact that my gf just let me explain the entirety of dungeons and dragons to her on our first date. incredible. outstanding. 10000/10

[wowwwgross]

one of the cute things my gf does is she'll say the most unhinged thing in a silly voice and then go "you know that one? 😃?" and I have to inform her that no, I absolutely do not know that one

[wowwwgross]

guess who had sex for the first time this weekend :3

[wowwwgross]

get you a girl who'll in-depth analyze how she sees your gender and explain it to you in great detail

[wowwwgross]

I just remembered that technically I told my gf I love her already?? it was in the 'i love you, but [insert criticism here]' way and it was by accident but still. that happened

[wowwwgross]

being ace and in a sexual relationship has been... Interesting™. turns out how comfy I am with doing spicy shit fully depends on my libido. which has its own cycle. which means two weeks out of the month I am Ready To Fucking Go at any moment and the other two weeks I become akin to a bacteria with how nonsexual I am. it's a wild experience

[todaysbird]

u don’t like pgion? 🐦? coo coo?

[wowwwgross]

my dear gf lovingly refers to my clit as 'big boy' and has decided my vibrator is also masculine for some reason, which led her to the conclusion that even when I'm jerking off alone I'm still having gay sex

[wowwwgross]

I was discussing some random aro shit with my partner the other day and off handedly said allo and she paused, gave me the most baffled looked, and said 'aloe vera????'

[wowwwgross]

it's so fucking funny to me that everyone I've met has assumed and been very adamant ab me being a top when in reality I'm the biggest fucking sub

[wowwwgross]

being with my partner has really made me reevaluate a lot of my other relationships. due to being autistic, I generally just..take what I can get when it comes to friendships etc. but being with her has given me an actually healthy and fulfilling relationship to compare everyone against and like. they are not looking so good in comparison

[wowwwgross]

like something I've been grappling with in the past few months (esp coming to terms w being autistic) is that it really feels like for a lot of my relationships the other person only really likes me when I'm mirroring them or aligning my life with their ideas of what I should be doing. and like yes, I'm mirroring my partner but it doesn't feel like I have to or that she wouldn't like me as a person anymore if I wasn't mirroring her. whereas with everyone else it seems like they no longer value me as a person the second I stop mirroring them or agreeing with them

[wowwwgross]

and this whole situation is even more frustrating because I've been talking to people for years ab equalizing romance and friendship, not leaving your friends behind for a new romo relationship, etc and so I feel like people are going to see this as me being hypocritical. but in reality it's that she actually treats me like an human being and not just a side character to make her feel good

[wowwwgross]

being with my partner has really made me reevaluate a lot of my other relationships. due to being autistic, I generally just..take what I can get when it comes to friendships etc. but being with her has given me an actually healthy and fulfilling relationship to compare everyone against and like. they are not looking so good in comparison

[wowwwgross]

like something I've been grappling with in the past few months (esp coming to terms w being autistic) is that it really feels like for a lot of my relationships the other person only really likes me when I'm mirroring them or aligning my life with their ideas of what I should be doing. and like yes, I'm mirroring my partner but it doesn't feel like I have to or that she wouldn't like me as a person anymore if I wasn't mirroring her. whereas with everyone else it seems like they no longer value me as a person the second I stop mirroring them or agreeing with them