Enbious

(Portmanteau of enby and envious) | 22 and 19 | Nefarious partner posting | Follow us on Onlyfans!

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Boootyyyy 🫨

[littlecow-404]

I wanted to be a slut today but my allergies have other plans for me

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Wowie

[perfectlyripeclementine]

“this is all for your pleasure but your pleasure is for me” is such a good dynamic. they can’t stop giving you more, more, more - can’t pull their fingers out of you, can’t stop hitting that one spot that makes you shiver. them fucking you selfishly, taking everything they want from you - and what they want is your pleasure.

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My ears are burning

[a-queer-sub-baby]

Reblog or like this if you are a nsfw blog run by a nonbinary and/or queer person who is comfortable with a queer nonbinary person engaging with your posts.

[x-enbious-x]

Time for my personal rant about the long term effects of not giving proper after care to your submissive...

So first off, what aftercare is for people who don't know: Aftercare is time you take after play to make eachother feel better about themselves and reassure that they did well and they are safe. This can involve but is nowhere close to limited to:

Reassurance that they did well and are safe

Cuddles

Snack and drink

Maybe a movie

Whatever your subs personal aftercare needs are

For a cg/l dynamic sometimes helping them into littlespace can be helpful

Now for the importance of aftercare. When you are doing a scene or session your brain uses up a lot of your feel good chemicals, more for some than others. When play is over, you often are drained of all those feel good chemicals which can make you emotionally 'bottom out' and those chemicals need time to recharge, this is where the aftercare mentioned before comes into play.

But what are the effects of not receiving aftercare you may ask? Well it can be absolutely detrimental to a subs self esteem, can cause performance anxiety, and make future drops exponentially worse. It can also cause a lot of other nasty mental stuff to happen after play that can take a long time with a real fucking Dom to work through.

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I feel like this post didn't get enough interaction! More people (especially the large majority of Tumblr "Doms") need to see this!

[babychcrry]

this is great, though I will add that aftercare is not just for the submissive! doms need it too. take care of your doms. reassure them that you enjoyed that assbeating or being called such horrible names or whatever else you did during the scene. let them know you're okay and that you enjoyed yourself and that you still care about them. dom drop is a real thing and can effect doms just as bad as it does subs!

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This is a very valid point! I planned to write a post about this soon but I was mainly focusing on submissive aftercare because I was very pissed at the way a friend of mine in the community was treated.

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Ur boyfriend sends you this what do u reply?

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Fun fact: I'm actually the one in that costume.

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Thank you guys so much for 2000 followers!

I've been running this blog since April 2017 and this really means a lot to me. I know I kinda changed what I post a little late in the game but it's great to see that I still get so much support. Seeing that you guys like the content I'm putting out is a real confidence boost for me. Thank you guys again for this huge milestone!