Thamar

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If you have nothing else to do this weekend, come check it out. 😁

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2020 PLEASE CHILL

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You know, I've noticed that ppl have an issue with me because I'm quiet and reserved. Like, it shocks them that as a black woman I'm not "loud" or "aggressive". I would always have ppl tell me I should talk more. That they need me to be more "sassy" at work because they know I have it in me to be like that. I'm an introverted person. I don't speak unless I care to or when it is necessary. I'm tired of the stereotypes that I get. Not every black girl is the same. We come in many shades, shapes, personalities, hair textures, etc. My meekness shouldn't weird you out because you didn't expect a black girl to be more quiet and shy. There are a lot of woman like me.

Now if you do try me...then you WILL see that "sassy black woman" come out lol.

Okay, rant over lol.

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Embrace The Crushing

Last night, I was watching a video of T.D. Jakes speaking with Steven Furtick at Elevation church. Guys, it wrecked me! He spoke about crushing and how God applies pressure in our lives to eventually give us power.

You’re probably wondering, “What the heck is she talking about?” and I totally understand because in this season in my life, I feel a lot of pressure and there are moments where I ask…

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Learning To Let Go. I had to separate myself from someone who I thought was a friend of mine. I'm not going to disclose who it it but I do feel like it is important to discuss when it is time to end a friendship.

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“As for myself, I had a lot to say. But I was silent.”

— Albert Camus, from Youthful Writings; “Intuitions,” wr. c. 1932

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welcome back

Now I know you are probably wondering, “Where the heck has she been?”

But you most likely don’t care.

Well in the past year and some months, I have been caught up in my life. I should let you know that I am married now. Hence, the name change. I finally graduated college. I am way more involved in church then I thought I would be.

So far life is good.

I’ve lost some people in my life but God has…

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We ain’t never seen another drag quite like dis here

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Iconic.

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Exactly!!!! Angela Bassett deserves an Oscar, especially for that performance! Laurence Fishburne deserves one too! He played Ike Turner so well that I’m hated him for yearsss! Even now, when I watch Blacklish…I’m lowkey like…‘I still remember what you did to Anna Mae.’ 🍰😒 lol

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