No one ever said love would be this difficult.

(Just a young woman in love - welcome to my journey about the two men who have found a special place in my heart. Header credit: Vivienne Gucwa)

[gluten-free-pussy]

Lately I’ve been doing this thing where when men give me shit at my job, I choose to instead speak to their wives/girlfriends/female counterpart. I had a dude today try to yell at me and I ignored him and instead spoke in a very level voice to his wife instead. He literally stomped his feet like a fucking toddler and said “stop ignoring me! I’m talking!” And his wife said “George, please use a quieter voice. You’re embarrassing me.”

[afronerdism]

You are a genius and I’m using this

[gluten-free-pussy]

Lol I learned it from my mom. She does this all the time and eventually the guy either sulks off somewhere or adjusts his behaviour and THEN she’ll address him. I did this with my friends puppies when I was training them and it works the same tbh

[jamaicanblackcastoroil]

[ameliaglitter]

Whenever a married couple calls in escalated, I always address whichever one seems the most rational. 9/10 it’s the wife. Usually, the husband gets cut out of the conversation until we’re done.

Memorable quotes:

“She’s explaining it to me now and you were wrong.”

“Honey, stop talking so the nice lady can help us.”

“Why don’t you go have some coffee while Amelia and I figure this out? Hmmmm?”

“I understand it and I will explain it to you later. Let me get this taken care of.”

“I understand, sweetie, can you explain it to my husband real quick? [aside] Now, you listen to this lady and don’t interrupt!”

Calm wives in the face of their overemotional husbands are a customer service lifeline.

[franticchaos]

Reblog to save someone from unnecessary bullshit

[courtnashe]

And yet women are the hysterical ones…

[seashellronan]

honestly life’s too short to not cry about stupid shit like sometimes you just gotta fling yourself onto your bed and burst into tears, cleanse ur little heavy heart

[xroomfortwo]

But I wish I was at your place, so I can forget about all the wretched people in my life.

[xroomfortwo]

Blue

It’s funny how the person you’d never even expect to fall for comes into your life. The more you get to know them, the more you realize this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. No other person is perfect for them but you, and you can’t even fathom seeing him/her with anyone else. You try to distance yourself from that person, finding any fault because you know deep down inside this all scares you. But when you see their smile, all the doubt fades.

[xroomfortwo]

I’m going to hug him and not wanna let go.

[xroomfortwo]

Fast forward almost two years later, and that's exactly what I did.

[polandgallery]

[just-like-u-said-it-would-b]

[sensitiveguy]

The joy of cassettes

[swagogaws]

[xroomfortwo]

Now, when the fuck was the last time i actually made a post? So, 2016 is here and many things have changed since the end of 2015 till, now. Blue and I actually have closer contact to one another, I literally work in the museum where Haze's studio is, and a few other things have taken place, as well, but I will share that later on. I hope everyone's New Year was swell!

[certasluas]

[kushandwizdom]

[sensitiveguy]

Ugh yes, why do I keep forgetting this :/

[fresh-outta-box]

[sensitiveguy]

😍

[xroomfortwo]

I fell in love with a geek, a cute geek.

[dolllparts-xo]

[versaversa]

[grace--upon--grace]

Kaylyn Weir

[xroomfortwo]

A person can never tell you what you feel for a person, especially if you yourself know that you Iove them. Just because they don't know the essence of your bond doesn't give them the right to judge how you feel about them.