OK, so I've sort of just realised I have missed out one of the biggest parts of my whole life.
Anyone who goes to a busy gym will understand, that there is the one boy who you are in love with, and he probably doesn't even know you exist, but you and your friends know every single thing about him right?
Well me and my friends all have one of these, some of them have more than one, OK OK most of them have multiple ha!
But mine was always this one boy, I had seen him in the gym for a long time, and I am just WAY too shy to go talk to him, so like a stupid little girl I would giggle as he walked past and just act sooo stupid I guess.
Anyway, one day when stalking, I realised that we actually already follow each other on all social media, and he had actually liked most of my recent posts on Instagram.. yeah I don't check notifications that often ha!
So like a 12 year old I started to like his back, anyway this must have worked as the 27th January 2014, Jacob Farthing direct messaged me on twitter these exact words "Come train legs with us tomorrow?"
That was it, I had butterflies the lot!
Anyway after agreeing, I later bailed, well stood him up, thinking I had lost my chance, I messaged him telling him I had chickened out, we set up a new date to go, however THIS time I was stuck in traffic for FOUR whole hours on my way home from uni! I turned up at the gym as he was leaving! I was mortified! Anyway we got talking and we trained together for a few weeks.
Until the 21st February I was out in Cardiff for my friends birthday and I was sooo drunk, and like a real gentleman he came and picked me up, looked after me when I was sick and well was just a true gem. I woke up the next morning so incredibly embarrassed! The first time I went to his house and this happened! He didn't seem to care and after I went home we arranged to see each other again.
From here we were inseparable. Every single day we would see each other, whether after uni or before work or even just at the gym. just whenever we could.
As you can probably imagine, breaking to him that I was doing a year abroad in Italy was a hard conversation. But we decided to try to make it work.
We are still together now, and he is living in Quincy California doing a Soccer Scholarship, yeah I know big distance hey?! but so worth it when seeing him at Christmas etc. We talk everyday when possible and with a 9 hour time difference we try to Facetime as much as we can!
If anyone ever says long distance relationships are easy then they're lying, but if anyone every says they're impossible are also lying!
It is only 96 days until I next get to see the love of my life when he comes to spend the summer here with me!
Heres a picture of us from Christmas!
Catch you in the next one