Simply Summer

여름. Musings, thoughts, and reflections of my life after a break-up. 

[asianmovie]

My Airhostess Roommate (2009)

[wordsnquotes]

It is sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew.

Henry Rollins (via wordsnquotes)

[wnq-anonymous]

We live in an age where we feel guilt whenever we have to cut someone off but the reality is that some relationships do need to die, some people do need to be unfollowed and defriended. We aren’t meant to be this tethered to the people in our past. The Internet mandates that we don’t burn bridges and keep everyone around like relics but those expectations are unrealistic and unhealthy. Simply put, we don’t need to know what everyone else is up to. We’re allowed to be choosy about who we surround ourselves with online and in real life, even if it might hurt people’s feelings.

Ryan O’Connell, You Don’t Have To Be Friends With Everybody  (via wordsnquotes)

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Remember that time when you felt hopeless, got lost and didn’t know where to go? And here you are today! You survived.

Unknown (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Over time you begin to realise that some people just aren’t worth it anymore.

Unknown (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

[browngirlblues]

Women against feminism are basically just arguing that their individual lives are fine and they don’t care about what other women go through

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cutting ties

it was about damn time.

Know what my favorite part of this is? That one only has ties on a small part of their body whereas the other is tied all along one side up to the face, meaning one person is not quite as invested in the relationship as the other. Even better thought, the one with most ties is the one with the scissors. Im so glad they’ve built up the courage to leave even if it means cutting out a larger part out of their life than the other.

Wow needed to see this at this moment.

……….

[satorugojjo]

being multilingual and trying to find a word in the language you’re speaking but all you can get in your head are words from another language that you literally do not need right now. 

[yeoreuminjune]

Trying to speak Korean and fuggin Spanish comes out. Like, what the hell, I haven't used Spanish since high school.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

The person you’re meant to be with will never have to be chased, begged or given an ultimatum.

Mandy Hale (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

[hanbi-i]

With just one wink I live in your heart right?

[yeoreuminjune]

Yes, right.

[fotzenkinder]

He forgot about you. Remember that.

Remember this every day until it sinks in. Keep reminding yourself of this every time you are reminded of him until you realise that you deserved better. You deserve better. Remember that. (via c-oquetry)

[unpoeticheartbreak]

The person who broke you can’t be the one to fix you. Remember that.

(via im-sad-lets-have-sex)

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Don’t be afraid to lose what was never meant to be.

OCC (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

[thelovewhisperer]

Maybe your first love is the one that sticks with you because it’s the only person who will ever receive all of you. After that, you learn better. But, most of all, no matter what, a piece of you forever remains left behind in the heart of the one you loved; a piece no future lover could ever get, no matter what. That piece holds innocence, the belief that love really can last forever. It holds friendship and pain, trial and error, that one kiss you’ll never forget, and that night under the stars you can never get back. It holds youth, and everything you thought love would be. Everything that was proven wrong.

Daily Tumblr Love Quotes (via thelovewhisperer)

[yeoreuminjune]

A year later.

So this month marks a year of my singleness. Time really does fly. I never thought I would make it. But here I am, living (as of now... Not sure if the moldy waffle will change that). I'd be lying if I said I'm 100% over it. I'm still bitter as hell. I can't stand to look at him. I can't even stand being near him. And sometimes I have these thoughts of him and his girl all happy. They officially got together not even a month after we broke up. So their anniversary is probably coming up. Assholes. But you know what, if I compared myself to how I was one year ago, I'd say I am in a much, much better place. This was my first serious break up, and it's hard because in these situations, you just blindly crawl through and try to figure things out. No one can really help you heal but yourself. As of now, I don't have thoughts of dating again anytime soon. For the longest time, I wanted to be with someone to help ease my pain and to show my ex that I didn't need him. But at the same time I was also scared of getting hurt. Now, I can say that I'm fine being single. And most, if not all, of the time I am actually enjoying it! Such a big change from someone who desperately wanted her ex to just come back so she won't be alone. I am okay now. Not completely okay, but soon, I will be.

[yeoreuminjune]

I hope I don't die.

I was happily eating away at my waffle, when I realized that some of the dark circles that were supposed to be chocolate chips were actually dark green and not dark brown. Does eating a moldy waffle kill a person? I hope not. I hope I didn't eat any of the moldy parts. Yuck.

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if you miss someone who does not miss you, or who is no good for you, or is unattainable, take all the love you once felt for them and spread it around other places. put your love in worthwhile people and things, turn the romance in to passions for hobbies or admiration for others- enrich your own life. focus on yourself and those who actively make you happy.