Stay strong guys, we all have those days where we donât know how to cope but hopefully these will help you instead of hurting yourself. â¤â¤â¤
Need to express pain and intense emotions
Paint, draw, or scribble on a big piece of paper with red ink or paint
Express your feelings in a journal
Compose a poem or song to say what you feel
Play an instrument with songs that express your emotions then
Write down any negative feelings and then rip the paper up
Listen to music that expresses what youâre feeling
If you need to calm and soothe yourself
Take a bath or hot shower
Pet or cuddle with a dog or cat
Wrap yourself in a warm blanket
Massage your neck, hands, and feet
If you feel disconnected and numb
Call a friend (you donât have to talk about self-harm)
Hold an ice cube in the crook of your arm or leg
Chew something with a very strong taste, like chili peppers, peppermint, or a grapefruit peel.
Go online to a self-help website, chat room, or message board
If you need to release tension or vent anger
Exercise vigorouslyârun, dance, jump rope, or hit a punching bag
Punch a cushion or mattress or scream into your pillow
Squeeze a stress ball or squish Play-Doh or clay
Rip something up (sheets of paper, a magazine)
Make some noise (play an instrument, bang on pots and pans)
Buy cheap dishes or jars at the dollar store and smash them (safely)
Substitutes for the cutting sensation
Use a red felt tip pen to mark where you might usually cut
Rub ice across your skin where you might usually cut
Put hair elastics (not rubber bands) on wrists, arms, or legs and snap them instead of cutting or hitting
Cut an apple with your blades, scissors, knife, etc