Aint My Fault

[rpcburnbook]

How exactly is burnbook better than tattler? She's posting people getting smeared and dumped on with no proof, insults ppl expressing their opinions, and victim blames by saying anyone targeted by tea blogs or even dislikes them must have something to hide. You're not better than tattler by any stretch. At least tattler stfu most of the time

Never said I was perfect, I did say lower your standards and I don’t think I’ve insulted anyone outside of stating a habit I’ve seen with that particular argument. But what do I know? Guess I better stfu.

[yet-another-rper]

A couple of us have commented on this before on varying sides. Burnbook has actively reached out to people to talk about things as well as full-on stopped conversations (with full transparency, idk if the posts are still there, haven't checked) bc it was just going in circles and was a couple of people.

[rpcburnbook]

please consider closing this blog too. so many people posted on tattler conveying the utter stress, trauma, and detriment that tea blogs have on their mental health. people were in dark places; people were suicidal; people were getting doxxed. the rp community will be a better place without any tea blogs at all. if you have any heart or conscience, please close your doors too before it gets out of hand.

“If you have any heart or conscience” is truly such a backwards way to get what you want. You’re giving toxic positivity. You’re giving “if I uwu in their inbox enough, I’ll get what I want.” You’re giving “think of the children!” while being pro-life, not pro-choice.

This blog will stand and I will continue to filter, delete, draft asks that are cruel in nature. I will continue to try to reach out to people who have been named (when possible) and delete previously posted asks. I am not Tattler- I have tabled discussions and baiting in order to avoid becoming Tattler 2.0, and will continue to do so.

“If you have a heart or conscience” maybe you’ll do some introspection and ask yourself what you’re so scared of being named for.

[strong-enoughx]

I can't comment on the rest of this but I will say that burnbook did indeed reach out to me unprompted (I just reblogged something) and offered to delete stuff about me, which I gladly accepted. It was a kind gesture, and I really appreciate it. I don't agree with tea blogs either, but burnbook is not like tattler.

[yet-another-rper]

I know Burnbook has chosen not to post one or two of my Asks/Responses in the past. The conversation wasn't uncivilized or anything. But Burnbook just said "Nope. We're done talking about this." basically.

Definitely not a Tattler 2.0.

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