Itâs weird. Way back in the day (like, pre-Voltron Legendary Defender era) the relationship between two unrelated fictional guys being considered âbrotherlyâ would have been quite validating to us slash shippers. Itâs like, oh wow, theyâre that close, huh. They already consider themselves each otherâs family. Theyâd die for each other. Weâd have thought a romantic relationship stemming from that was perfectly logical!
And itâs not like the ship would ever be canon, so having that sort of deep bond was the next best thing. The fanworks would just have to take it from there.
But itâs so different these days. A character says âyouâre like a brother to meâ and now shipping two unrelated fictional guys is literally incest? Even though this has been a trope in straight romances for forever? Wow, the view has really shifted! Of course, shippers back in the day were much looser regarding canon roles, ages, power dynamics, or hell, even whether or not two characters existed in the same universe in the first place! But this is one argument Iâve just never been a fan of. Like, I used to say my first gf was my sister all the damn time because I didnât know how else to interpret my feeings for her early on. And the fact that this seems to disproportionately affect m/m ships and f/f ships is telling, too. Also, peopleâs views of each other can...change? Sure, maybe Character A once saw Character B as his brother, but something is different now, and so he has to go and navigate those feelings. I mean the whole point of fanworks is exploration. For the characters as well as the writer. And just like back in the day, the ships are rarely canonized, which means something is always being changed or expanded. We just didn't have killjoys in our ears telling us we couldnât ship two unrelated fictional guys because one of them once referred to the other as a brother or whatever. Well, we did, cause homophobes exist, we just didnât usually hear it from fellow shippers.
















