Kinda Unhinged Userboxes

I make things & I'm probably on your DNI

[you-sir-box]

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Hello! We are multiple entities who create userboxes - some in the usual text format, and some not.

We're probably on your DNI, and we don't expect most folks to agree with every single thing posted.

Some userboxes are for us, some for friends and other trustees, some for acquaintances, and some are even for... enemies?

We do not take requests on this account. We do not have a DNI, we simply ask that you be respectful. We will block you if you're being an asshole.

Asks are turned on for any respectful/good faith questions you may have. We don't judge; there are no "wrong" questions. Please know that we may not always have the energy or words to explain things.

As for crediting, you do not need to credit us at all for any userboxes we create, so long as you are not claiming the work to be that of your own or of someone else who is not us.

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[you-sir-box]

Comments: Sex is a social construct.

[Image ID: A userbox with a muted teal border and a light teal background. In the left side box is an image of the transgender symbol. It consists of a circle with the mars arrow coming out from the top right, the venus plus symbol coming out from the bottom, and a combined mars-venus symbol coming out from the top left. The symbol is a gradient from blue at the top right, to purple in the middle, to pink in the bottom left. In a darker muted teal font, it reads "You can change your sex!" /End ID.]

[you-sir-box]

Comments: Don't forget about queerhets!!

[Image ID 1: A userbox with a muted sky blue border and a light sky blue background. In the left side box is a transhet flag. It consists of five horizontal stripes, the colors in order from top to bottom are muted medium blush pink, muted pastel blush pink, warm gray, muted pastel sky blue, and muted dark sky blue. In a darker muted sky blue font, it reads "Transhet visibility." /End ID 1.]

[Image ID 2: A userbox with a purple border and a light purple background. In the left side box is an enbyhet flag. It consists of five horizontal stripes, the colors in order from top to bottom are muted dark yellow, muted medium yellow, warm gray, muted purple, and muted dark purple. In a darker purple font, it reads "Enbyhet visibility." /End ID 2.]

[you-sir-box]

Comments: none

[Image ID 1: A userbox with a purple border and a pastel purple background. In the left side box is an androgyne flag. It consists of three vertical stripes, the colors in order from left to right are bright pink, dark purple, and bright sky blue. In a darker purple font, it reads "This user is androgyne." /End ID 1.]

[Image ID 2: A userbox with a periwinkle blue border and a light periwinkle blue background. In the left side box is the genderfluid flag. It consists of five horizontal stripes, the colors in order from top to bottom are pink, white, lilac purple, black, and dark blue. In an indigo font, it reads "This user is genderfluid." /End ID 2.]

[Image ID 3: A userbox with a muted orange border and a pale orange background. In the left side box is a multigender flag. It consists of five horizontal stripes, the colors in order from top to bottom are navy blue, muted sky blue, muted orange, muted sky blue, and navy blue. In a darker orange font, it reads "This user is multigender." /End ID 3.]

[Image ID 4: A userbox with a sky blue border and a light sky blue background. In the left side box is the xenogender flag. It consists of seven horizontal stripes and a symbol. The colors of the stripes in order from top to bottom are light red, light peach orange, light orange, light yellow, light blue, light periwinkle indigo, and purple. The symbol is a white half circle with the curve facing up. Three curved lines following the outer curve are inside of the half circle, as well as a filled in star shape. In a darker sky blue font, it reads "This user is xenogender." /End ID 4.]

[you-sir-box]

Comments: *nonbinary sigh*

[Image ID 1: A userbox with an indigo border and a light indigo background. In the left side box is the nonbinary flag with a BDSM symbol on top. The nonbinary flag consists of four horizontal stripes, the colors in order from top to bottom are yellow, white, purple, and black. The BDSM symbol consists of a white circle with three red teardrop shapes curving counter-clockwise, each of these teardrop shapes has a blue dot in the bottom of the teardrop shapes. In a darker indigo font, it reads "Don't forget to include nonbinary kinksters!" /End ID 1.]

[Image ID 2: A userbox with an indigo border and a light indigo background. In the left side box is an abinary flag with a BDSM symbol on top. The abinary flag consists of five horizontal stripes, the colors in order from top to bottom are medium yellow, light yellow, white, light yellow, and medium yellow. The BDSM symbol consists of a white circle with three red teardrop shapes curving counter-clockwise, each of these teardrop shapes has a blue dot in the bottom of the teardrop shapes. In a darker indigo font, it reads "Don't forget to include abinary kinksters!" /End ID 2.]

[Image ID 3: A userbox with an indigo border and a light indigo background. In the left side box is a xenogender flag with a BDSM symbol on top. The xenogender flag consists of seven horizontal stripes, the colors in order from top to bottom are light red, light peach orange, light orange, light yellow, light blue, light periwinkle indigo, and purple. The BDSM symbol consists of a white circle with three red teardrop shapes curving counter-clockwise, each of these teardrop shapes has a blue dot in the bottom of the teardrop shapes. In a darker indigo font, it reads "Don't forget to include xenogender kinksters!" /End ID 3.]

[you-sir-box]

Comments: The amount of pregnant man jokes that are just stand-ins for rape jokes is disturbing.

[Image ID 1: A userbox with a muted spring green border and a pale spring green background. In the left side box is clipart of a yellow seahorse. In a darker muted spring green font, it reads "Pregnant men are not a punchline." /End ID 1.]

[Image ID 2: A userbox with a forest green border and a pale forest green background. In the left side box is clipart of a yellow seahorse. In a darker forest green font, it reads "Respect pregnant men." /End ID 2.]

[you-sir-box]

Comments: There's nothing wrong with enjoying queer stories, actually.

[Image ID 1: A userbox with a faded blue border and a faded light blue background. In the left side box is the AO3 M x M fic symbol. In a faded darker blue font, it reads "This user is a proud fujoshi." /End ID 1.]

[Image ID 2: A userbox with a faded blue border and a faded light blue background. In the left side box is the AO3 M x M fic symbol. In a faded darker blue font, it reads "This user is a proud fudanshi." /End ID 2.]

[Image ID 3: A userbox with a faded blue border and a faded light blue background. In the left side box is the AO3 M x M fic symbol. In a faded darker blue font, it reads "This user is a proud fujin." /End ID 3.]

[Image ID 4: A userbox with a muted pink border and a light pink background. In the left side box is the AO3 W x W fic symbol. In a darker pink font, it reads "This user is a proud himedanshi." /End ID 4.]

[Image ID 5: A userbox with a muted pink border and a light pink background. In the left side box is the AO3 W x W fic symbol. In a darker pink font, it reads "This user is a proud himejoshi." /End ID 5.]

[Image ID 6: A userbox with a muted pink border and a light pink background. In the left side box is the AO3 W x W fic symbol. In a darker pink font, it reads "This user is a proud himejin." /End ID 6.]

[you-sir-box]

Comments: We hate how these labels have turned into transmisic dogwhistles.

[Image ID 1: A userbox with a medium red border and a light red background. In the left side box is an image of the autogynephilia flag. It consists of three horizontal stripes and a symbol. The middle stripe is much thicker than the top and bottom stripes. The colors from top to bottom are blush pink, bright red, and blush pink. The symbol is the venus symbol, except the line and cross comes into the middle of the circle instead of coming outside of it. In a darker red font, it reads "This user is an autogynephile." /End ID 1.]

[Image ID 2: A userbox with a faded blue border and a faded light blue background. In the left side box is an image of the autoandrophilia flag. It consists of three horizontal stripes and a symbol. The middle stripe is much thicker than the top and bottom stripes. The colors from top to bottom are pale blue, medium blue, and pale blue. The symbol is the mars symbol, except the line and arrow comes into the middle of the circle instead of coming outside of it. In a faded darker blue font, it reads "This user is an autoandrophile." /End ID 2.]

[you-sir-box]

Comments: This flag is actually really pretty, we like the uneven stripes.

[Image ID 1: A userbox with a medium purple border and a lighter purple background. In the left side box is a detransitioner flag. It consists of eight stripes, the first two are thinner than the last three, the second two are even thinner, and the fifth stripe is about the same thinness as the first two. The colors in order from top to bottom are dark purple, white, dark purple, white, dark purple, lilac purple, pastel pink, and light blue. In a darker medium purple font, it reads "Support detransitioners before transmisics support them instead." /End ID 1.]

[Image ID 2: A userbox with a medium purple border and a lighter purple background. In the left side box is an image of a detransitioner flag. It consists of eight stripes, the first two are thinner than the last three, the second two are even thinner, and the fifth stripe is about the same thinness as the first two. The colors in order from top to bottom are dark purple, white, dark purple, white, dark purple, lilac purple, pastel pink, and light blue. In a darker medium purple font, it reads "Support detransitioners before transphobes support them instead." /End ID 2.]

[you-sir-box]

Comments: Realizing the label clipart we used looks kind of like a tea bad.

[Image ID 1: A userbox with a spring green border and a light spring green background. In the left side box is the thinking emoji. In a darker spring green font, it reads "It's okay to question your identity and get it wrong." /End ID 1.]

[Image ID 2: A userbox with a purple border and a lighter purple background. In the left side box is black outline clipart of a blank label tag with a string attached. In a darker purple font, it reads "It's okay to try out a label and change it later." /End ID 2.]

[you-sir-box]

Comments: none

[Image ID: A userbox with a sky blue border and a light sky blue background. In the left side box are two flags, a transmasculine flag on the left, and a trans man flag on the right. The transmasculine flag consists of four horizontal stripes, the colors from top to bottom are white, light blue, medium blue, and black. The trans man flag consists of five horizontal stripes, the colors from top to bottom are medium blue, deep blue, pale blue, deep blue, and medium blue. In a darker sky blue font, it reads "This user is a proud transmisandry truther." /End ID.]

[you-sir-box]

Comments: ‘M-spec mono’ means “multi-attractional spectrum mono-attractional” - referring to labels such as bi gay. The flag in the first ‘contradictory labels’ userbox is the flag for ‘subtliden’ identities - another word for “contradictory” labels.

[Image ID 1: A userbox with a magenta border and a light magenta background. In the left side box is the m-spec mono flag. It consists of seven horizontal stripes, the colors from top to bottom are lilac purple, blush pink, pastel orange, light yellow, medium green, medium blue, and dark blue. In a darker magenta font, it reads "This user supports m-spec monos." /End ID 1.]

[Image ID 2: A userbox with a periwinkle blue border and a light periwinkle blue background. In the left side box is the lesboy flag. consists of six horizontal stripes, the colors from top to bottom are dark purple, bright red, lighter orange, pale blue, light indigo, and dark blue. In a darker periwinkle blue font, it reads "This user supports lesbians who are boys/men." /End ID 2.]

[Image ID 3: A userbox with a muted red border and a faded red background. In the left side box is the veldigirl flag. It consists of six horizontal stripes, the colors from top to bottom are deep purple, deep indigo, teal, pale orange, medium orange, and bright red. In a darker muted red font, it reads "This user supports gay men that are girls/women." /End ID 3.]

[Image ID 4: A userbox with a muted red border and a faded red background. In the left side box is the veldigirl flag. It consists of six horizontal stripes, the colors from top to bottom are deep purple, deep indigo, teal, pale orange, medium orange, and bright red. In a darker muted red font, it reads "This user supports veldians that are girls/women." /End ID 4.]

[Image ID 5: A userbox with a muted red border and a faded red background. In the left side box is the veldigirl flag. It consists of six horizontal stripes, the colors from top to bottom are deep purple, deep indigo, teal, pale orange, medium orange, and bright red. In a darker muted red font, it reads "This user supports uranians that are girls/women." /End ID 5.]

[Image ID 6: A userbox with a sky blue border and a lighter sky blue background. In the left side box is the subtliden flag. It consists of nine stripes, the top and bottom two stripes are thinner than the five in the middle. The colors from top to bottom are black, navy blue, faded denim blue, light teal, white, pale yellow, medium-light brown, medium brown, and black. In a darker sky blue font, it reads "This user supports 'contradictory' labels." /End ID 6.]

[Image ID 7: A userbox with a medium blue border and a faded light blue background. In the left side box are three flags, the lesboy flag on the left, the m-spec mono flag in the middle, and the veldigirl flag on the right. The lesboy flag consists of six horizontal stripes, the colors from top to bottom are dark purple, bright red, lighter orange, pale blue, light indigo, and dark blue. The m-spec mono flag consists of seven horizontal stripes, the colors from top to bottom are lilac purple, blush pink, pastel orange, light yellow, medium green, medium blue, and dark blue. The veldigirl flag consists of six horizontal stripes, the colors from top to bottom are deep purple, deep indigo, teal, pale orange, medium orange, and bright red. In a darker medium blue font, it reads "This user supports 'contradictory' labels." /End ID 7.]

[you-sir-box]

Comments: 'Proship' just means "pro-fiction and anti-censorship", btw. That is what it means.

[Image ID 1: A userbox with a green border and a pale green background. In the left side box is clipart of a stack of seven books in different colors. The colors of the books from the top of the stack to the bottom are bright blue, orange, purple, hot pink, dark red, bright green, and bright red. In a darker green font, it reads "This user is pro-fiction." /End ID 1.]

[Image ID 2: A userbox with a medium blue border and a faded light blue background. In the left side box is clipart of a stack of seven books in different colors. The colors of the books from the top of the stack to the bottom are bright blue, orange, purple, hot pink, dark red, bright green, and bright red. In a darker medium blue font, it reads "This user is pro-fiction and anti-censorship." /End ID 2.]

[Image ID 3: A userbox with a medium purple border and a faded light purple background. In the left side box is clipart of a stack of seven books in different colors. The colors of the books from the top of the stack to the bottom are bright blue, orange, purple, hot pink, dark red, bright green, and bright red. In a darker medium purple font, it reads "This user is proship." /End ID 3.]

[you-sir-box]

Comments: One of our favorite headcanons.

[Image ID: A userbox with a medium blue border and a lighter blue background. In the left side box is Hatsune Miku with a transmasculine flag as the background. In a darker medium blue font, it reads "Transmasc Miku." /End ID.]

[you-sir-box]

Comments: Let's not forget the many other ways of being a-spec this pride month.

[Image ID 1: A userbox with a spring green border and a light spring green background. In the left side box is the aplatonic flag. It has four horizontal stripes, the colors from top to bottom are dark purple, medium blue, spring green, and pale yellow. In a medium spring green font, it reads "This user is apl-spec." /End ID 1.]

[Image ID 2: A userbox with a blue border and a light blue background. In the left side box is an aplatonic spectrum flag. It consists of four horizontal stripes, the colors from top to bottom are medium blue, lighter teal, light green, and pale yellow. In a darker blue font, it reads "This user is apl-spec." /End ID 2.]

[Image ID 3: A userbox with a medium red border and a light red background. In the left side box is an afamilial flag. It consists of four horizontal stripes, the colors from top to bottom are black, gray, white, and dark red. In a darker medium red font, it reads "This user is afam-spec." /End ID 3.]

[you-sir-box]

Comments: Yes, they're real relationships.

[Image ID 1: A userbox with a bright teal border and a light teal background. In the left side box is an objectophilia flag. It consists of five horizontal stripes, with the middle stripe being slightly thicker than the others and becoming a circle in the middle, with a symbol on top of that circle. The colors of the stripes from top to bottom are faded red, pale pink, light tan, faded teal, and deep blue. The symbol in the middle is a heart with the lowercase Greek letters 'omega' and 'phi'. In a medium teal font, it reads "Support objectophiles." /End ID 1.]

[Image ID 2: A userbox with a pink border and a light pink background. In the left side box is clipart of two cupped hands with a cube over them. In a darker pink font, it reads "Support person x object relationships." /End ID 2.]

[Image ID 3: A userbox with a medium red border and a faded light red background. In the left side box is a fictophilia flag. It consists of nine even sized stripes, eight of them equally sized and one very thin stripe in the middle. The colors of the stripes from top to bottom are medium purple, lighter purple, light red, yellow, light red, yellow, light red, lighter purple, and medium purple. In a medium red font, it reads "Support fictophiles." /End ID 3.]

[Image ID 4: A userbox with a pink border and a light pink background. In the left side box is clipart of a book with a heart on it. In a darker pink font, it reads "Respect person x fictional character relationships" /End ID 4.]

[Image ID 5: A userbox with a indigo border and a lighter indigo background. In the left side box is an autophilia flag. It consists of six horizontal stripes and a black symbol. The colors of the stripes from top to bottom are medium gray, light gray, white, muted periwinkle blue, muted teal, and muted red. The symbol is an arrow in the shape of a heart pointing in towards itself in the center top. In a darker indigo font, it reads "Support autophiles." /End ID 5.]

[Image ID 6: A userbox with a pink border and a light pink background. In the left side box is the autophilia symbol, an arrow in the shape of a heart pointing in towards itself in the center top. In a darker pink font, it reads "Respect person x self relationships." /End ID 6.]

[you-sir-box]

Comments: Cops, on the other hand...

[Image ID: A userbox with an indigo border and a pastel indigo background. In the left side box is the BDSM flag. It consists of nine horizontal stripes and a symbol. The color of the stripes from top to bottom are black, bright blue, black, bright blue, white, bright blue, black, bright blue, and black. The symbol is a white circle with three red teardrop shapes curving counter-clockwise, each of these teardrop shapes has a white dot in the bottom of the teardrop shapes. In a darker indigo font, it reads "Kink belongs at pride." /End ID.]