Some nonnegotiables for me in a friend or partner are:
Have to be big on mental health. I cannot have people around me who don’t take this shit seriously.
Someone who doesn’t waste their life away partying, drinking, doing fuck shit all the time. If you’re getting wasted all the time you’re not for me. There’s more to life than alcohol and drugs.
Can’t be a lustful person in any area of life. Disgusting. Especially when it comes to a partner, don’t come around me if you treat me like everyone else around you and I’m just another body to you. Gross.
If you have a certain preference in a friend or partner, and you come around me, and I don’t have those preferences, it could be just one: get the fuck away from me. Go be with your type of friends or partner. And stay far away from me. If you know you want big booty bitches but you’re talking to me who got a small tight ass, then you’re pathetic. Go be with your type.
Why the hell would you lead someone on or put yourself in someone’s life when you know they don’t fit your preferences?
For example, I can’t be around alcoholics while I’m prioritizing eating clean and healthy and taking care of my body. We value different things at that point. You have to value the same things I do in life. You have to want to achieve shit in this life. Experience life. Grow. Go to therapy. Want to be a better person. I don’t got time for that gaga shit.
Also cannot be around people who stay stagnant. No thanks.
And really can’t be around people who try to kick it with everybody. A friend to all is a friend to none. If you aren’t selective of who you let in your life that tells me you’re for every damn body and have no boundaries an you don’t draw the line when it comes to people which is disgusting. Have some self respect enough to be selective of the people you let in your life because not everyone is on a good path in life.
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