big domme energy

23 | polyam switch | witchy (gentle) femdom | queer | 18+ | they/them | Scotland

[taetender]

i want to bite someone’s thighs

[hhnggmushrooms-deactivated20191]

When your switchy partner is in the mood to dom but you are too so you keep teasing them until their sub side comes out 👌🏻👌🏻 good shit

[youngfreequeer]

lmao this is like half my life, either that or both feeling subby so you both get more and more needy until someone service-tops

[wannafrick]

i love pegging and femdom and all that general circle of things but i wish there were more male subs who want their dominant to be the star of the show rather than themselves

all i want is a sub boy who wants to spoil me and carry my bags, wants me to sit on his lap and kiss him dizzy, wants me to wear his hoodie while i peg the daylights out of him

there’s just this very pillow princess-y architype among male subs in the tumblr gfd community, and there’s nothing wrong with that but sometimes I wanna be the princess AND be the dom

[youngfreequeer]

Decided to make a public twitter - I haven’t put anything on it yet but it’s @bigdommeenergy if anyone wants to follow 💜

lmk you’re from Tumblr!!

[youngfreequeer]

Decided to make a public twitter - I haven't put anything on it yet but it's @bigdommeenergy if anyone wants to follow 💜

lmk you're from Tumblr!!

[rae-being-naughty]

Mama didn’t raise no fool.

*hawt nerdy blushing sub appears in the wild*

Okay. Maybe she raised one (1) fool.

[youngfreequeer]

"innocent until proven naughty"

- a good boy, recently, trying to get out of a spanking

[dommeaesthetic]

Ropes and collars and marks, oh my

[cherishedproperty]

Tell Me Why

One of the things that fascinates me about this community is how people can be drawn to the same act for so many different reasons. Fetishes, sex positions, rules and protocol… It’s so easy sometimes to match up a list of fetishes and think you’re on the same page as someone. But that only gets you halfway. Maybe. And it’s because the reasons are what matters, not the act itself.

I dated a man once who confessed his interest in tail plugs. It wasn’t something I’d ever considered before, but I was open to it. Especially in the context of this relationship, I assumed it was a humiliation thing. He liked to make me beg for things I didn’t want, then show me how wet it made me. I assumed the tail plug stemmed from the same desires. It made sense to me. He wanted a tail holding my ass open while I crawled for him. He wanted me low.

But I was wrong. That wasn’t his vision at all. For him, there was a softness to it. He wanted me to curl up against him while he caressed me—down my back and over my tail and my thighs. The tail unlocked a different kind of connection for us. It was not the mind fuck game we usually played. It was free of all that. Innocent and light. Vulnerable and tender. It gave him the freedom to touch me absentmindedly without words or expectations. It was so much deeper that I ever expected.

It’s rarely the act itself; it’s what we feel and where it takes us. It’s how we access new parts of ourselves and each other. It’s how we learn who we are at the core of our being. It’s how we grow and discover together. At the core of every act that drives us, there is meaning. The meaning is what connects us and allows us to feel truly seen—but only if it’s shared.

So you have to tell me why. Why do you like it? What is it that speaks to you? Is it that moment right before? Is it the way my cheeks blush as I obey? Is it the way I feel after, soft and sweet curled in your arms?  Where do you feel it? In your heart? In your groin? Somewhere deep in your bones? Tell me what it means to you and where it touches you. That will tell me more than any fetish list ever could. 

[missmiffle]

This is also something that I think about a lot too, which is why I often ask so many questions. I’m fascinated by the whys.

[youngfreequeer]

This is super important!!! I've had so many kinks that I was like "nope definitely not into" then when someone explained why they liked it, I was like "oh shit, guess I got a new kink".

Apparently I've converted quite a few people to ropes by explaining that I like the safe and secure feeling I get from them, and the sensations of light restrictions and pressure, and also the slow teasing of being tied - people assume it's purely an aesthetic thing or purely a bondage thing, but nope!

[blueberryuserboxes]

[peopleonlylikemeifipostnudes]

If I’ve ever made you cum, you owe me a Christmas present.

Sry, not my rule - thats just how the world works.

[afamineinyourheart]

Get you a girl who will tease your cock til’ its dripping and tell you how cute you look while you whimper and beg to cum.

[ogrepunk]

boyfriends make nice pets

[youngfreequeer]

"yeah but who holds the leash in the relationship?"

Me, interacting with vanilla couples.

[youngfreequeer]

My bag is currently full of cute panties etc that I have bought for cute boys, and academic books with titles such as "Masculinities" and "Contraception: a history".

I have a very strong personal brand tbh.

[sscarletfever]

Thoughts on feminine boys?

[yescaressme]

cute threesome idea:

Person A holding person C’s head in their lap, as person B absolutely fucking pounds person C. Person C holds on for dear life and moans as Person A showers them with affection and praise.