40s m MDNI! Please send asks!

[yourlovingdad42]

Hey there..

I'm a man in my 40s here to do some writing and chat with others in the community.

*MDNI! There will be nsfw content on this page and I do not want anyone to view who should not. I will not interact with blogs that do not list age. If you follow me or like my posts and do not have your age listed on your blog, I will block you.

Everything here is fantasy and does not reflect anything I have nor would do. All persons referenced on this blog are intended by me to be 18+

As I intend to use this as a space for writing fiction, please feel free to make requests for story idea that you would like to see.

I do consider myself a daddy and caregiver. I am on the softer, but still kinky, side of things and genuinely want to know how you're doing and help if you need it and there is something I can do. I also enjoy when little activities are shared such as showing me drawings, colorings, stuffies, cartoons, or whatever it may be.

DMs and asks always open and encouraged.

I use Signal for chatting off of here.

kinks- all things daddy, giving praise, age gap, size difference, roleplay, somno, breeding

limits- bathroom fluids, diapers, rape, anal, feet

Please browse the asks I've gotten here!

Stories so far under the cut

Age gap- picking her up from school to take her virginity

[yourlovingdad42]

I'm really bummed that it's father's day here and I'm still shadow banned. I miss all the littles I used to talk to and imagine this could have been such a special day. A big thanks to anyone still around.

If you do send an ask, I can see the about a sentence worth at least, but I can't respond..

[obsessivel0v3r]

Ask game:

"Creepy Anons, Share Your Thoughts"

💌: I'd flood your inbox on a daily if you'd be fine with it.

🌷: What would it take to get you equally obsessed as I am for you?

🤍: We're in a parasocial relationship in my mind, can I share what I think about you?

🦋: You're so sweet, but I want to capture you and break off your wings so you'd just be mine.

🎧: I'd listen to your voice on repeat if you made a voice reveal.

🍓: I'd love to share a meal with you.

💘: I'm so jealous to think you've liked others before.

👁: Can I be creepy with you?

🐶: I'd devote myself to you if you were ever open to looking for a significant other.

🐺: I admire your blog in silence, but I hate how you share your attention with every other anon too.

🪻: Can I keep your mind busy?

⚘️: Can I have all your attention?

🌹: I wish you'd block everyone and only chat with me...

🥀: I love you, but I hate how obsessed I feel right now.

🌺: I'd make this feeling become more than just a one-sided feeling if I could.

🔪: I'd get rid of everyone else if it meant that you'd be mine. ♡

(Made by: @obsessivel0v3r )

[yourlovingdad42]

Hello, thanks everyone still checking on my blog.

I'm still shadow banned after well over a month... I check every few days, but I can't do much. I still get asks sometimes and can see it in my activity, but can't respond to them.

I have thought about just making a new blog, so that may happen...

The best way to contact me is on signal, if you have it.

[yourlovingdad42]

FYI, I have been shadow banned... I'm guessing because I reblogged too much in a short period of time the other day.

Hopefully I can get it resolved sooner than later....

[konoko]

[yourlovingdad42]

Honestly, me. Make your intentions clear.

[choco-bite]

Non sexual dominance:-

helping you pick clothes, helping you dress up for party, cooking for you, cuddle you whole day on weekends, shower with you and kiss you lots, help you pick out food, take you on dates, buy you toys to play with, always make you sit on my lap over anything, looking into your eyes whenever speaking to you, kissing your forehead every night telling how proud i am for you, slow kisses and sloppy head whenever you want and much more because i just want to cherish you

[yourlovingdad42]

I'd love to do a version of this with someone..

[kohlispeak]

If we date, just know I'll never stop touching you. I'll play with your hair, your hands, scratch your back, rub your shoulders, your neck, grab your jaw, hug you, kiss you, everything. all the time. affection is my favorite and I just like to touch you.

[yourlovingdad42]

That's a promise.

[yourlovingdad42]

Hi dad!!! Do you have any advice for girls who crave attention and validation from older men?

Hi little one.

This is a big question that is obviously important to a lot of people. Thank you for asking it.

I do think it is valuable to first recognize within yourself where those feelings may come from. For some it's more obvious that they feel abandoned and don't have a figure like that in their lives. Others seem to just be people who work hard and need someone to look after them since they don't do it for themselves enough. There are a wide variety of reasons for those feelings and understanding where you're coming from can help you make healthy choices in the future.

That's the other thing that I want you to prioritize. There are no shortage of older guys who are interested in talking to younger women and we have our own issues to sort through. But any relationships that you may form in real life, online, platonic, romantic, or sexual should all be healthy and help you to grow in a positive way. That's a huge challenge as even relationships without an age gap often fail to achieve that. It's still worth trying, right?

As important as it is to understand your feelings and try to have healthy relationships, we ultimately can't do a lot to control our feelings. You're going to have some feelings for people that maybe you shouldn't sometimes in your life. Everyone goes through that on some level or another. Just always do your best and try to make good choices as best as you can.

I like to think that being a caregiver and being here to answer asks and DMs is my small part of helping girls with these feelings in a way that is positive and genuinely loving. Please know that I'm here for you if you need me, okay?

I am so proud of you and I know you'll give me reason to continue to be, right?

Be good, -Dad

[yourlovingdad42]

ummm so i'm turning 20 this year, and i've never had a boyfriend before...

My friends and my family tell me that i'm not ugly, but.. y'know..they're biased so idk

It's just that I would really love to date someone, but I have no clue how to even start :(

So, could you give me some advice, please? ♡

What do you think I should do to get a boyfriend?

Hi darling.

The idea that the same things are supposed to happen to everyone around the same times in their life is bullshit and you shouldn't let it bother you. There are plenty of people who haven't dated by the time they are 20 or later and there is nothing wrong with it nor you. Things happen to people at different times in their lives and regardless of that it doesn't diminish their value as a person nor how meaningful their life can be. It also doesn't make those life events any less valid or meaningful when they happen later in life. So, please don't worry yourself over any of that, okay?

A lot of people may tell you it's easy to get a boyfriend, but what they mean is that guys are dumb and horny and will date you to get into your pants. That's not the kind of relationship I want for you. You deserve someone who will genuinely care about you for who you are and want to spend time with you. Don't settle for less, okay?

I do have two tips, though...

First, follow your passions and interests. There must be something you love and can talk about for hours to anyone who will listen, right? Embrace that and seek out others who like it, too. Step one to finding someone to be with is finding other people you like in general. Get out there and talk to people in an environment where you are comfortable. I bet if you think about it, there are multiple interests of yours that can lead to this.

One of my best friends back in my college days was a girl who was honestly very plain and never were make up. Every guy she knew was obsessed with her because she was super nerdy about video games and such while being very confident. I'm not saying you should change who you are for someone. But being who you are and putting yourself in the right place where those wonderful qualities can attract someone is incredibly powerful.

Second, if you're interested in someone, show it. This goes for us guys, too, who increasingly don't feel comfortable approaching women. Admittedly, it's something I've also struggled with a lot. To that point, don't rely on the guy to make the first nor every move. If you're talking to a guy you like, ask him if you can meet up again. You don't need to call it a date, but once you'd hung out a few times you'll pretty much be there, right? Try to make you intentions clear in whatever way you're comfortable with. If you really like someone and trust them, tell them what you said here about not getting to date yet. Maybe they will offer to fix that for you, hm?

I'm certain that you are beautiful and pretty damn cool in your own special way. Any guy would be lucky to be your first date and everything else. I'm almost jealous of whomever that guy will be!

You got this! -Dad

[yourlovingdad42]

Hiii dad!! I miss seeing your posts when I open the app

Hey sweetheart,

I'm guessing you're not the only one who feels this way. I've had a few different factors keeping me from here, but I'm working on getting back. I'm really hoping to be more active again in the next few weeks.

But more importantly, how have you been? Are you taking care of yourself? Getting rest and drinking water? Are you getting all the things done that you know that you need to do? Have you been lonely and need some support?

The worst part of not being on as much is not getting the chance to try to help you when you need it. So, please tell me how I can make it better again? That goes for everyone.

I'm still here for you, -Dad

[your-rubenesque-bunny]

New little "rage dumping"

IF you are a Dom, I'm assuming you are in control. But you aren't only controlling me.

If you want to be a Dom, you need to learn how to control yourself first. Self-control and stability from a Dom are the most important things.

When you sub says they don't want to do something or feel uncomfortable, you have to respect it, don't be pushy. Don't dominate them with exhausting, that's not dominating, that's abusing. If you **really** want to do it, find an alternative you both like and agree with.

You are in charge, and commanding is much harder than obeying, so you need to know how to behave and not hurt your sub as a "mistake".

Learn before trying. Study what you wanna do before.

[yourlovingdad42]

These deserves to be seen. Doms, don't do it. Littles, don't put up with it. Toxicity is not worth your time.

[yourlovingdad42]

Hello,

I’ve read through your asks and you genuinely seem like a great guy. I hope you’re well.

(Maybe in a year, you could dm me. I’m not looking for a serious relationship right now, since I’m busy with school and writing, but hmu.)

Hello,

Thank you for being so sweet. I appreciate that you can tell that about me.

But... I'm not sure how I'm supposed to dm you in a year when you're on anon? Regardless, good luck on your school work and writing. Make me proud, okay?

And btw, even people who aren't looking for something series are still welcome to say hi. I'm open to platonic chatting.

Be good, -Dad

[yourlovingdad42]

Hi! I want to know a little bit about you

Hi kitty!

Feel free to ask anything you like here or in DMs. I don't share a lot of personal information on tumblr, but I'll do the best I can.

Thanks for reaching out, -Dad

[yourlovingdad42]

hi daddy !

I just read your last post, and I hope everything is going well for you <3, take good care of yourself. I hope to see you again soon on tumblr!! lots of kisses,

- Shai ⋅˚₊‧ 𐙚 ‧₊˚ ⋅

Hi angel!

Thank you for sending such a sweet message even though we have never interacted before. You are a very kind person for reaching out to a stranger to show some support.

Today went okay. I'm taking things a day at a time and each one has it's own challenges. Please keep me in your thoughts and continue to send good energy my way. It makes a really big difference in my life.

Take care of yourself, too, okay? -Dad

[yourlovingdad42]

Hi daddy,

Why are you having an awful day?

I hope your okay!

- 😇

Hi angel,

I mentioned it briefly in another ask last night. Basically work has made me suddenly change my life around in a big way that was extremely disruptive and upsetting. I'd prefer to only give details in private.

Anyhow, I survived today with the help of some friends. We'll see what the future brings...

Thank you for your concern, though. It means a lot.

Keep being your wonderful self, -Dad

[yourlovingdad42]

Here's a comfort cookie for the most amazing Dad!

Please know that you are so loved, and so respected. You've got the strongest heart and the most kind soul ever. I want to see you always happy and glowing. LOVE YOU SO MUCH DADDY 🤍🪻

Sweetie...

This is so damn cute, I couldn't help but smile when I saw it last night. It's right at the top of the asks that I got for sure. Thank you so damn much!

I'll admit that I deal with some imposter syndrome on here. I know my blog isn't as sexy or aggressive as a lot of others and I often worry if people would like it more if I was like that. But what you see here is me expressing my genuine self and baring my heart to everyone who sends me something. It's hard for me to regret that too much.

To hear that someone thinks I'm loved and respected for that means the world. Being seen and appreciated for who you are is one of the greatest feelings a person could have. I hope I give that to many of you as much as you do for me.

Thank you with all of my heart. You're amazing and I hope you know it!

You make me proud, -Dad