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besties, is it a red flag if he says I love you during phone sex?? I’m honestly asking because this is a new one for me

#delilah’s dating diaries #dating diaries

I love antagonists who mirror the protagonist instead of contrast them. They are the most extreme version of the protagonist, someone with the same dreams and beliefs who believed these things could only be achieved by the sharpest tools. The crushing weight of knowing that could be you.

one lyric on ‘would’ve, could’ve, should’ve’ that doesn’t get enough recognition is “I can’t let this go, I fight with you in my sleep.” let me tell you why this one hit so fucking hard that I’m up at 3 am (no seriously) writing about this. I think the metaphorical sense is pretty clear here. he is haunting her nightmares even after all that time, and she’s having to fight with the memories of him. but I’ve been in a situation where I’ve relived the same fights over and over in my sleep for years after the situation had ended for me. like the actual arguments themselves. it’s that unconscious obsessiveness. it’s that fitful sleep while you’re dreaming of actually being heard because it’s fucked up your psyche so much that you relive this nightmare of a relationship in your sleep, and your subconscious is still trying to fix the situation.

#would’ve could’ve should’ve #midnights #taylor swift

glasspostings

while you were attending therapy i was studying the blade

glasspostings

what do you mean i need better coping mechanisms

dancinbutterfly

>a wild therapist has entered the chat you need an additional coping mechanism studying the blade is a DBT principle called Building Mastery - wherein you engage in anything that is practical during which you gain skill and can actively see yourself progress - which is resilience building technique by which you shore yourself against vulnerability factors that make it harder to regulate emotions and manage activities of daily life and interpersonal interactions effectively. if you continue to study the blade while engaging in therapy, it will in fact make your therapeutic session more effective because having a skill that you pursue builds self-esteem and is a foundation upon which other coping skills can be built. so not better coping skills, blademaster, additional ones. you are already heading in the right direction and you have proven you have the tenacity to apply yourself to one discipline. now show us what you can do when applying yourself to your healing.

piecesintoplaces

everything you lose is a step you take.

#no but this song didn’t need to call me out by name wtf Taylor #taylor swift

the way I can’t listen to Would’ve, Could’ve, Should’ve but it’s also the only thing that plays over and over in my head because IF I WAS A CHILD, DID IT MATTER IF YOU GOT WASH YOUR HANDS??

#i’m thinking of a specific person in my life and fuck u very much #taylor swift #would’ve could’ve should’ve #midnights

jb-blunk

you naturally grow out of a lot of unhealthy habits and I think that something that seeing obsessive self improvement culture in the early twenties crowd makes me sad about like. you will start to drink less as your world changes, you will get better at habits as your world stabilizes. your sense of self will solidify as you make mistakes waste time and figure out what works for you and what does not thru your own bodies rejection of it. you’ll be called to sleep earlier and wake sooner and to move your body bc it won’t bounce back with out stretching it out first like there are reasons older people are more regimented bc they don’t need to experiment as much anymore to find out what’s functional. It’s not 1 size fits all

rivusa

#LOOK AT THEM!! i’m not okay #rivusa

i am (not) sorry for the person I’ll become when rivusa comes on my screen, you’ve been warned

#rivusa #ftws rivusa #ftws musa #ftws riven #ftws #fate the winx saga

galina

All packed ready for a break away – it’s a nice change to have time to make everything clean and tidy as I usally leave everything in a state of packing disarray. Feeling so ready for a few days of no emails ☀️