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If only I could…….

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Please pause this moment. 🥺

[yprilroseanne]

IMY 🥺💙

[lifeandcha]

As hard as it is sometimes to admit—people come and go. As you grow older you outgrow people and that's okay! If they make you feel like you're doing something wrong for growing or outgrowing them they are the problem. We change, we grow, we can't help it. The hard truth is that, yes, sometimes the people you love the most become strangers. Sometimes life works wonders and brings them back into your life, but that's for the future you to deal with. For now, focus on you and you're happiness, it will only bring the kind of people that you need into your life. Let yourself grow, let yourself heal, and feel everything always. Strangers is a reality check that shits are real, but that doesn't make it a bad thing. If they are truly meant to be in your life, they will find a way back to you. Maybe not in the way you expect, but isn't that exciting? Things always find a way to work themselves out, and everything truly happens for a reason. Let time heal. Go have fun.

📍Mt. Pinatubo Crater Lake

Botolan, Zambales, Philippines

[sk-lumen]

Date by honoring your nervous system.

This took me a long while to realize, but once I did, it changed how I see dating and chemistry. Let me explain.

When you realize that chemistry and flying sparks have zero correlation with compatibility, you've leveled up your dating mindset.

Most often those sparks and butterflies you feel, that's your subconscious picking up on familiar toxic patterns in the other person. Patterns which remind you of past experiences or even childhood trauma. Our brains are designed to see familiarity as safe, so when toxic dynamics are all you know, this can turn against you. You have to conscious rewire your brain, and be intentional and aware of how they make you feel.

Toxicity = familiar = safe = we interpret it as attraction. If they make your nervous system go haywire, we see this as chemistry and sparks flying, but it is actually alarm bells going off to signal we are not safe.

Healthy = unfamiliar = can feel unsafe and scary. We may interpret a vanilla, calm, comfortable interaction as a lack of chemistry. But there is a difference between no physical attraction, and being attracted to someone but not feeling any sparks. The latter is normal in the beginning. If your nervous system feels calm, they make you feel comfortable and at ease, that's a good sign!

So if there's any advice I would give to my younger self, it's this: date based on how he makes your nervous system feel. Does he make you feel safe, comfortable, at ease? That's the green flag to go for.

-Lumen

[sayonaramymuse]

Fb messenger and ig down. Tambay ng twitter ngayon.

Hello? Char wala na atang tao dito

[yprilroseanne]

Sea is my sane. 🌊

[yprilroseanne]

Hugs to those ppl who never feels like anyone's first choice & felt like the back-up friend. One day you're going to find ppl who never make you feel like a consolation prize or an afterthought. There are 7 billion ppl in the world & I promise you that there are ppl out there who would love to choose you.

[yprilroseanne]

Small birthday party. 🫶🏻✨

[yprilroseanne]

Believe in yourself.

Behaviors

“Your beliefs become your thoughts, your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your values, your values become your destiny- MK Gandhi.”

Start your day right by believing that life is good and feeling confident.

It starts within yourself, and if you start your day right, your work will start right too. Your credibility, effectiveness, and efficiency as an individual.

Positive Thinking and saying I can do this. The habit of thinking about things and ourselves that is realistic, rational, balanced, solution-focused, and helpful. Therefore positive thinking leads to good self-esteem and is also proven effective in improving our moods, health, and ability to solve problems.

Reasonable Beliefs – Believing that something is true, to believe that one's life has a purpose.

Purpose-Driven Life - To help other people achieve prosperity and peace of mind.

Good things happen when you make them happen – By living the core values of your life. Passionate, Reliability, Responsible, Innovative, and Leadership by a good example.

Dig deeper into knowledge. Never be afraid to ask questions, because answers can lead you to more knowledge.

Going the extra mile.

Always make room for improvement and Never stop learning.

[sk-lumen]

Go where you are respected, where you are appreciated, where you are wanted. You gain nothing by sticking it out and swallowing any mistreatment. But by walking away from those experiences you teach yourself that you are worthy of respect, of love, of quality relationships; and you also teach others that when they do not mirror the same level of respect, their access to you is revoked, end of story.

[yprilroseanne]

To have and to hold. Congratulations newly wed couple Ryan and Ninna. 🫶🏻🤍 #62422 https://www.instagram.com/p/CfQUdkqrfEl/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[yprilroseanne]

Happy girls are the prettiest. 🌸💕 https://www.instagram.com/p/CfQT5sJLVgb/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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🌸 6/24/22 https://www.instagram.com/p/CfQTH3DJbXf/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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🎳🎳🎳🎳 (at Bowling Billiards Club Sm Lanang Davao.) https://www.instagram.com/p/Ces4X_FpS5A/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Bowling classmates. 🎳 (at Bowling Billiards Club Sm Lanang Davao.) https://www.instagram.com/p/Ces39TEJA82/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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It's been a year since I updated my Instagram Posts. Ola! Hahahahaa. #forkeeps #NDEA2019 (at Notre Dame of Dadiangas University) https://www.instagram.com/p/CU2eYnRpLzg/?utm_medium=tumblr