Impian dan Kata

Seorang pemimpi yang terjebak di antara impian dan realita. Tumblr ini berbahasa Indonesia, tetapi kadang juga terdapat bahasa Inggris yang tidak terlalu nyaman untuk mata. Banyak reblog soal fandom yang disuka.

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i am very sorry, alice mare fandom

[smelsea]

From the Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Handbook

[riotprl]

this honestly changed my life. internalizing these statements changed me, changed my relationships, changed the whole damn game.

dbt is a lifesaver and i will always be grateful.

[deathshands]

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~HELLO FRIENDS!!~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

I would like to welcome you all to my super special self-care masterpost for all of you super special cuties out there! Unfortunately, it’s common to dislike ourselves and feel a little lower than usual. When that happens, it can be very difficult for us to acknowledge our worth! But never fear my darlings, because here are many ways to look after yourself, even if you’re feeling a little down. Best wishes and lots of love! ♥♥♥

Dealing with depression and feeling suicidal

Dealing with depression

6 Steps for beating depression

100 reasons not to commit suicide 

50 things to love about life that are free

The best things in life that are free

40 breathtaking places to see before you die

101 most beautiful places to visit before you die

How to help a suicidal person

Reasons to stay alive blog

Adjusting your life for recovery

Natural treatment for depression

Tempted to quit antidepressants? 

Relievers for depression and feeling suicidal 

The Thoughts Room

The Dawn Room

The Comfort Spot

It will be okay

Make everything okay

Emergency compliment

Changing your life

Gives me hope

KittenCam

PuppyCam

omfgdogs

Cat training

Depression and suicide hotlines/chatrooms 

Australia

beyondblue

Helplines across Australia 

LifeLine: 13 11 14

Australian hotlines

USA 

US and UK helplines

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

Teen health and wellness helplines

Hotline list

US hotlines (per state)

UK

US and UK helplines

National links UK

Mental health helplines 

Support line UK

DepressionAlliance

UK suicide hotlines

Canada 

Mental health helpline

Suicide prevention across Canada

Canada suicide hotlines

Worldwide

CrisisChat

IMAlive 

7 cups of tea

BlahTherapy

Mental health chatrooms

Worldwide suicide hotlines

Dealing with self harm 

Stopping self harm

20 reasons to give up self harm

Deciding to stop self-injury

Self harm information booklet

Limiting the damage of self harm

fataltotheflesh *trigger warning*

Alternatives to self harm

146 things to do besides self harm

25 alternatives to self harm

Make a happy box

Basic care for open wounds and burns

Self harm safety

Caring for self harm wounds

Caring for cuts

Caring for burns

Fading and covering scars

Dealing with grief and loss

Grief and loss

Grief and loss + resources

Loss & grief

Coping with grief

Grief and depression

Coping with grief and loss

Coping with grief and loss

Coping with grief and loss

Living with grief and loss

Coping with change after a loss

Coping with the loss of a loved one

Coping with the loss of a loved one

Coping with the loss of your loved one

Dealing with the loss of a loved one

Coping with the loss of a parent

Helping yourself heal when a parent passes

How to deal with a parent’s passing

How to deal with a friend’s passing

When you lose a teen friend

Losing someone to suicide

Suicide grief

Dealing with anger and guilt after suicide

Ten tips on coping with pet loss

Coping with pet loss

Understand pet loss grief

Grieving for a lost pet + helplines

Supporting a grieving person

Helping children deal with grief and loss

Helping teenagers cope with grief and loss

Helping a student who lost a friend or family member to suicide

Dealing with loneliness and break-ups 

How to move on from someone you’re in love with

The nicest place on the internet

Brownie in a mug recipe

Comfort food recipes

Movie masterposts

7 reasons why it’s okay if you’ve never been in a relationship

Getting over a break up

6 healthy ways to get over a break up

When you’re the only one not in a relationship

27 perks of being single

6 scientifically proven perks of being single

More perks for singles

Is your friend dating your ex?

10 more ideas to help with loneliness 

10 things to do when you feel lonely

23 things you can do when you’re lonely

Dealing with loneliness

Making friends

Becoming a magnet for friends

How to cope when you feel left out by friends

Dealing with anxiety and stress

Treatment and care for anxiety

Dealing with panic attacks

Overcoming panic attacks

Progressive muscle relaxation

3 effective anxiety breathing exercises

Anxiety relief

Overcoming OCD

10 things you need to know to overcome OCD

How to cope with OCD

Strategies for managing OCD

Managing OCD at home

How to deal with OCD 

Distractions/ Relievers for anxiety and stress 

Stress relief games

Rain sounds

Nature sounds

Ocean sounds

Coffee sounds

More calming sounds

Paint with sand

Stress relievers

The Quiet Place

90 seconds relaxation exercise

Weave silk

Rainy day simulator

Create your own forest

Audio meditation techniques

Progressive muscle relaxation meditation

Progressive muscle relaxation with music

Guided meditation and progressive muscle relaxation

Walk along the beach visualisation 

Guiding imagery: ocean escape

Forest walk 

Guided forest meditation

Sleep meditation

Guided meditation for sleep: floating among the stars

Journey to the stars: 1 hour sleep meditation

Relaxing music with water sounds meditation - 3 hours

Forest rain and birds - 5 hours

Waterfalls and bird songs - 8 hours

Ocean sounds- 11 hours

Dealing with bipolar disorder/ manic depression

Helping your loved one through a manic episode

Helping a loved one with bipolar disorder

Dealing with bipolar mania: help for caregivers

7 ways to deal with a manic depressive person

Dealing effectively with depression and manic depression

Simple tricks to deal with anxiety and mania

5 tips for coping with mania

Coping skills for bipolar disorder

50 natural ways to manage and cope with bipolar disorder

10 small steps you can  take to improve bipolar disorder

Dealing with hallucinations and schizophrenia 

Helping a person with schizophrenia 

Treatment and recovery for schizophrenia 

60 methods for coping with hallucinations

Helping someone cope with hallucinations

Coping with schizophrenic hallucinations and delusions 

5 ways to quiet auditory hallucinations

A practical guide to cope with hearing voices

Helping people who hear voices

Strategies for coping with distressing voices

Dealing with eating disorders

Why do we have to eat?

Why you should eat often + strategies 

The reality of anorexia and bulimia 

Recovering from an eating disorder

Recovery and relapse prevention

The dangers of diet pills and laxatives

the dangers of laxative abuse

Physical effects of an eating disorder

Recovery toolbox

Milestones in recovery

Understanding recovery

Making a recovery meal plan

What to do when you feel fat

Inpatient services (Australia)

Treatment centers (USA)

Treatment centers (Worldwide)

Online treatment program

Eating recovery center website

Different treatment settings 

Treatment settings

Confidential eating disorder screening 

Dealing with anger 

Managing anger

Controlling anger

Dealing with anger and impulsivity  

Dealing with criticism

Gruntle.me

Click rocks

Bouncy balls

Dealing with insomnia/sleep deprivation 

What time should I sleep?

Calculating the perfect bedtime + sleep efficiency 

42 simple tips to deal with insomnia

10 tips to beat insomnia 

How to make yourself so tired that you’ll fall asleep

11 ways to get to sleep and stay asleep

Trick yourself into dozing off

Natural remedies to help sleep

Natural remedies for sleep apnea

Restoring restful sleep

10 steps to recovering from insomnia 

Recover after a sleepless night

How to fix snoring

How to pull an all nighter and still do well in an exam

Health benefits of sleep

Why sleep is so important

Sleep meditation audio

Sleep meditation

Guided meditation for sleep: floating among the stars

Journey to the stars: 1 hour sleep meditation

Dealing with Borderline Personality Disorder

Finding out about BPD

More info about BPD and treatment

Helping a loved one with BPD

BPD Recovery

UK services

USA services

More USA services

Australian services

Finding services for BPD help (Australia)

BPD therapists

Treatments for BPD

Listed treatments for BPD

Self-help for BPD

Three herbs everyone with BPD should know about

Omega-3 fish oil helps BPD

Natural treatment for BPD

Natural treatments for BPD

Info about schema therapy

DBT self-help lessons

Everyday DBT

Self-help course in CBT

10 coping skills for BPD

Coping skills for BPD

Living with BPD

Mindfulness meditation resources

Dealing with sexual assault

Helping a friend or family member who was a victim

Coping with the after-effects of sexual assault

Man’s guide to helping female victims

Coping with rape

Coping with acquaintance rape

Coping with rape-related PTSD

Dealing with rape

UK helplines for male survivors 

UK male survivors 

When a man is raped (includes how to help victims)

Understanding and helping male survivors

Survivors Chat

Dealing with domestic violence and abuse 

Steps to take if you are a victim of family abuse

Safe house

Napless shelter for women and children

YWCA women’s shelter

Domestic violence and criminal harassment unit of the Vancouver Police Department 

Canadian bar association- family violence

Vancouver coastal health services

Victims info

Domestic violence help

ywca domestic violence help

domestic abuse services

domestic violence resources

Domestic violence helplines:

Australia:

Women’s domestic violence helpline: telephone [phone] free call 1800 007 339

Men’s domestic violence helpline: telephone [phone] free call 1800 000 599

1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732

http://www.violencefreefamilies.org.au/help_lines

USA

Crisis hotline: 1-888-7HELPLINE

Americans Overseas Domestic Violence Crisis Center: 866-USWOMEN

Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-4-A-CHILD

http://www.thehotline.org/

Canada

Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-4-A-CHILD

Assaulted Women’s Helpline: GTA 416.863.0511 Toll free 1.866.863.0511 TTY 416.364.8762 Toll free TTY 1.866.863.7868 Mobile #SAFE(#7233)

http://www.hotpeachpages.net/canada/canada1.html

UK

Women’s Aid: 0808 2000 247

ManKind: http://www.mankind.org.uk/

Worldwide

http://www.hotpeachpages.net/

Learning to love yourself and be happy

21 tips to release self-neglect

9 ways to love yourself

Loving yourself

Let yourself be happier than you think you deserve

Who to fall in love with first

7 reasons to shamelessly love yourself

5 ways to love your body

17 reasons to love your body just the way it is

20 ways to love your body

Learning to love your body in 4 steps

Do I deserve to be happy?

100 reasons to be happy

300 reasons to be happy

Had a hard day?

28 tips to relax

Learn how to relax and sleep like a baby

14 ways to live a more relaxing life

40 ways to relax in 5 minutes

20 ways to relax and unwind

Jukebox time machine

Read any book

Colour quiz

Useless web

Pointless sites

Build a squid

Mario sequencer 

Seaquence

Virtual Piano

Spot the difference

Internet Explorer 6

Falling falling

Heeeeey

Dealing with substance abuse

11 ways to handle substance abuse

How to quit smoking

Healthy alternatives to smoking

10 tips to quitting smoking

10 unusual quit-smoking tips

Tips to help you stop smoking

Quitting methods and what to expect- smoking

Overcoming drug addiction

How to beat drug addiction

The best way to quit using drugs

Ways to end drug addiction

How to help a friend quit drugs

Caring for someone with a drug problem

Alternatives to alcohol

Alternatives to drinking

Alcoholism-solutions

Alcohol abuse treatment and self-help

How to stop drinking alcohol

Health effects of alcohol

Alternatives to drugs and alcohol for solving our problems

Substance abuse/alcoholism helplines

US: National Drug Information Treatment and Referral Hotline: [phone]-HELP (4357)

US: Alcohol Abuse and Crisis Intervention: 1-800-234-0246

US: National Cocaine Hotline: 1-800-COCAINE (262-2463)

US: Al-Anon/Alateen Hotline (for friends and family) 1-800-344-2666

UK: Drinkline: Nat'l. Alcoholism Helpline: 0800 917 8282

NZ: Alcohol / Drug Helpline: 0800 787 797AUS: Alcohol & Other Drugs Information Service (ADIS): Freecall 1800 131 350

Australian helplines 

More helplines 

[deansass]

YOUR DRAGON NAME

last two letters of your first name

middle two letters of your last name

first two letters of your mother’s name

last letter of your father’s name

mine would be Urlelan. Reblog and tag this with yours!

[deansass]

I love this because half of the people are getting amazing, fantasy names and the other half are getting unpronounceable ones. 

[madi-burger]

Onrkroy

[kitchen-scamp-vibes]

Here it is, canon evidence that Salazar Slytherin was NOT a racist bigot. He was concerned for the well-being and safety of the magical community, which could have been compromised by letting the “common people” know that wizards and witches existed.

datvikingtho

[datvikingtho]

Shoutout to this fine lady for bringing this to my attention. Let’s further the argument: Hogwarts was canonically founded around 990 A.D. - The Christians were finally taking hold of Scandinavia, meaning that all of Europe was now Christian. It was towards the end of the Dark Ages, or else the Early Medieval Period, which (In Europe) was famous for its intolerance of non-Christiandom, which included the teachings of Ancient Rome, Greece, and of course any Eastern countries. People were publicly defamed and in many cases killed for as much as considering these old ideas and teachings. These teachings really didn’t come back to light until the Italian Renaissance in the 14th century. So when people did things the Christians couldn’t explain, they blamed it on Witches; people they believed to be inhabited by the devil, sent to earth to wreak havoc on every God-fearing man, woman, and child. So what did they do? Imprison or kill those people. Now, here comes Gryffindor, Hufflepuff, Ravenclaw, and Slytherin, who all agree to take pureblooded witches and wizards and teach them. But then they have to discuss magical folk who aren’t born from magic folk. Gryffindor is brave and brash, and imagines the glory of having an entire society of witches and wizards with great command of their powers. Hufflepuff is kind and loving, and wants to provide a sanctuary for all those who are under duress from the population at large. Ravenclaw sees the merit in bringing all these different people together - the amount of information regarding magic that can be shared is the stuff of her dreams. Slytherin is cautious. He recognizes that there is a great possibility for individuals to play spy for the Muggle community, in hopes to gain favor by outing them all the while hiding their own powers from muggles. He sees them as a potential threat, and instead of risking the safety of not only their own lives, but the countless volumes and tomes of ancient wizarding knowledge tucked away in their castle (see The Burning of the Great Library at Alexandria), Slytherin says “I really don’t think we should allow people with connections to Muggles in here. We could lost *everything.* Gryffindor calls Slytherin a coward, saying they would fight back and beat down any who try to oppose them. Slytherin suggests they do all they can to avoid confrontation. Hufflepuff can’t bring herself to deny that sanctuary she’s built. Ravenclaw sees endless potential in bridging that gap between worlds with learning. And this is what drives them apart. Future racists and pureblooded elitists will take and twist Slytherin’s words, having heard only the story that has been passed down for a thousand years. They use words of caution to justify their want for genocide.  Slytherin isn’t the bad guy, here. And I am so down for clearing his name.

[datvikingtho]

To continue the crusade to clear the name of Salazar Slytherin, I have more evidence for your consideration. This is regarding the Chamber of Secrets. Now, the scene pictured above is one of Harry’s slightly less dull History of Magic classes, in which Professor Binns is asked to talk about the Chamber of Secrets. What we get from him is that the Chamber is a myth. There is legend surrounding it, no one is sure if it exists, etc etc etc.

Here is the VERY NEXT PAGE in the book, in which Professor Binns again admits to the Chamber (as we know it today) to be a complete myth. We find out, obviously, that the chamber isn’t a myth, but I believe that the purpose of the chamber has been fabricated over a thousand years by misinformation and slander. Let’s check it out. Rowena Ravenclaw, Helga Hufflepuff, and Godric Gryffindor all know Salazar Slytherin and say “yep, he’s an upstanding man. Let’s start this school with him!” For a number of years, they had a school together and it worked out great. What we know is that there was a falling out, not Slytherin declaring they needed to murder muggle-borns! A disagreement that may have ruined friendships but did little else, I think. What we know is that one of Slytherin house’s key virtues is self-preservation. As I discussed earlier in the thread on this post is that Slytherin was afraid of muggle-born witches and wizards acting as spies for the larger muggle community during a time in which wizards and witches were killed for their “demon powers.” And so, when it comes to the Chamber of Secrets, I believe Slytherin built a Panic Room, not an Evil Lair. Think about it. Slytherin is horrified that any day there might be an attack on the school. So he builds a secret chamber that only he (or another parseltongue, an incredibly rare magical ability) can open. He doesn’t want any double agents or spies to know about it, so he tells no one. He hopes, of course, that he never has to use it, but in the event that there is an attack, he can get the school to safety while he sets the basilisk on the attackers. But I’m sure you’re looking at the basilisk and thinking “what sane man would put a monster in a panic room?” Glad you asked. I can consider two possibilities. 1) Slytherin put a basilisk that was under his control in the chamber, a creature that he could set loose on his enemies, aka, anyone attacking the castle. The basilisk would annihilate any army of thousands just by looking at them, and what’s more, it could get almost anywhere in the castle through the goddamn walls! That kind of power is exactly what you need to defend your castle. And again, ONLY HE or an heir could control it. I’m sure at this point he was thinking about himself and his potential progeny, not Tom Riddle some thousand years later. 2) Slytherin didn’t put the basilisk there, and it was instead placed there later by Tom Riddle while he was at school. I don’t have evidence supporting or disproving this. So how does this get so misconstrued to modern-day Hogwarts lore? Maybe toward the end, the founders did find out about the Chamber. Maybe Slytherin said something to them, maybe he let it slip…maybe as they were cleaning out his room after he left, they found some journal entries about it. It could have been anything. But perhaps, in their wisdom, seeing no way to access the chamber, felt it best that no one knew about the existence of a (now) useless panic room, nor did they want anyone to worry about the basilisk. Maybe word *did* get out, though. And not one of the founders wanted to admit that Slytherin didn’t trust their students, and so to most of the student body, Slytherin’s departure was suspect. And the moment they heard about a secret room that no one was quite sure about, they started inventing campfire stories about it.  Fast forward ONE THOUSAND YEARS and now everyone assumes Slytherin was always evil (despite being a good friend and founder of Hogwarts with three other lovely people) and created a secret evil lair to murder muggle-borns, which he could have easily done without a lair if that was *ever* his intention.

[psychopompious-blog1]

Thank you so much! I’ve been looking for this post. I always felt like Slytherin being a horrible evil bigot never really made any sense historically speaking, and it just doesn’t add up. Although I have to say I don’t put much stock in option 2. The dude could talk to snakes. And as Hagrid will happily tell you, a creature being scary and “monstrous” doesn’t make it evil. Why couldn’t he be a Hagrid, with a fondness for big “misunderstood” creepy crawlies? Having a basilisk doesn’t make Slytherin evil in and of itself, any more than Hagrid having an acromantula makes him evil, even if most of wizarding society would condemn him for it. Obviously popular opinion isn’t always accurate.

The conservationist and history nerd in me feels a pang whenever I think about how much of a loss that basilisk was. I know it was being used for murder and that it needed to be stopped, but it’s a knee-jerk reaction to such a huge loss of knowledge. That thing was alive a thousand years ago. It knew one of the original founders of Hogwarts. Any parselmouth could have spoken to it and asked it what things were really like in those days and gotten a first hand account, but unfortunately the only person to speak to it in a millennium was an idiot who only thought about killing people. Did he even think to ask its name? Nagini clearly had a name, but he never refers to the basilisk by name. That’s just… really sad to me.

I think a lot of people forget that Slytherin house is more than just self-preservation too; loyalty is a core value. Slytherin’s message is about protecting your own more than nearly anything else. Slytherin pushes unquestioning acceptance of and loyalty to your fellows, regardless of blood status, even in Harry’s day, according to their welcome message on Pottermore. You very rarely see a Slytherin making a disparaging remark about another Slytherin. You do see even the most bigoted Slytherins (like the Malfoys) being supportive of Slytherins who are much lower on their little social hierarchy than them (like Snape). In Salazar Slytherin’s day, I think he would have extended that loyalty to the whole school and the other founders. They were “his own”, and he would have wanted to protect them.

[sketchkun]

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[punkzetta-deactivated20220414]

Well… this was going to be uploaded BEFORE Christmas, but my computer decided to be a GRINCH and corrupt the original file by randomly crashing..  

..After my rage subsided, I decided to redraw it.. 

Merry Christmas, Clear - you precious thing xD

[h-a-r-u-k-a]

A little help please?

So, I just started playing this BL game called NO, THANK YOU!! and I can’t express my fangirling enough so if you or someone you know posts/ wants to talk about anything about the game please don’t hesitate to talk to me! Thanks!

[yumechikara]

Hello! I know this post is almost a month ago, but I just finish this game about one week ago and are you still interested to talk about NTY!!!? I really want to talk about this game, but I don’t know how since the fandom is really small. ;u;

[yumechikara]

Just realized Tumblr have new icons for reblogging etc. 

[suikopersonals]

[yumechikara]

Guess who just finish No Thank You!!! by getting all the CGs (and stick to the recommended order) and now feel so empty while keep repeating end credits for Ryu Bad Ending 2?

[pasta-magician-deactivated20210]

itu bukannya game bara R100 (?) ya yum donlod di mana

[yumechikara]

Iya (...) Tbh gue ngeskip banyak adegan anunya saking kebanyakannya. Tapi cerita dan karakterisasinya bagus, Mil.

[yumechikara]

Guess who just finish No Thank You!!! by getting all the CGs (and stick to the recommended order) and now feel so empty while keep repeating end credits for Ryu Bad Ending 2?

[robthehuman]

[based-world]

Fuck thats a good ass optical illusion. I can’t even see the circles.

[itsbenedict]

you just gotta look at it a little harder. that’s what optical illusions are all about

[memewhore]

[pleatedjeans]

[saintdork]

More Suikoden school AU, Valentine edition

Chrodechild-sensei gets the most chocolates from both gender. 

Everybody asks Gremio his secret chocolate recipe

Sphiel throws ice cream at everybody

Lazlo isn’t a chocolate person so he gives out taiyakis. When gives one to Kyril he apologizes, to which Kyril answers, “You can stop the fish joke now…”

Roberto, when given chocolate by Sieg: “Why do you give chocolate to men, it’s creepy— but this is delicious so it’s fine I guess.”

Flik is mysteriously gone that day, much to Nina’s disappointment

Lyon is asked by Frey’s fans to deliver their chocolate to Frey. Roy catches her bag is full of chocolate, mistaking them as for Lyon and gets jealous.

Little kids put sweets under the tree behind the school for Mukumuku