Lana

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[yuri-lanalyst]

long live þe evil princess, 14þ of her name!

[yuri-lanalyst]

neediness is cute when my gf does it but for anyone else (fwbs especially) it just makes me wanna avoid þem,,,

[gglta]

biblically accurate marvelous sunday

[red-katari]

Said it on the dead sideblog but i'll say it again.

It's not worth it to die on the hill of appearing as "one of the good ones" or "one with little to no baggage."

[yuri-lanalyst]

Wdym bullying you? I was being nice. I even gave you a chance to get out of it or change your askbox text. But no. You wanted me to tease you. You wanted me to "force" it in. Talk all you like about waahhhh this and wehh that but at the end of it all youre still gonna moan like a dog in heat. Am I truly the villain for guiding you to the ending youll be at anyway?

jdjskDkahdkraisnxjaakxkaj 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 shutuppp

[yuri-lanalyst]

maybe its so hard to pin down personalities because im almost always cofronting

[yuri-lanalyst]

^ singlet btw

[yuri-lanalyst]

maybe its so hard to pin down personalities because im almost always cofronting

[mousidy]

a lot of my disillusionment with the trans "community" comes down to the fact that too many of you take "gender is different from sex" and go "ah ok, so instead of saying women are fragile and men are strong, I should say afabs are fragile and amabs are strong. to be Inclusive"

then you just treat gender like a surface level aesthetic draped over what someone "actually" is. really is indistinguishable from terf rhetoric

[mousidy]

you all need to unpack your bioessentialism, but we also need a better theory of gender than "it's just dressup." I will pick my words carefully here, but the word "gender" itself refers to so many different phenomena that have been lumped together, and we need to un-lump them

[mousidy]

in a feminist context, "gender" has historically referred to externally imposed categorization and the internalization and performance of said categories. in a paper I wrote on this subject, I called this sense of the word "extrinsic gender"

"intrinsic gender," on the other hand, is what I used to refer to the sense of the word "gender" that a lot of trans people are talking about when they discuss social gender dysphoria and euphoria. it's the internal sense of category that's resistant to external impositions

but then we also use the word "gender" to refer to subconscious sex, which is the term Julia Serano coins in Whipping Girl to name the phenomenon we're talking about when we talk about bodily dysphoria. it is the "gender" being "affirmed" by gender affirming healthcare like HRT and bottom surgery

so, "gender" is: a social classing system, a performance, and at least two internal phenomena as well. and I really don't know if it's doing us a service to conflate all of these things!

[mousidy]

a lot of people lately seem to be going heavy on the "performance" use of the word, ignoring (intentionally or otherwise) social classing, intrinsic gender, and subconscious sex. this seems to have led to a lot of "progressive" people treating trans women like men "amabs" who wear womanhood as a costume, and nobody understands why that's wrong because they also think gender is just a performance

[mousidy]

see also "why can't you just be a femboy/feminine man/etc"

[yuri-lanalyst]

Girl who talks wiþ proper grammar and punctuation because it makes her seem more chuuni. Send post.

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

[nicothespy]

oh tumblr staff definitely noticed the transphobe allegations and put the entire lgbtq+ in it LMAO

[red-katari]

You've got Bakunin, i've got Bakushin.

[yuri-lanalyst]

ngl im at þe point where seeing people express any sexual attraction to men weirds me out

[parisetya]

glasses

[mudaship3]

Happy fucking pride Jonathan was murdered for being queer AND native It was a hate crime His death wasn’t by natural causes Jonathan Joss being queer and also native is a big thing as to why he was targeted in a hate crime That’s being left out of this conversation by non natives esp white non natives right now We know why They erasing that part of this During pride and indigenous month no less too His queerness and being indigenous are linked in this

“Why was he living in Texas In the South We didn’t he move to a blue state?” He was a Comanche Native in Texas He was already fucking home I know what white people are doing in posts like these But natives queer people Black people disabled people and people of color also live in the fucking south Where is that meme about white people acting like the north doesn’t also have bigotry cuz they have pizza ovens Happy fucking pride Remember that bipoc and qtipoc exist

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