i don't do bad sauce passes
wallacepolsom
will byers stan first human second
"I'm Dorothy Gale from Kansas"
let's talk about Bridgerton tea, my ask is open
trying on a metaphor
AnasAbdin
Keni

Product Placement

shark vs the universe
Peter Solarz
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cherry valley forever
Cosimo Galluzzi
he wasn't even looking at me and he found me
Jules of Nature

blake kathryn

titsay
Monterey Bay Aquarium
we're not kids anymore.
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@zero-bones
real depression is when you stop loving the things you love
After my friend’s suicide, I realized something: We ask people to reach out. But we never explain how.
If you have ever had a bad mental health day you need to keep this page bookmarked so you know what to say when you reach out.Â
Uff, this is a really good article - one that’s particularly helpful, I think, for marginalized communities.Â
I personally think this type of thing is really important for anarchists to absorb. Ostensibly, we’re trying to build community, right? Here’s one facet of community building that’s super-important: caring for the marginalized, caring for the vulnerable.
Please share.
If you relapsed...
1.  You didn’t ruin anything.  All that time you went without using the behavior is not gone, or undone, or invalidated.  You still own all of that time.  That accomplishment is still there and can never be ruined.  You did not lose your right to be proud of yourself.  You haven’t undone any of the progress you’ve made, and you’ve made so much.  You’re not ‘back to square one’ - there is no such thing as going backwards in this!
2. Relapsing does not make you a bad person, or a weak person, or anything less than incredible.  It’s a common part of trying to quit anything.  You are not alone in any of these feelings or moments, they’ve all been felt and survived before.  And they’re hard.  Relapsing has nothing to do with your character or your strength, so don’t define yourself or your capability based on what you did in that moment.  Who you are is not what you did.  Who you are is what you want and what you’re trying to do. Â
3. You don’t need to feel guilty.  It’s okay that you still have moments where it’s tempting.  Those aren’t your fault.  Don’t think of it as something that you did wrong.  You don’t need to feel bad for what you turned to when you were in an extremely stressing moment.  You just need to keep moving forward and trying your best to replace the harmful coping mechanisms with safe and healthy ones.  It’s totally understandable and human that you might feel guilty for doing something that you’ve been working hard to resist – but you have every right to push away the guilt and focus on moving forward and taking care of yourself.  Â
4. Time is still passing and you are still moving forward every day.  Those difficult moments are going to happen less and less with time.  Every day, you’re another day closer to feeling totally fantastic & looking back proudly on how you got through this (bad days and moments of self-doubt included.)Â
5. I love you and I am so proud of you. Â
This is very important. Thank you for this post. There have been times where I needed to hear this and no one said it. I am glad you have.