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I don’t just want to know that You’re going to fuck me. I don’t even want to hear that You’re going to fuck me longer and harder than I’ve ever been fucked before. Anyone can claim that He knows how to fuck. Anyone can claim that He can do it better than anyone else who has come before Him. Anyone can rattle off a laundry list of demeaning names and phrases.

But I want more.

I want to know that You’re going to delve inside of me – not just my body, but my brain, my heart, my soul. I want to know that You’re going to bury Yourself beneath my skin. That You’re going to figure out how to unravel me with the slightest look or mere hint of a touch. I want You to know how to turn me into a quivering, mumbling, sweating, crying mess of a girl – and to revel in doing it again and again and again.

I want You to seduce me. I want You to start the seduction hours before You even lay a finger on me.

I want to know how You’re going to fuck me. I want to hear how You’re going to tease me. How You’re going to make me whimper. How You’re going to make me go hoarse begging for it. How You’re going to drive me nearly to the point of delirium with the need for release.

I don’t want to be Your whore. Any man can buy a whore if he’s willing to pay the price. I want to be Your slut. I want You to make me Your slut. Because I’m not available to be bought. Because I don’t have a price. Because I become this girl – this wildly, wickedly, wanton woman – only for You. Because I become her only in Your hands and at Your command and under Your tutelage. I do these things, defile myself at Your whim, because You have taught me to embrace the darkest parts of myself – not to run from them – Because You’ve loved those dark parts, nurtured them, brought them out to play. Because it brings You pleasure.

And there is nothing I crave more, hunger after more, want more than Your pleasure. Because I am Yours and Yours alone.

I’m not impressed by Your ability to feel a rush of power when I let You spout demeaning things at me. I’m impressed by Your ability to know me so completely that You know exactly how to touch me, how to speak to me, how to tease me and taste me and command me to make me surrender unquestioningly and unflinchingly to Your command, Your desire, Your will; by Your ability to take me and claim me and make me Yours.

And I want You to claim ownership of what is Yours every single night.

I want You to mark me. I want the sting of Your teeth scraping across my skin, quickly followed by Your tongue to help soothe the burn. I want Your calloused fingertips on my bare shoulder blades and Your hot breath tickling my earlobe while You whisper filthy words – the kind that make me blush and squirm and crave desperately to hide my face from You but that You know – You know – I could never live without.

I want Your mouth, dropping a trail of hot, open-mouthed kisses along the bend of my spine. And then I want it fastened against the hollow at the base of my neck, marking me, bruising me, leaving reminders all over my skin that I belong to You. That this body is Yours. This heartbeat is Yours. This mouth and these hands and this cunt are yours. That this girl is Yours. All Yours. Always Yours.

I want You to leave me gasping, writhing, moaning. Leave me wanting. Leave me needing. And then I want You to tell me how beautiful I am when I beg You to hurt me.

And then I want You to hurt me. Please. Please. Bruise me. Beat me. Mark me with Your hands and Your belt and Your cane. I want evidence of Your presence all over my body for days to come.

Be as rough with me as You want. Don’t care. For You I’ll take it and then beg for more. Because I want Him. I want the brute, the savage, the conqueror that lives within You. Bring Him out. Let me play with Him. Let me sate Him. Let me please Him. Let Him leave me raw and aching.

Fuck me not as an act of passion but as an act of possession. Make me cry. Make me Yours. Make me Yours.

And make no mistake about it, there will be tears. The pain will bring tears. Your tongue and teeth and hands and cock will bring tears. But do not fear, for I crave those too. And afterward, I need You to hold me while I cry. I need Your hand stroking my hair, Your arms pulling me close, Your voice whispering in my ear that I was perfect, the best of good girls, while I shiver and shake and lie there in Your embrace, unable to do aught but cling and tremble and cry. But in the best way, the best way.

You’ll make me messy. I will be a mess for You. But I don’t want to just be a mess. I want to be Your mess. One that You crafted and took to this point with careful consideration and precision. One so desperate and needy for Your pleasure and Your hands and Your tongue and Your cock and the final, glorifying, exalting reward of Your cum that I will do anything – anything – to please You.

Your pleasure is my pleasure. And I need – want – crave everything You can give me. I crave it all. I need to take it. I want to take it. Let me take it. Please – please – let me take it.

And remind me – I want You to remind me – I need You to remind me – that I asked for this. That I begged for this. Because that’s what good little girls do. Because that’s what Your good little girl does.

And more than anything, I want – I crave – I need to be Your good little girl. Yours. Always Yours.

Mark me. Take me. Use me. I want it all. I crave it all. I need it all. Just make me Yours.

tom-always-hard-hardy

@juicyjayslushiouslips So true lol

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It came down to a matter of trust—for both of us.

It doesn’t end that simply, t’s not just a matter of the Dominant being open and honest with the submissive, the sub also has a responsibility to be just as open with the Dom. Regardless of the role in this lifestyle, misleading your partner can only end up backfiring on you.

Given time, a bit of patience, as you begin to truly trust your partner you’ll find yourself begin to open up. Tust, like love doesn’t happen instantly. Yes, we have all learned todevelop a bit of an instinct or inner feeling, and for most of us, moreoften than not, if we follow those feelings we’ll find we’re right. But true unquestioned trust will take time to establish. Full and complete trust in your partner will be the difference between a successful D/s relationship and a relationship filled with hurt, fear and anger.

Some Terms

Dominant - The person who has been given some amount of control over the submissive. Other terms describing them are Dom and Domme.

submissive - The person who gives some amount of control to the Dominant. Other terms describing them are sub, pet and slave.

D/s - Dominance and submission. A power exchange relationship.

Lifestyle - Generally those that practice D/s are part of ‘the lifestyle’. It doesn’t mean anything, it’s just a descriptive term.

Vanilla - a non-D/s relationship.

24/7 - Living a D/s relationship 24 hours a day, seven days a week. To put it another way, you are always in a power exchange relationship.

Scene - The best way to describe this is to think of a ‘scene’ from a movie. This is one interaction between a Dom and a sub. It doesn’t have to be sexual; all that is required is that a power exchange has taken place. Those not in a 24/7 relationship tend to have 'scenes’ where the power exchange happens. Even those in 24/7 relationships can have scenes, where the exchange becomes deeper.

Top - A person who Dominates for only a scene. If you think of it as a 'one night stand’ in the D/s lifestyle you wouldn’t be quite correct, but it’s a good start. This doesn’t mean that the Top is a 'Dominant’, just that the dominate for the one scene.

bottom - A person who is submissive for only a scene. This does not mean the person isalways a submissive, just that they are submissive for the scene. See 'Top’.

Switch - Someone who switches between the Dominant and submissive roles.

Safewords - These are words that are used by either Dom or sub to slow down, or stop a scene. Having negotiated a safeword is very important. It means that if something is happening that makes either person uncomfortable, they can either back off a little, or stop.

A Few Myths

Let’s look at what a D/s relationship isn’t.

D/s Isn’t about Abuse

Though the point has already been made it’s important to emphasise that this article is about a consensual power exchange. Whatever happens to the sub, whatever demands are made of them, they have agreed to this. If they haven’t, if they never asked for this, or they don’t want this, then it’s an abusive relationship and is not the kind of relationship covered by this entry.

submissives Aren’t always Women

If your image of a submissive is a woman, no matter how she’s dressed, think again. There are a great number of male submissives out there.

submissives Aren’t Weak

If someone has to have someone else run their lives for them they must be weak, right? Wrong. Many submissives are quite powerful people outside their D/s relationship: lawyers, managers, business people, police, soldiers and so on. For some, being a submissive in the home, or merely in the bedroom, is a way of escaping from the normal pressures of being in charge.

D/s Isn’t about Kinky Sex

Sure, D/s couples often have kinky sex. Then again, vanilla couples often do too. What defines a D/s relationship has very little to do with the methods used, so much as the power exchange. A simple 'no’ when a sub asks if they can have a drink can have as much 'power’ as getting them to kneel.

Entering a D/s Relationship

When two people are about to enter a D/s relationship, the first step is negotiation. This is a period where no power exchange occurs, but is a discussion where the parameters of the relationship are discussed. How much power will the Dominant have over the submissive? What hard limits do both have; that is, to what activities are one or both opposed? What will be the safewords? What will be the period of the relationship?

Often after negotiation a contract is drawn up, setting out all of the parameters discussed. In this way there can be no misunderstandings.

Collars

In most Western marriages, the symbols of the marriage are the wedding rings worn by the happy couple. You can probably think of a collar meaning a similar thing to a wedding ring, although in a D/s relationship it’s more common for only the sub to wear a collar to show that they are owned by or bound to a Dom.

Collars come in all shapes and sizes, from a leather collar that is remarkably similar to that worn by pets, to elegant necklaces that could be worn at the classiest society ball. A collar is a symbol and is therefore as individual as the Dominant and submissive within the D/s relationship.

Why on Earth Would you Go through all This?

It seems a D/s relationship is an awful lot of work, doesn’t it? Negotiation, contracts, safewords before you even get to the relationship itself. Yes, it is a lot of work, but the rewards can be worth it.

At this point it should be noted that a D/s relationship is not for everyone. Most relationships, even vanilla ones, contain power exchanges. In some relationships one partner is always Dominant, in other relationships whoever is Dominant changes almost constantly. That, however, doesn’t mean that the whole relationship should become a D/s one. Some couples only practice D/s in the bedroom, others in the home, others all the time and some never.

Like all relationships, good communication is needed to keep a D/s relationship on track. The difference here, is that it is essential to the success of a D/s relationship. The basis of a D/s relationship is trust. This is not just the trust that neither partner will cheat, but the sort of deep trust where the partners will trust each other with their lives. For the submissive, they need to trust the Dominant with their physical and mental health; to trust that the Dominant will guide and protect them. For the Dominant this means trusting that the submissive is totally truthful with them, giving them all the information they need to make good decisions.

As the communication flows more freely and the trust grows, the entire relationship becomes deeper and more fulfilling. This also applies to a vanilla relationship, but there isn’t necessarily the same impetus to keep communication flowing.

Traps and Pitfalls

The submissive gives power to the Dominant. This means the submissive can open themselves to abuse. This risk can be lessened by keeping the following in mind. They’re not bad guidelines for vanilla relationships either:

Don’t trust too easily. Trust is earned. Before giving someone power over you, make sure they can be trusted. Take time to learn about the person.

Go slowly. Don’t be impatient for it all to happen at once. Take it in small steps.

Be honest. Don’t say things just to please your partner. If you don’t like something, or are unsure, say so. By the same token, if you like it a lot, say so.

If there is the smallest hint of abuse, back off. No matter how good your partner is in other areas, if they are abusive, leave. Sometimes we do hurt others by mistake, but if there is obvious abusive behaviour, either mental or physical, then leave.

Remember that everyone is human, and thus can make mistakes. Don’t let a mistake ruin the relationship. Instead, talk about it openly, and try to learn something from it to help the relationship grow.

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Dutchies

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Everyone reblog if you speak Dutch, like live in Holland or Belgium. I want to know how much Dutch speaking people there are on tumblr, because I think they are rare :)

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Belgium

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Nederland

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Zeker Nederland

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Regio 070 hier

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Almere hier

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Arnhem

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Venlo hier

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Follow me

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Venlo

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Helmond

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Man gelderland

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Den Bosch

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Veendam

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Antwerpen belgie

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Nederland!

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breda

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Breda

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arnhem

Zaanstreek

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Zuid Holland

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@ts1521

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I’ll be your some one

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Yeh

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Looking for my someone.....

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💋💕

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True

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Yes i now

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So true

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♥ ♥ ♥

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🖤

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Well since you asked so nicely…. 😘😘😘

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Yes Sir ❤️

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Hello sir! How are you today? I had a dream about you last night, and it was so vivid. I dreamed that you told me to meet you somewhere but the directions led me through dark woods, that you end up chasing me through with a knife and when you catch me you tie me to a tree, and cut my clothes off. You smack me around, spit on me, cut me with the knife, and tell me I'm a disgusting whore for liking it all. You also fucked me while I screamed and cried out in the woods where no one could hear me

Hello there, too bad you’re anon…

I can make you scream.I can make you cream.I am the evil man of yourMost perverted dream.There is no right or wrongSin does not exist.Crawl across the floor to me.Be my little bitch.Whine to me your sick desiresYour head hung low in shameKnowing in your tender partsI will play your dirty game.Give yourself to me totallyBody, mind, and soul.For what was once yours is now mineEvermore to control.

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Being a gentleman isn’t a necessity, it’s a choice. Much like right from wrong or love vs sex, each man must choose his path. Clothes don’t make the man, and neither does money. Wealth can’t buy you respect, and a suit won’t get you the lady you desire. The boy speaks. The man acts. The gentleman does both. Honor through action and fealty through promise. Don’t just hug her, hold her close and squeeze her tightly. Make her smile,laugh and giggle, and you’ll find your way one step closer to a lady’s heart. All men aren’t cut from the same cloth, so choose to be made of the highest quality. Don’t be a man of wealth, but a gentleman of values. Hold her door open. Pay the bill. Kiss her on the cheek. If you choose to be a gentleman, it’s about making the right choices- about all things large..and small. Sometimes, you’ll come to find, it’s all the small things you do for her that she loves about you. Attract her with class. Engage her mind. Seduce her senses. And on a cold night or rainy day? Just hold her close and remind how very much she’s loved and protected.

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Make no mistake..always a gentleman, but there shall always be a dark animal side… Press the right button and you will see. Every beast can be contained, never truly tamed. Never dance with the darkness if you aren’t prepared to be consumed by it.

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You never know or realize this, but I am always watching… protecting. Here, you are safe to express yourself and venture forth. Here… You are free. When the darkness returns, I shall always be there to quell the storm. Welcome to the collective… may you enjoy our sojourn into the depths within.