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poetry on a beat

[namjoonchronicles]

someone’s definitely lost their mind while writing dionysus… which one of you idiots thought i like to party and drink, i work in hospital

[namjoonchronicles]

2 yrs later, i party AND drink BECAUSE i work in a hospital HELLO

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a 71 page interactive digital planner free for you to use

compatible with goodnotes and any other app that supports interactive PDFs

included are: overview 2020 and 2021, monthly overviews of august-december, weekly overviews for each month, monthly mood trackers, monthly ‘playlist of the month’, monthly to-do lists, monthly notes pages, to-do lists, different types of note pages (blank, dotted, checked, lined), sticker page

7 different cover choices

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[fibu-deactivated20231205]

[anotherrandomblogon]

Fear is not consent

[nigerian-empress]

I WILL REBLOG THIS FOREVER. F O R E V E R

[blueymoons]

For those in the back;

FEAR IS NOT CONSENT

[mara-smith]

My home will be a home with no loud anger, no explosive rage, no slamming doors or breaking glass, no name calling, shaming or blackmail. My home will be gentle, it will be warm. It will keep my loved ones safe. No fear, no hurt and no worries.

[autumnhobbit]

literally all four Fs of trauma typology lmao

[autumnhobbit]

Flight—Responds to abuse by constantly attempting to escape it, devolves into self-repeating perfectionism in the belief that it will prevent future abuse, obsessed with either geographical escape or forcibly recovering instantaneously to escape the continual, constant torture.

Fight—Responds to abuse with anger and aggressiveness because that is the only thing that appears to give control in family dynamic. Responds to anything that resembles attack with cruelty and defensiveness and attempts to manipulate with intimidation and disdain before others can manipulate them.

Fawn—Responds to abuse by attempting to become the perfect victim in the hopes of being less hated and less mistreated in exchange for cooperating. Turns off all personal desires, boundaries, traits, and emotions, tries to become exactly what the abuser wants. Continues this set of interpersonal rules even with non-abusive outsiders.

Freeze—Responds to abuse by attempting by any means to dull or numb it. Shuts down mentally, tunes everything that is said or done out, drowns it out with electronics or isolation or addictions. Prefers being disconnected and unaware to actively living.

[scripturient-manipulator]

Yes!! Fawn is a rarer response just because it requires more complex work in the brain than the other responses, and so most people don’t realize or act like it exists so both as a therapist-in-training and semi-former fawner this is great.

[thetravelerwrites]

There’s actually a fifth fear/trauma response: Flop. Much like prey in the wild, a victim will become dead weight by hitting the ground and not moving, either literally or metaphorically, hoping that their lack of movement or response will either scare off their abuser or cause them to lose interest.

Fight and Flight are traditional/typical fear responses in masculine personalities. Fawn (also called Friend), Freeze, and Flop are traditional/typical fear responses in feminine personalities. These five fear responses are known as the Defense Cascade.

Sources:

Rapecrisis.org.uk

National Institute of Health: Defense Cascade

National Center for Biotechnology Information: The Biology of Fear

[pixie-unger]

That right there - fawn - why it is normal for abuse victims to try to normalize their relationship with their abuser

[-animalina-]

Life is just a blind fight

We fight only ourselves day and night

[personatwt]

[siketae]

we really don’t deserve joon 🥺💞

[-animalina-]

Perfect people dont exis-

Bts : hold my beer

[namjoontro-temp]

The world must become a place where the act of loving myself shouldn’t require permission from another.

~ RM from LOVE YOURSELF 結 ‘Answer’ Behind

[lucas-is-mine]

I CANT STOP LAUGHING 《gif not mine》

[suga-ssi]

TODAY ON BTS THROWBACK…

[GIF] 130321 Suga’s Vlog

Let’s go back to Yoongi’s 3rd Spring in Seoul… It’s his 7th now… :)

He has been determined ever since… and from the looks of it… his relationship with his family was okay then… I mean, if it wasn’t… why would he still dream of living with them?

“I’ll struggle as much as possible when I’m young, achieve my dreams, and live with my family

vid source: Bangtan Trans

[inferno-loop]

We are their shield, we are partly a reason why our boys are bulletproof. I’m happier than ever to be a part of the boys’ beautiful journey as ARMY. 

You’re getting there suga <3

On an entirely different note, THANK YOU FOR EXISTING MIN YOONGI. :)))

[honeystae]

Dionysus coming on,,,

[-animalina-]

IF THIS AINT ME AT 3AM

[st-a-y]

The stars

We are the kids who cry ourselves to sleep

The ones who slit their wrists open

Hoping the blood will flow out as fast as our dreams did

We are the kids who have panic attacks

And say we are fine, when its the last thing we are

We are the kids who feel bad for being happy

As if we don’t deserve it, even if we do.

We are the kids who stare at the stars

And wish we were never born

As if we are already dead

But we aren’t

Not yet.

- Extract from the book I hope I will write (lol)

[btsboyswithlove]

This is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen. If you’re not a BTS stan then you will be after watching this.

[-animalina-]

SHUT UP THIS WAS THE BEST SURPRISE EVER. YALL REALLY SET THEM UP ON !! W.E.M.B.L.E.Y !! then proceeded to surprise them with suddenly singing song that holds SO MUCH MEANING to both them and us and they ALL CRIED *i mean they already cry when they hear us sing this song WITH them but this THIS WAS ugh * like SHUT UP PLS WE LOVE YOU AS MUCH AS U LOVE US OML THIS WAS THE BEST whoever planned this can have my life pls

[ultkkjoon]

My favorite things Namjoon has said

Namjoon has such a big mind. I feel like he’s the type of person to think deeper into basic things. I love the way he thinks so, I decided to take out some of my favorite things he’s said.

P.S; I also added some of my favorite Gifs in there too ;)

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[yanderechild-archive]

most sagittarius thing jin has done: laughed so hard at his own joke that he cried

most pisces thing yoongi has done: licked a bath bomb thinking it’d taste like fizzy vitamin

most virgo thing jungkook has done: vacuuming up fruit flies at 4am

most libra thing jimin has done: asked tae to slap his ass on live tv and was rejected. he then proceeded to slap his own ass

most aquarius thing hoseok has done: scaring a lady when he spread open his legs doing a headstand in the elevator

most virgo thing namjoon has done: once when asked what army meant to him, he said “my source of income”

most capricorn thing tae has done: said he wants 5 kids in the future and a dog for each one of them

[heartthrobjk]

TBIS IS THE FUNNIEST THING NAMJOON HAS EVER SAID