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this is a post all about how each of the bnd members are when they reach subspace! i was kinda just yapping in this and looked online to see people's experiences with subspace and also just applied my own ideas to this. hope everyone enjoys!
warnings: 18+, sub bnd, subspace
park sungho.
sungho doesn't just submit to you sexually, he also partially submits to you in regular circumstances. he needs to feel very safe and like he can truly rely on you in order to allow this sort of vulnerability with you. honestly, the first time sungho reaches sub space it scares him quite a bit, but it's bound to happen. he reaches sub space randomly, in scenarios that are completely unexpected. it's hard to tell when it will happen because he's unsure also, everything is so new for him since he's used to being more dominant. i do think that sometimes he'll reach subspace if something already happened prior to the session. if he's had a rough day and he really doesn't want to think and he comes to you to make him feel good he may just shut his brain off and slip into subspace.
since he's so used to being dominant and putting himself second, being submissive is not usually in his mind. when he gets the opportunity to be submissive, he wants to give his all to it, he wants to try it fully, but he may get in his own way at times. he tends to fight it at times, when he feels himself getting floaty and dizzy, he’ll have you stop for a moment, telling you that he feels funny. it would be easy to begin to notice him slipping into a light subspace when he has you stop so he can shut his eyes and refocus himself. truthfully, he’s afraid to lose all control like that so he puts up a fight, trying not to give in.
when sungho reaches subspace i feel like he gets a lot quieter overall. he speaks to you in a hushed voice and sometimes he may not speak at all, instead just grabbing at you for support. he feels so euphoric that he can't form the correct words to express anything, so he doesn't really speak much at all. sometimes his subspaces don't only come on during sex and sometimes will be so unexpected that he may get floaty while cuddling up to you after work. i feel like he will often hold onto you in some way, needing to physically know that you’re by his side the whole way through. he keeps his eyes shut a lot during this, allowing himself to fully relax in this feeling. his subspace is scary for him in the first few moments, his feeling of arousal being so intense that he feels like he’s losing it, but it would fade into a sense of calmness very quickly afterward.
sungho can often sleep his subspace off during the night. he’ll enjoy his aftercare in your arms, feeling so much love for you before dozing off to sleep. he’ll wake up with that sense of dizziness still lingering but will almost immediately be almost back to his normal self. when he gets out of his subspaces, he’s always so grateful to you and i feel like he’s just so appreciative of everything that you do for him and for taking care of him a lot.
lee sanghyeok.
riwoo is a submissive person in general if i’ve ever seen one, he’s docile in nature, gentle and sweet at his core. he loves hard and wants to love to the point where he has no regrets. he’s openly willing to be super vulnerable and trusting with you. he can naturally take on submissive roles in every way and he feels very comfortable doing so. i think he slips into subspace quickly and easily; it really doesn’t take much for him to get there and to get there fully. it's rare or him to slip into subspace and it be light and surface level because he usually immediately goes in deep.
he’s devoted to you, outwardly willing to allow you to do whatever you desire to him. he wants to make you happy, and he wants to surrender himself to you as well. riwoo craves intimacy, loving to be close with you and wanting to feel deeply loved. he loves the kind of intimacy where you kiss his belly, kiss all over his face, and hold his hand during sex. he goes into sex fully vulnerable, straight off the bat he is giving himself to you.
riwoo slips so deeply into subspace that he usually goes fully nonverbal, getting floaty quite quickly. his subspace progression is fast, like a switch was flipped. having things set in place to help riwoo communicate during subspace is very helpful to the situation. asking him questions where he can just nod his head and questions that don’t require him to think very hard are so good for him. simplicity is key with him because he’s a simple guy in general. emotional support is also so important for him, praising him and doting on him and being ready to take care of him is so helpful. sometimes you need to ask him how he’s doing or if he needs anything multiple times to actually get an answer from him because he slightly zones out.
he goes into subspace very quickly and i feel like he also comes out of it just as quickly. usually for the rest of the night he isn’t talkative and may doze off quickly, feeling so cozy and safe. once he wakes up in the morning, he’s usually mostly out of it if not fully out of it. he’s pretty easy to deal with when he’s in subspace. he just gets very floaty to where it's like he doesn’t know a single thing, so you have to kinda be the brain for him. he trusts you to do that as well which is why he’s able to become as floaty as he does.
myung jaehyun.
jaehyun is a deeply intimate person, the type to love very hard. during sex he always craves intimate and romantic situations, holding your hand, gripping at your clothes, kissing you while his cock is buried past your walls, things like that. being submissive comes rather naturally to jaehyun so i would say he reaches sub space somewhat quickly. he reaches sub space during more soft and romantic scenarios where he feels like you and him are the only people on the planet. he also can reach subspace in scenarios where you push him to his limits, to the point where he's crying and begging for you.
sex is a vulnerable experience for him, requiring trust and deep companionship from his partner. jaehyun’s emotions also greatly contribute to the overall experience. he's sexually emotional, his heart feeling super full and bursting with love. just being near you and having you there take care of him heightens his feelings of euphoria. he fully gives himself to you, putting his all into you and each sexual exchange. he trusts you very deeply and relies on you heavily. he's given you his heart and allows you to control his pleasure and that's a big deal for him.
while in subspace he tends to babble a lot, his vocal tone being airy and soft. sometimes his behaviors in subspace are a bit hard to recognize because it's not drastically different to how he is with you normally. it's very important to pay close attention to him and check on him often. jaehyun may sometimes ask for things he wouldn't normally want, making requests that are out of the ordinary. he tends to word vomit quite a bit, he'll start talking and it takes a bit for him to stop, even if he's lost his original point long before. since he babbles a lot i feel like having very simple straightforward questions with him will be beneficial. being able to just ask, “what's your color?” to check on him will in a way refocus him while also letting you know how he's feeling. even with something like this though, it's important to pay attention to every part of his body because he may not fully understand how he feels because his feelings of euphoria are so intense.
usually once in subspace jaehyun takes a bit of time to fully get out of this headspace, slowly easing out of it as the time passes. he may be in it for the full day afterwards, the intensity of it slowly wearing off. during this time, he's often very clingy, relying on you more heavily during casual activities. he may need you to do a lot of things for him and to take care of him, but he is so so cute like this. he holds onto you tighter than normal and cuddles into you like he's afraid to lose you.
han taesan.
taesan craves attention and love but is also a guarded person overall. he’s not someone who’s easily very vulnerable, similar to sungho it will take him time to feel safe to be vulnerable. you’d have to slightly convince him and show him that it's okay to trust you and be vulnerable with you. once you convince him to give in, he craves you like never before. i think he’d find himself in subspace more often than expected but he would love the feeling of it.
although taesan may think he's able to fight it and he may think that he's keeping himself afloat he's really not. he's a romantic and he gets into sexual scenes deeply, completely zoning in and spending his time fully present in the moment. i see him entering a light subspace very often, whether wants to or not. he doesn't fall into a deep subspace very often though, that he is able to hold off on. he's needy and requires your attention as a sub, creating that space between the two of you where it's only you and him. when he feels his mind getting all foggy, he embraces the feeling, loving when he can fully zone in on you.
when taesan slips into his light subspaces he feels like he's losing his grip on reality. he feels dizzy, like he'll have a hard time holding himself up if he tried to sit up without help. he'll beg for you a lot, always feeling like he needs more attention from you. he's the most pliant like this, willing to take anything you give him, as long as you take care of him well. when he's in deeper subspace, while it's rare it does still happen. he slips deeply into his subspace, feeling like he's surrendered his life to you. his body grows weak, and all his movements become sluggish. he focuses fully on you, everything around him feels like it stops. if there are any sounds in the room, they'll no longer ring in his ears. he isn't the nonverbal type and also not the type to babble, he's somewhere in the middle. he'll beg and whine for you, sometimes for no reason.
i get the feeling that taesan can usually pull himself out of his subspace pretty easily for the most part. the only time he really stays in it for a while is when he's gone into a deeper subspace, then he'll need lots of support to help coax him out of it. he needs help physically to do a lot of things and will basically live in your skin for a little while.
kim donghyun.
leehan loves to give, he loves to take care of you and to be in a position of control. while this is true, i do also think that he is one to do anything for his partner. if it makes you happy then he is very willing to do what you like. on the standpoint of vulnerability though i do think he’d have some issues fully giving in the way that you may expect him to, needing to be guided a bit. he has a tendency to try to be dominant in every situation, so you have to turn him into the perfect sub for you. it's not necessarily easy to get him to slip into subspace, not because he’s guarded or anything, more just because he’s not particularly sensitive within his vulnerability.
he often keeps a sense of dominance with him through everything he does. it isn't impossible to get him to be very submissive, it's just that his mind doesn't ever lose that other side of him. he doesn't fully slip in like some of the other members might because his mind just doesn’t go there. his subspaces tend to be very light, but he goes into them easily because he loves letting you do what you want and letting you be happy taking care of him.
in his subspace leehan is just the cutest thing ever, his eyes telling a million stories. i feel like he talks during his subspace but sometimes it seems like he’s just talking to talk because he sounds so dopey and silly at times. his eyes are super expressive, going all wide and being full of love and adoration for you. he stares at you so much, the gaze in his eyes is almost like he’s never seen you before. he loves your praise and compliments a lot when he feels all floaty, every word that leaves your mouth hits him more intensely like this. he continuously smiles like a fool in love as well, he’s just so pretty and cute like a puppy.
i think the aftercare is pretty mutual with leehan. he loves to crack little jokes and spend this intimate time with you while you help him get all cleaned up. i feel like when he’s in this foggy mind space he’s so silly, laughing at everything and being super smiley. his subspace kinda goes away within a few hours but he loves to spend the whole night cuddling and being super close.
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this is a post of boynextdoor's sensitive spots/erogenous zones based off of a personal reading that @000-pawz has done for bnd!! this is all for fun and also based off of what i think as well so it's all in good fun!! thank u for sharing this info with me dai <3
warnings: 18+!! body worship, exhibitionism, nipple play, hair pulling
park sungho. waistline and abdomen.
sungho takes pride in his body, he’s worked hard to look the way he does so you love to spend a bit of extra time admiring him for all his hard work. you quickly found out how sensitive he is because of your desire to praise him. you’d have him laid underneath you, placing kisses all over his face, trailing down to his shoulders and chest. when you got to his abdomen you’d begin peppering kisses over his abs, your finger running down the center of his abdomen. you’d never forget the way he shivered at this and the way he breathed out a gentle moan. every kiss you left on this area of his body had him closing his eyes and his lips parting. his head felt dizzy as you muttered soft praises against his skin. you love to kiss sungho, always taking time to press your lips against his after a long day. you pull at the sides of his shirt as you do so moving your hands under his shirt, pressing them to his sides. he moans into the kiss, giggling a little at the feeling of you caressing his waistline.
lee sanghyeok. stomach and dick.
sanghyeok’s dick has always been sensitive, always more sensitive than anyone you’d seen before. he’d whimper at the lightest touches, his body tensing at you even brushing against it. this was one of the things you adored most about him. another spot that’s sensitive on him is his belly though, this is something you found out on accident. the two of you would be eating snacks together, enjoying a sweet treat and enjoying each others company. you’d call him cute and put your hand under his shirt to rub his tummy. when you brushed against the lover part of his tummy he’d let out a little whine, one that he didn’t even mean to let out. his face would burn red at this and he’d immediately apologize because he genuinely didn’t mean to do that. you’d giggle at him and tell him that it’s okay but then you’d ask if he liked that. he’d wanna curl into a ball and die but he couldn’t deny that it was making his dick hard. you’d tickle him a little, continuing to touch there and it wouldn’t be long before he’s all needy for you.
myung jaehyun. inner thighs.
jaehyun’s a sensitive guy overall so its almost like every spot is his sensitive spot but there’s one area that gets him going more than the others. when you place your hand in his lap under the table he doesn’t think anything of it at first, offering you a sweet smile at the gesture. your hand stayed in place for a bit, jaehyun placing his hand in yours as well. you’d move your hand out of his grasp, slightly slipping your hand between his legs, fingertips dipping in between. he’d almost jump at this, the sudden movement taking him by surprise. he’d press his legs together tighter, his skin feeling almost tender where you touched. he’d try to keep himself together at the table, spreading his legs a little for you once he’d calmed himself a little. it would take almost no time for him to get needy, his hand gripping onto your wrist as you touched him. you’d only have to gently move your fingers along his skin to have him falling apart for you. you’d see how hard he is and it would take no time for him to be begging to go home.
han taesan. chest/nipples.
a whine breaks out of the boy's mouth, his lips returning to a pressed position. taesan was trying so hard to keep himself together but the stimulation you're leaving on the most sensitive part of his body is making it extremely hard. you have him sat in your lap, his back against your chest and body completely bare in front of you. his full weight is pressed against you, body too weak to sit up on his own. you feel his arms continuously tense against your legs as he grips at the sheets beneath him. his cock, stood up proudly, continuously twitches as you run your hands over his chest, precum bubbling at his tip, sliding down the left side of his shaft. you keep your touches feather light, as you brush your fingertips against his hardened nipples. he hadn’t realized how much pleasure could come from the sensitive nubs on his chest. he loved when you teased him but hated how desperate it got him and the way you’re playing with his nipples had him feeling insane. it’d become a habit after this point for him to touch his nipples during sex because it just felt so good.
kim donghyun. neck and hands.
his lips are pressed firmly against yours, his body pressing towards you. he'd push you backwards, easily controlling the kiss as he moves you towards the bed. his hand would support your back as he falls forwards with you, lips never pulling apart. your hands swiftly move up his body, one of your hands would rest on the back of his neck, soon after trailing up his neck and into his hair. your grip on his locs would be loose but he'd break away from the kiss, moving back to take in your expression. he'd smile down at you, eyelids hooded as he stares down at you. “go on. pull harder.” he'd hover over you encouraging you every time to pull his hair. he let's out the prettiest moan every time you do, his satisfaction is evident. he loves to feel your hands on his neck in general, like when you place your hands on the back of his neck or even when you put your hands around his throat. he's also a huge fan of hand holding during sex, he loves too feel your hands against his, the way you squeeze, the way your hand gets warm, he loves it all.
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i feel like leehan is the type to want his s/o’s glasses on during sex because something about the way your glasses fog up as he’s pounding into you drive him crazier
leehan loves to see how he's affecting you, the way the glasses fog up slightly and how you keep having to adjust them on your face because of the way he's fucking into you. he gets off on seeing you struggle just a little bit <3 he also just thinks you look so good in glasses like i feel like he'd sometimes take off the glasses he has on to put them on you because you look so cute.
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some jaehyuns for you <3 anytime i see a tiktok or a picture of jaehyun and sungho or taesan i'm like oh! me and dai!!!! (*∩_∩*)⭐️ mwah take care by dear 🐈
isa isa i've missed you <3 thank you for the cutie pie myungjae >< i really needed this!!! we are so sungho and jaehyun like kittypuppy unite =￣ω￣= i hope you're doing okay as well and taking care of yourself!!! kisses 4 u xxxxx
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