I don't regularly use Tumblr, but I'm trying to use it more kind of!!
I post my art, random thoughts, etc. I don't particularly crave being famous on here I like my little corner.
Boundaries
I don't have very many, but I will say this. Keep the asks SFW. I would love to draw things more (please please llease tell me what to draw). I like talking about my OCs, my interests, and very occasionally talking shit bout people. I am bad at social cues. Either use tone tags or get the vibes in parenthesis at the end of your sentence!! (Like dis, lighthearted).
Anyway I love my partner and thats the end of the post 🫶
“ fly , feel your mother at your side . don’t know you know you got in my eyes ? I’ll make you fly ! ”
Info :
- I use the name sword , you can also just call me leo
- i use a lot more pronouns than some of our headmates , shark / he / they . You’re not forced to use the shark one dw
- im 28 years old , but rules still apply cause we’re bodily 17 soooo yeah also I’m aroace and it’s just weird
MORE :
- fictive of f!leo from cass apocalyptic series ( please read it’s so good )
- my role is moodbooster . I used to be cohost cause I fronted sm , but I don’t rlly do that anymore so I’m demoted to just moodbooster despite everyone hating me /silly
. . . I LOVE sharks . No one else in the system loves sharks more than ME I LOVE THEM also glass animals
Boundaries :
- just don’t flirt with me period I don’t like it personally because im yeah- our partner is reserved to flirt with me jokingly , no one else pretty please
- fine if you compare or “treat me as source” I have too many source memories to completely separate myself anyways
- playfully insulting me is completely fine and honestly funny . Sometimes if i don’t know you well , I’ll have a moment and I’ll ask you to not do that so respect it
- did you know we rlly love our amazing and supportive partner ? oh ! you don’t ? Darn ,,, it would just be a shame if we told you how much we love them
. . . fun fact : we’ve had a special interest in psychology since we were in elementary school !
boundaries :
- dni ; basic criteria , proship / darkship , incest , non-traumagenic systems , demonize / romanticize cluster b disorders ( ill add more if i need to )
- thin ice ; endogenic neutrals — fine to follow , but i won’t interact as much , if at all .
- byf ; we only talk about our experiences and what has been currently researched and proven about dissociative disorders + yap and correct misconceptions and misinformation angrily sometimes .
. . . don’t use our blog by itself to self diagnose . you have a higher chance of being incorrect than you think . please do real , high quality research that isn’t from social media !
Ok, I saw something on tiktok that made me mad, so Im making it everyone on here's problem.
[CW for talk about body shaming, EDs, and general shittiness from this girl about bigger bodies)
Hi, Im a fat person. I got one of those ai voice-over videos of a roblox girl doing the same obby they all do (you know the ones) that start with "guys i have an opinion!!" This is the most dog shit opinion I have ever heard, so Im gonna walk through why "GalwithJesus" on tiktok is fucking crazy for posting that shit ON THE INTERNET for ALL to see.
She starts by saying "Not all Sizes are beautiful" and I'd like to say, that's a crazy way to start you're "no offense but I think" video. I can't believe I have to say this in the big year 2025, but yes, all sizes are beautiful. And, by the way, no one fucking asked you.
She moves on to say "being a little over or underweight is fine," and she should stop there, but she proceeds to say "but looking like a twig or a fat circle is not".
Hey. Girl. I just wanna talk.
No, but seriously, this is not a good thing to say. Obviously, being severely under or overweight is bad for people's health and you, being the angel that you are, just wanna look out for people. But at the same time, it's also not you're fucking business what people look like, and you shouldn't immediately go into body shaming for your fuckass opinion.
Next she explains that she's gonna focus on the "ones that are obese, because these are the ones brainwashed." Ummm... ok. She goes into her rant after this and doesn't explain how we are brainwashed.
Her first actual attempt at a point is to say "not being able to fit into a normal sized chair is nothing to be proud of" but girl, what constitutes a normal sized chair? And why is it your job to judge people for being cramped in a chair? She proceeds to say "you're not just a little bit chubby, you're just obese" which, again, crazy. I know some people with really fucking wide hips who are at a perfect weight for themselves and their bodies, but they get uncomfortable in chairs with arm rests because they squeeze their hips. Are they also obese?
Next she says "the people who say you're beautiful the way you are or some people are meant to be big really dont give a shit about you." Ummm... ok girl... so, you're saying people's friends and loved ones should just body shame and belittle them until they magically lose weight? Again, FUCKING crazy thing to say. I don't think you'd be the type to walk up to a fat person and call them fat. Clearly, you're not even using your real voice to say this shit, so I dont think you'd say it out loud.
And then, and this is the big one boys, she says "you really can't be eating all day and then go outside and complain"
Ooh.. crickets. This did not hit the way you thought it did, girl. You're just spending this point body AND diet shaming people. Absolutely WILD.
"You are never meant to be getting this fat in the first place" oh, ok. Yeah, you're right, let me just take it off- OH WAIT! Can't magically lose weight. Woopsie daisies!
Then she tries to pull in a reasonable argument people have, "what if someone has a medical condition (or, as she puts it, illness)?" And her response is "exactly, it's an illness, nothing beautiful about that" like umm ok. What are you talking about? If someone is living confidently with a medical condition where people like you are going to shame them every day of their lives for looking the way they look, that IS beautiful. Like. What.
She goes on a mini tirade about "you cant change human nature" and "if you cant take care of yourself" bla bla bla, the same bullshit. Then another argument she brings up, "its none of your business" AND OH EXACTLY!! YOU'RE RIGHT ON THE POINT GIRL!! but then she reels back with "then dont complain about it in front of me bleh bleh bleh >:(" like.. girl, i dont think anyone trusts you enough to bring their problems to you. If i were your friend, I would be terrified to complain about anything around you.
She finishes off with "at least try to get the help you need" as if she actually cares about that!!! Ok, so, I hope you're helping to pay for a dietitian!! No? Ok, how about... better food options!! You're not going to pay for anything..? Oh, ok, then how about working out with me to help encourage it. Oh, you're not doing that either?
Then shut the fuck up!
If you need to make a video fatshaming people and acting like you only care about their well being at the end, you should do it better! This video would be horrible to watch for someone struggling with an eating disorder or body image issues. You are a bad person!! But I hope you feel better because every single comment agrees with you. You are a nasty person, and I hope your negativity comes back to haunt you.
Also, she made a follow up where she clarifies that "not fitting in seats should be a wakeup call" and proceeded to show a bunch of different body types and deciding for herself which ones were healthy. So. I have no comment on that, I'm sure you can see what's wrong.
Guys did anyone else have the surreal experience of believing that it was illegal to "have a kid in bed" as a young child? Like. It was illegal to have sex in your own home to get pregnant?
Why the fuck did i ever believe that why am i stupid. GUYS HELP.
