Neo

[12neo21]

Antivirus-Program called "Antibiotics", which does absolutely nothing

[12neo21]

To all my questioning people (especially aro/ace):

Idk if that will help you, but what helped me was a "*identity* until proven otherwise"-appoarch.

Like, it was like: "yes, that certain identity sounds like it could be correct, but I am really not sure. It's just my best guess at the moment, but I'm thinking about it too much right now to have a clear picture of it" with a sprincle of "I dont want to have to think about it anymore, but can't stop thinking about it until i have an answer" and a "how can I ever be sure :("

And now, about 2 years later I'm preeeetty sure I was right all along. But I couldn't have found that security back then without the time that passed.

But still, I never stopped that approach! Yes, I can confidently say that I am aroace now, but I still have this "unless proven otherwise" safetynet, which allows me to be unsure?

(The same thing also kinda worked for me being enby, btw)

Yeah, idk whether that post helps anyone, but I thought if I don't put it out there, it for sure won't :)

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Since I'll soon travel to denmark: Is the invading plan still a thing?

is it?

yes

no

Voting ended onMay 22, 2024

[12neo21]

Another one to make aro, ace and aroace trend!

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Who am I to assume my gender 🤷

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Tumblr right now, Tumblr on valentine's day, Tumblr during aromantic awareness week

[flareforthedramatics]

Its insane how accurate this is tbh. Hell, I'm usually in between the two and it suuuuuuucks

[12neo21]

Happy ace week!

(A great opportunity to f*ck amatonormativity :))