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Joy Sullivan, from "Late Bloomer", Instructions for Traveling West
Years of personal growth can be unraveled in 2 days at your parents house
me listening to my playlist: omg that’s crazy i love this song
—MOON SONG, PHOEBE BRIDGERS
you don't just marry a person. you marry their ecosystem. their food. the temperature of their house. their sleep schedule. their friends.their family. their way of moving through the world
This made me think about all the “I can change them” people and how in reality, it usually ends up changing you. The reason we become those people isn’t just control but the hope that love can create the safety we are craving. That we never got or aren’t giving to ourselves. It’s attaching to potential instead of reality. Believing that if you can fix what feels off, you won’t get hurt later. That if you can shape the situation, you can finally relax
Sometimes it comes from old patterns where love to you meant earning, proving, or holding everything together. So you start adjusting yourself your standards, your needs, your routines,trying to make the relationship work. But you don’t change someone into alignment, you choose someone who already is because that “ecosystem” isn’t a small detail. It’s your everyday life. It’s what you wake up to, how you feel in your own body around them
And if you constantly have to reshape yourself to fit into theirs, you’re not building a life together you’re slowly abandoning pieces of yourself just to stay. And this expands to everything else in your life. Just to avoid looking inward, and really going for the love you deserve
Kedi 2016, dir. Ceyda Torun
Mary Oliver, from "Such Singing in the Wild Branches"
https://thenewinquiry.com/blog/social-media-is-not-self-expression/
you don't just marry a person. you marry their ecosystem. their food. the temperature of their house. their sleep schedule. their friends.their family. their way of moving through the world
i recommend telling yourself “this isn’t an experience i want to keep having” and stop entertaining things that are really detrimental to your health and don’t benefit you in anyway.
Healing is realizing you deserve better and losing attraction to what disrespected you
from a recent reflection
man having your life even a little bit together will really make you realize how chronically sleep-deprived and poorly fed and under-enriched everyone is and then when they turn to you to implicitly agree that that's just the natural state of existing you feel like the asshole for being like "actually I think you might benefit from eating breakfast regularly and picking up a new hobby"
i love seeing best friends goofing around in public. i love seeing couples laughing together. i love seeing little kids walking hand in hand with their parents. i love seeing dogs running happily back to their owners. i love seeing closeness and positive relationships, and knowing all that love is out there
chase REAL dopamine ☀️
meditate first thing in the morning
journal any thoughts to clear your mind
dance to your favorite songs
get lost in a book
take a walk
exercise + move your body
make home cooked meals
hot shower before bed
stretch with deep breathing
watch more sunrises + sunsets
play board + skill games on free time
watch comfort movies without your phone
sip tea while watching rain fall
morning sun on your face
have conversations full of love