Nasty things in the 317

I post things I find that are filthy and turn me on. NSFW... 35 yr old male Dom Not my own content! Yet!!! So feel free to reblog.

[sendbatteries]

How to Serve Men

1. Spread your holes

2. Do everything you’re told

3. Shut the fuck up

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Which of you agree?

[deleteingmyaccount-deactivated2]

i agree thats how u serve us men

[317life]

@lil888851

[thedenier-deactivated20180804]

Exercise

A good girl understands that edging is not about pleasure. Yes, edging should take the place of orgasms as a girl learns to be a good girl, but that does not mean that edging is meant to please her, or that edging is meant as a replacement for pleasure. The idea, a good girl understands, is that she is giving up her pleasure. And, even though edging feels good, a good girl will start to focus on aspects of edging besides the pleasure that comes with it.  Instead of enjoying the way it feels, a good girl looks ahead and focuses on the goal that comes with edging–frustration. Constant arousal. The unbearable need to be used. Instead of moaning in pleasure, a good girl focuses on the number of times she’s edged. Rub… rub… rub… stop. One. Rub… rub… rub… stop. Two. She counts out her repetitions. Her reps. Because a good girl knows that edging isn’t a replacement for pleasure. There is no replacement for pleasure. A good girl understands that good girls give that up. No, edging is just another exercise, and a very important one at that. It helps her keep horny, just as the rest of her routine helps her keep fit.

[devotionaltraining]

Devotional Training: Give up your pleasure for Him.

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Dom Drop

A common conversation in BDSM circles is sub drop but rarely, if ever, is Dom dr0p discussed. It is a real thing and does happen! We focus so much on making sure the submissive is cared for that the Dominant is often left to their own devices.

First, before we talk about how to care for a Dom that is suffering from drop we should discuss what Dom drop is. Dom drop is very much the same as sub drop – but they can can have more emotional turmoil than submissives might. After all, they just spent a good afternoon beating your ass red, black and blue… and enjoyed it! Society teaches us that it is wrong to do that. We grow up being told not to hit anyone and that if you enjoy it you must be messed up! So during Dom drop, there is often a period of insecurity, fear and disgust in what they just did.

Another form of Dom drop is if play stopped suddenly or unexpectedly. If the endorphins and adrenaline are really rushing around they can have a sudden feeling of fatigue, irritability and depression because of the plummeting good mood natural drugs dissipating. Either way, the Dominant is dropping.

Along with the muscle aches and pains that are signs of a good time had by all – these moments can freeze a Dominant in their tracks and drive them to depression, reclusiveness and closed off behavior. It’s completely normal to go through this.

So how does a submissive help support a Dominant that is suffering from drop?

The best thing you can do is be there, remind them that if they want to talk you will and provide physical support. KM needs sexual release, others I know want a back rub, a nap or a sweet pastry of some kind. If you reassure them that their feelings are valid and normal it will help them recover. Ask them if they need something to drink or eat – resume your submission to them as soon as you feel able to after coming down from your high.

Talk to your Dominant before you play about what they’d like you to do if they drop. They may not even realize that they need something after play. The best thing for them is that you remember to take care of them too and ask them how you can help them relax after playing.

After play, talk about what you liked and enjoyed. Boost their confidence and assurance that they just did something good and positive and worthwhile. Let them feel the connection you got from play by telling them about it. It’s always a good idea to share your experiences. 

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[317life]

@lil888851

[kubakkebukek]

i love drinking piss ill follow you if you follow me and send nudes if you reblog

[humiliatemyfuglygf]

Piss Pig.

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[shelivesfortheache]

Because the questions are rolling in here you go, a quick tack bra and panty.

Ladies, you know those annoying inserts in bikinis and cheap bras that always bunch up in the washer? Now they serve a purpose! A bit of fabric/embellishment glue and some tacks and you have an instant insert to turn any bra into a tack bra! As for the panties, just put a dab of glue on the tack head, slide in into the fabric and you’re done. Follow the glue manufacturers instructions for drying time.

i have a full cup tack bra a well but it’s heavy and cumbersome so these are a good alternative. Hope this helps!

[317life]

@lil888851

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Sir and i had some fun…. Hes still learning but hes getting better at it.

[317life]

@lil888851

[317life]

@lil888851 Check her out.

[branssparklydancepants]

Reblog if I'm allowed to ask you deeply personal questions that may seem completely inappropriate.

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❧SIᘜᕼᗩᑎIᗪᙓ☙

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[317life]

Yeah

[317life]

This is the fucking truth.

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[hu-269]

One of my favorite things is casual degradation.

Especially when it’s cute. Cuddle me tight, kiss my forehead, and call me your dumb little cocksocket. Call me that in the same tone you would call someone “love” or some other cute nickname.

If I’m taking a bath come in to talk about my day and casually unzip your fly and piss in my bathwater, without changing tone.

When I’m making dinner shove a barely lubed plug up my ass while kissing my neck and asking what we’re having.

Make my degradation so casual and part of every day that it becomes a language of love, that without it I worry you’re mad at me.

[branssparklydancepants]

Reblog if I'm allowed to ask you deeply personal questions that may seem completely inappropriate.

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[yoursextoy22-deactivated2018041]

How'd you like it if I tie you to the back of my truck and left you in the sleaziest, most depraved part of town overnight. 'Free fuckpig for use. All holes available for cum, piss and spit. 15 min max per person.' We'll call it community service.

I love it, except for the “15 min” thing. UNLIMITED time is more like it. ;)