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post-war togachaco <3 i like to think that toga grows her hair out because she gets a girlfriend who likes taking care of it :)

#bnha #togachako #art

slfcare

Peace within yourself always translates to peace within your surroundings. Whenever you take yourself as a starting point for growth (your mindset, your attitude, the way you talk to yourself), you’ll feel more grounded as you’re branching out.

slfcare

Whenever I think of where I want to be in the future, I can't help but imagine another person doing it all. In a few months I'm flying to the other side of the world for an internship, but I still catch myself dreaming of the woman who'll be there instead of me. Confident, courageous, calm-- not the girl I still feel I am: small, fragile, perpetually uncertain in everything she does. You can't travel somewhere without moving, in any shape or form, from where you're at right now. Similarly, to be comfortable in your environment, you must feel (even slightly) comfortable in your mind, which often starts with being a little bit nicer to yourself.

My friend and I have started saying "it's going to be okay" to each other whenever we're talking about the things stressing us out. We'll be on the phone for two hours, sighing and complaining, when one of us goes, "hey, it's going to be okay, though." It's kind of like an unspoken rule that we can't ever disagree with that statement, so while we say it gently, what we really mean is, "it's going to be okay whether you like it or not!"

Saying it so often has caused it to kind of melt into my brain. A wave of nerves will hit me (because of that internship, for example, and the fact that my small fragile uncertain self will be the one to go), and I'll have to say it. It's going to be okay. Even if I have to start from where I am, with who I am. If I'm unable to have faith in myself now, then I must have faith in who I'm becoming, and in the fact that who I'm becoming is still me (and therefore I am somehow inherently worthy already).

What I'd really love is to wake up tomorrow and just be that person (confident courageous calm woman). But since it's my responsibility and I'm no magician, I'll do the next best thing, instead: I'll keep taking steps from where I'm at right now, and on the way, I'll keep telling myself with the utmost sincerity, even if I don't know how or when. It's going to be okay.

#etc #inspirational

softsadmana-deactivated20140108

#photography #aesthetic

milksugartea

05.15.16

#aesthetic

mujeringrata

i want a soft love that feels like when ur standing in the sunlight and u don’t want to leave and that gives u the sensation of lazily melting into what’s around u as u take it all in

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yepuji

#aesthetic

milkteamoon

Aspec poll

Im sex adverse and feel negatively towards sex in fiction

Im sex adverse and feel neutrally to positively towards sex in fiction

Im sex neutral and feel negatively towards sex in fiction

Im sex neutral and feel neutrally to positively towards sex in fiction

Im sex favorable and feel negatively towards sex in fiction

Im sex favorable and feel neutrally to positively towards sex in fiction

It's complicated and I feel negatively towards sex in fiction

It's complicated and I feel neutrally to positively towards sex in fiction

Questioning/unsure but like to be included

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Voting ended onMay 6, 2024

NOTE: I realize some sex scenes just objectively suck — this poll is simply asking whether or not you are uncomfortable with the presence of a hypothetical sex scene in a piece of media you are consuming, regardless of its literary merit

#I’m extremely sex-adverse but I have complicated feelings towards sex in fiction #How I feel towards sex in fiction often fluctuates. One moment I can indulge in the content #then by the next day I feel so impulsed by that I cannot read/look/watch any fictional sexual content for days up to weeks #while I don’t mind looking at sexual content at my own leisure (and when I’m in the mood to do so) it’s not frequent #like I don’t mind if it’s fictional but sometimes the lines of fiction and reality blend together and hit close to home so I disengage #it’s why I don’t socially engage in nsfw content. i often get squirmish and uncomfortable. esp when certain things are brought up. big no.#I also don’t like being touched either (I rlly don’t like it) so this rlly tops the cake for me LOL #etc

jumex

due to not wanting to. I will not be

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ishikorokoroishi

“ Flowers and Plants ”

loveandpop

you know, life doesn’t have to be competitive. you don’t have to get in the very best university; you don’t have to get the highest paying career there is. you don’t need to compare and compete with everyone else in the world. you need to do what’s right for you. you need to relax, take a breath, and say ‘what do i want, for myself, to live as i want to’. and, if that involves high ambitions, then that’s fine. because you chose those ambitions on what you desire as an individual, and not on what is expected in order to succeed. let’s be ourselves this year.

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