Friendly Neighborhood Twink

He/Him I 22 | Disabled Lela (or Lee, whichever’s easier to remember), writing and drawing and being twinkish Also mayor of @yap-city and head dork at @kitschycabin

[50stressballs]

Dude for real though your worth as a human being is not dependent on how productive or “useful” you are. You could do nothing but lay in bed all today and you’d still be worthy of respect and care. Bro you are a living breathing human being and your life has inherent value. Like straight up you don’t have to do something impossible or world changing with your time on earth in order for you to matter. We are all specks of dust in the cosmos and the fact that you exist at all means you are important. Dude you don’t have to earn the right to live bro, like I swear bro, like no cap.

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[punkitt-is-here]

Hello person having transgender thoughts but convinced they aren't trans because they don't have the requisite amount of dysphoria they think they need

Hi I transitioned without even thinking I had dysphoria. Like later in hindsight I can go "oh that's probably what it was" but for the first year of my transition I was straight up like "I like being a guy but I like being a girl WAY more" and you can do that!! There is no prerequisite amount of suffering needed to make yourself happier.

[punkitt-is-here]

Gonna include these tags cuz they're good

[50stressballs]

Hey guess who’s rewatching Steven Universe

You know I started off trying to make the lighting make sense but then I very quickly switched to “fuck it just feel it out” mode and tbh I like the results, so. If the shadows are confusing, um. Just don’t think about em🤷‍♂️

Based on this Lapis frame from S3 E4, Barn Mates.

[50stressballs]

*clippy voice* “It looks like you’re having some trouble with dysphoria and sensory issues. Have you tried chopping all your fucking hair off?”

[50stressballs]

Returning to my roots (looking like a 14 year old lesbian who refuses to go back to the hairdresser after they wouldn’t cut my hair the way I wanted and did a “softer, more feminine look” instead, so I spent the next 4 years cutting my own hair in the bathroom mirror)

[50stressballs]

*clippy voice* “It looks like you’re having some trouble with dysphoria and sensory issues. Have you tried chopping all your fucking hair off?”

[50stressballs]

Recently my partner and I were talking and we both said we considered our first date together to be this time in our early teens when we went to the library and had lunch. We’d been friends for several years at that point, hung out a ton, been to each others houses. But for some reason that’s our first Date in both our minds.

Which got me thinking like. What do you define as A Date vs. just hanging out? I’m asking as an ace/aro person in a QPR but you don’t have to be ace/aro to respond.

My partner and I decided a date was A). Where the main objective is to get to know each other and B). You’re worried about impressing the other person (Especially in the context of a first date). But I’m very interested in other people’s opinions.

[50stressballs]

Disclaimer here that obviously the #1 qualifier for something being a date is both people AGREEING it’s a date. You can’t like. Date-trap somebody. If one person says it’s not a date, it’s not a date.

But I’m talking more in a vibe sense. What makes it FEEL like a date. What has Date Energy vs Hanging Out Energy.

[50stressballs]

Recently my partner and I were talking and we both said we considered our first date together to be this time in our early teens when we went to the library and had lunch. We’d been friends for several years at that point, hung out a ton, been to each others houses. But for some reason that’s our first Date in both our minds.

Which got me thinking like. What do you define as A Date vs. just hanging out? I’m asking as an ace/aro person in a QPR but you don’t have to be ace/aro to respond.

My partner and I decided a date was A). Where the main objective is to get to know each other and B). You’re worried about impressing the other person (Especially in the context of a first date). But I’m very interested in other people’s opinions.

[50stressballs]

EVERYBODY SHUT UP, I’M AN UNCLE NOW!! AHHHHHHHHH

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

[50stressballs]

New desktop background fr

[thesituation]

basically my opinion on many many things is “you should be allowed to do that and i should be allowed to be uncomfortable with it and the government and law should not be involved in this whatsoever”

[50stressballs]

For writing/RP reasons somebody give me a crime. Just like any crime, murder or money laundering or littering. Can be as generic or detailed or obscure or cliche as you want I don’t care.

[kitschycabin]

I’ve got maybe 2 more photo sessions before I’ve catalogued all my DC Upper Deck cards, then I’ve got a small collection of Playland Arcade Justice League cards. It’ll take me a week and a half? Maybe? To finish organizing and posting all that, but then it’ll be time to move on from DC for a while. Once we’re done with the DC cards:

What should I post next?

Marvel Annual 2021/2022 - Upper Deck Trading Cards [30 cards]

Bobs Burgers Burger Box (recipe cards inspired by the show) [75 ish cards]

Webkinz Trading Cards Series 1 [100 ish cards]

The Deck of Many Things & Many Fates (from Stratagem) [49 cards]

Take a break from cards to post dice, antiques, figurines

Voting ended onOct 19, 2025

[kitschycabin]

Okay, just finished photographing the last of my Series 2 Webkinz cards and put them in the queue! In a few days, I will have digitally catalogued all the Series 2 cards I own.

As I’ve mentioned before, I want to do this with my ENTIRE collection eventually—I could just go in the order they’re in my binder, but a vote seems more fun. So:

What should I post next?

More Webkinz cards (series 1 this time)

DC comics trading cards (starting with the small series, then maybe Upper Deck)

Some Dice! (Some novelty dice and maybe some DND dice)

Doctor Who cards (Monster Invasion or MTG)

One of my oracle and/or tarot decks

One of the really cheesy 90s card series (Rad-Dudes, Bill & Ted, T2, etc.)

Voting ended onOct 2, 2025

[50stressballs]

On one hand ADHD makes hobbies very frustrating because I constantly get super hyperfixated on stuff, pour all this time and energy and even money into it, and then drop it out of nowhere.

But on the other hand it’s kinda fun because look!! Look at all the stuff I’ve tried!!! I was obsessed with origami for 6 months straight in middle school, and I still remember how to make hearts, so I always fold my candy wrappers into little hearts before I throw them away. I spent two years in sewing classes and I still have a pair of penguin print pajamas I made. I got super into coding for like 2 months last year and learned the basics of C#.

And yeah maybe the hyperfixation faded and I wasn’t into the hobby anymore, but that doesn’t mean the time was wasted. I did stuff! I learned things! I forgot most of it, but I still learned it!! And you know what, I had fucking fun doing it!!! And that’s what hobbies are all about, dude. You don’t have to be working toward mastering a skill or making some masterpiece. You just gotta kill time and have fun.

[50stressballs]

Before I was born my parents fostered a Labrador retriever as a part of this program to train seeing eye dogs. The idea was here’s this lab puppy, you feed and socialize and care for it, then when it’s, idk, a year old? We’ll take the dog back so it can get trained and become a real seeing eye dog.

So for a year, my parents had this yellow lab. And they house trained him, and hung out with him, and all that jazz you do with puppies. Then the year is up and they have to give him back—and it’s sad, of course, cause they’ve really grown to love the little guy. But they knew it was gonna happen, and it’s for a great cause, so they say goodbye to the dog, assuming they’ll never see it again.

Flash forward to about 6 months later. My parents get a call from the training place. “Hey, we’re really sorry to do this, but the puppy you fostered is TOO STUPID to be a seeing eye dog. Your dumbass dog FLUNKED out of dog school. Do you want him back?”

And my parents said “shit, yeah, give us our extremely stupid dog.” And that’s how they adopted my childhood pet, Vitas, the silly silly boy who got fired from being a seeing eye dog.

Anyway sorry to whoever in, like, 1999 had to get a different seeing eye dog because this dude flunked out of school. But as someone who spent a large chunk of my childhood with this guy, I can tell you it’s… probably for the best. He would’ve SUCKED as a service dog. He was extremely stupid❤️

[50stressballs]

If you don’t have at least one embarrassing hobby what are you even doing. Waste your money on stupid garbage. Become a super fan of a super overplayed musician. Get obsessed with an objectively bad television show that no one cares about. Don’t you understand how freeing it is to do things just for the love of them? Don’t you understand that all of us, every single human being, is at least a little bit lame? Don’t you see how beautiful that is?