missy

Lifestyle submissive: Happily married and monogamous to my Dominant, HisLordship. FInd me at www.submissy.com and www.thesafewordsclub.com

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Forced Orgasm Scene

Forced Orgasm Scene #MasturbationMonday

The first proper scene the we did when we started D/s was a forced orgasm scene and it remains one of the easiest ways for me to reach subspace. To get to that point would probably be between 4 and 6 separate orgasms but with rolling ones in between.

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It begins with my being instructed to have my bath and then come into the bedroom when I am ready. I can hear the music…

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Something Different

Something Different #SinfulSunday @HisLordshipuk

Actually it is someonedifferent rather than something different. This is HisLordship’s peachy little bottom which I am posting with his permission. I am not usually the one behind the camera so it made a change when, during one of our hotel stays, I slipped into the bathroom and was able to sneak a few shots of him. I didn’t realise at the time that the reflection in the shower door would show…

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Bunny Ears

Bunny Ears #friflash

It was a gangsters and bunny-girls birthday party for one of the mums she had known for a while. She hadn’t been fussed about going but he had decided they would accept. She seemed to spend too long in the company of other women her age who did nothing but moan and complain about their husbands wanting sex and then organised things laced with the sort of innuendo which was only going to lead to…

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Roots Revisited

Roots Revisited #wickedwednesday

….we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossoms had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.

 ‎Louis de Bernières

In my post, Roots, I wrote about the impact that change and loss had on our relationship and in particular, the way that it impacted on our dynamic. The post was written back in January of 2017 so well over a year…

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Respect the Rules

Respect the Rules #F4TF

Rules are pretty key to our relationship, although even without that I am a person who likes to have rules to follow. I suppose that is why a D/s marriage works so well for me as having rules and structure makes me feel safe. It makes sense of things and makes me feel as though I have a focus and can get things done. Without this I can feel a bit all over the place and it puts my stress levels…

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Elust 110

Elust 110 #Elust

Photo courtesy of Lido ~ Exposing40

Welcome to Elust 110–

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #111? Start with the rules, come back October 1st to submit something and subscribe to…

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Greedy

Greedy #MasturbationMonday

He has been forcing the orgasms from me for so long I have long lost count. I am so far past myself that I am no longer aware of what I am doing. I can hear the noises I am making but it is as if they are coming from someone else.

My body feels alight, so hot, so sensitive it is almost painful. The intensity is nearly unbearable and I hear the laughter in his voice as he says, “Oh I think there…

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Watching

Watching #SinfulSunday

“The viewer watching the view is also being watched by the view! So every viewer is also a view and every view, a viewer!”

― Mehmet Murat ildan

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Beauty Queen

Beauty Queen #friflash

She was absolutely mortified.  She had been joking when she had said the thing about the beauty queen, and here now she was. “Go on. Show them how beautiful you really are.” He encouraged. It was as if her feet were rooted to the floor. They wouldn’t budge. “No way. I can’t do it. I know you want me to but it’s too much. It’s too far,” she pleaded.

Palm pressed firmly into the small of her back,…

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Risky Sex

Risky Sex #KOTW

As a school girl I can remember my mum coming home after delivering meals on wheels to the elderly lady who lived across the road and reporting the she had said, “I see your eldest is courting.”  What the lady had actually seen was my boyfriend kissing me goodnight at the back gate with three fingers buried deep inside me as I wriggled and squirmed in pleasure. I was never afraid of risky sex and…

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Being Vocal

Being Vocal @F4TFriday

I struggle to be vocal during sex and play. It is not something that I have ever done and therefore it feels uncomfortable I suppose. I know that part of what makes things work well is to communicate your thoughts and feelings and I have no trouble with that in other areas of my life, but where my own needs with regards to pleasure are concerned, I tend to keep quiet. This makes things difficult…

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Ruby Glow Review

Ruby Glow Review @TabithaErotica @TheRubyGlow @rocksoffltd @thesafewordsclb

This review was originally written and posted on The Safeword/s Club.

The Ruby Glow is a “dual-action vibrator and intimate massager.” According to Rocks Off who make the toy, when you try it “you will understand what makes it an exhilarating hands-free ride. It is a saddle-style, non-penetrative clitoral vibratorwhich can be used even when fully clothed. Shopping online, working from home, and…

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Someday

Someday #WickedWednesday

Someday we will have an empty nest. I am not wishing my life away as I love the life that I have but neither am I dreading the end of the formal part of my role as a mother. I really enjoy being a mum and for a time that probably did define me. But as the children grow older and become more independent there is space there to be filled with something that you can create for yourself. Those years…

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Prologue

Prologue #MasturbationMonday

I know that something is different when I go into the bedroom and my clothes are laid out for me. He tells me to put them on and something in his tone means that I don’t ask any questions about the dress he has selected. I get a flutter as I get ready and he watches me. I feel self conscious and would usually try to joke to deflect from how I feel but it is as if he sees through me so I don’t…

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It's not natural

It’s not natural

I have had recent conversations with submissives who have said that their partners are not naturally Dominant. I find this a really interesting thought. When I first suggested D/s to HisLordship I felt it would work well because it fell in with the way that we were naturally. I saw him as the more Dominant partner and myself as the more submissive. These were only some of our qualities though and…

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Masturbation

Masturbation #F4TF

I remember when I first started masturbating. I don’t know how old I was, maybe 12, but I recall the way it felt. Even then it wasn’t just the physical; doing it felt really illicit and I loved it. In fact the thought of doing it was so thrilling and naughty that I pretty well got off just on that. I started with the classic rub, humping my pillow until I ‘got the good bit.’ I then got more…

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