Before a Relationship
Joyful and creative, ENFPs tend to attract a following of people seeking their inspiration, lifestyle, and wisdom. Fashion would be the most concrete example, in which others often adopt their style of clothing. More abstract examples would be their worldview or values. While they are popular, they tend to not care about popularity when selecting their mates. Rather, they tend to respect those who have a strong moral cause or potential contribution to the world.
ENFPs have a strong desire to be liked and accepted. At younger ages, an ENFP may excessively praise people to the point of insincerity. The underlying drive is their desire to gain acceptance. However, the ENFP eventually learns to balance their integrity with their need to be liked. When they have achieved this, they develop the exceptional ability to bring out the best in others.
During a Relationship
ENFPs are playful and optimistic, affectionate and considerate. Their partners will often say that ENFPs brighten up their day. They bond with their partners by sharing their feelings and experiences. They encourage their partners to pursue their dreams and wish to hear the same encouragement back.
Focused on their partner’s feelings, they often ask how they are doing to assess the healthiness of the relationship. While in some instances this behavior can be seen as smothering, it fosters an awareness of the healthiness of the relationship. They are willing to put in all of their effort to make sure the relationship is positive, since relationships are a central aspect of their lives.
ENFPs find happiness in pleasing others. Thus, they readily shower their partners with compliments, love, and affection. Likewise, they like to hear positive assurance and compliments from their partners, as well as affirmation that they are loved and valued. ENFPs are warm and loving partners who are able to have intense, meaningful relationships.
They are particularly sensitive to criticism, which they interpret to be a rejection of their character. They can become unexpectedly stubborn and defensive in such a situation. Conflict causes ENFPs extreme stress and they tend to agree on something even if it goes against their values just to avoid confrontation. ENFPs possess incredible perceptive abilities. They scan their environment and notice all that is unordinary.
They can focus their concentration on one person and understand all that is happening. As a result, they often interpret hidden motives behind people’s words. Because their perceptive abilities surpass their concluding abilities, they may draw wrong conclusions, becoming unnecessarily suspicious. This may present as a mild detriment to a healthy relationship.
ENFPs have been known to have difficulty walking away from bad relationships. They often blame themselves for failures in the relationship and will often remain in bad situations. They believe that they were responsible for not saving the relationship.
On the other hand, if they are not with partners who share the same enthusiasm for new experiences, ENFPs may have trouble staying in monogamous relationships. They will persistently dream of exciting possibilities and eventually lose focus on the relationship. When an ENFP is paired with someone who is compatible, however, they are deeply faithful. ENFPs are typically able to form intimate, long-lasting relationships with their loved ones.
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