87 Years Will Be Our Always

Hi! I'm Mica! And....--> this is Vincent. We are lovers separated by 8,000 miles. We are reckless kids with too much passion for our own good and we taught each other how to love with everything we have...even the things we didn't know we possessed. We stick together... always.....and for the next 87 years...neither of us will ever be alone. Oh, and can you guys do Vincent and I a favor? If you decide to give us a follow or a like or even nothing at all, please send us a message here or on kik and introduce your beautiful selves! Our username for kik is @87years P.S. Vincent...I loved you from the very first day. Engaged since 12/2/15

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How do you feel about the election? Is Vincent still moving to the US?

Hi!

Sorry for such a late response...

I refrain from talking about politics on my blog. It causes too much unnecessary frustration. And Vincent is not still moving to the U.S. We are still together and going to get married, but things have changed a lot. I’m hoping to post an update soon! 💛

-Mica

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Announcement: Mentorship Program

Hi guys!

All of the writers, including myself, are very excited about this new step in expanding NOHMS and hope that this will benefit all involved in the program.

In a nutshell, the mentorship program is one month long and involves one-on-one communication and friendship between a follower and a writer; the writer will be your mentor. The goal of this program is for the mentor to be able to be your friend and try to give you the best advice that they can as you get through the month together. For example, if you feel like you need help with quitting a self-harm addiction, you will be placed with a mentor that has dealt with that and they will advise you as best they can on how to move past that struggle. Some mentors might give you assignments to complete, others might want to talk through it, and still others might come up with something totally unique! While the writers will be assessing your situation and planning the best plan of action for you, your dedication and willingness to do what they ask you to do is essential.

The mentors currently involved in the program are:

Kenzy: Specializes in self-harm, sexual abuse, depression, anxiety, teenage pregnancy, bullying, and suicidal thoughts. She is very driven; organized; very artistic; gets to the point quickly.

Jason:  Specializes in self harm, suicidal thoughts, anxiety, depression, sexual abuse, and deaths of those close to you. He is a great listener; soft spoken; and has a gentle approach to helping people.

Eryn: Specializes in self love, relationships, depression, anxiety, and emotional abuse. She is caring; patient; and a good listener.

Snoopy: Specializes in family dysfunction or trauma, ADHD, and traumatic grief. She is quirky; positive; poetic; and very artistic.

Dory: Specializes in trauma (all types), traumatic grief, depression, and suicidal thoughts. She is wise; methodical; open-minded; and an outstanding listener.

Ariana: Specializes in relationships, self love, and teenage pregnancy. She is confident; dedicated; and doesn’t give up on people.

Cindy: Specializes in suicide, depression, anxiety, mental health (in general), relationships, and parental problems. She is inspirational; likes to examine things closely; and is fun in her methods!

As we only have around 7 mentors at this moment, we can only take on 7 followers per month. The first 7 people to email [email protected] or message me privately will be the first round of followers involved in the program. If you are not one of the first 7 to email or message me, you will be added to a waitlist and will be taken on by a mentor as soon as one is available. At this point, this is a free program.

Please include in your email:

-Your name, or fake name if you want to remain anonymous -Your preferred mentor -Why you’re interested in this program -A short bio explaining your interests -If you’re willing, a backstory on your life

Note: Your responses to the above email requirements will not have any bearing on if you get into the program. Anyone who sends us an email or chat message with the above information will automatically be inducted into the program; we just need the above information in order to make sure we understand what you’re hoping to gain from the program. 💜

Much, Much Love,

Kenzy

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I think this sounds so much like how our trip will be. I always want to feel safe and I want to be protected, but I'm also pretty sassy and crazy sometimes. Vincent, you've got your work cut out for you 💛

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Dear sunshine, I love you with all my heart. In my weakness of this week, you have stood up even taller and stronger than before. You've helped me take each step of every hour of every day this week and you've helped me fight even when I want to fall down and give up. You take care of me more than anyone I've ever met and I'm so thankful for you. I can't wait to eat the sandwiches you're making me for the ride home from the airport and I definitely can't wait to feel those strong arms holding me up in my weakest moments. YOU are my sunshine on every single day of the year and lord knows where I'd be without you 💛 Love, Mica

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This is the epitome of Vincent. He does speak his love, but he shows it even more. Just like today, he texts me to ask what kind of sandwiches I want for the ride home from the airport in case the plane food sucks. I really hope you all can find someone like Vincent, someone who loves you so damn much that it is starting to steal other words' meanings. 💛

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You have me 💛

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From the day me and Mica met we were scared to be close because we had been hurt before but we always stood by each other. I love this picture so much because we have shown over the years even with the distance we never walked alone. We always had each other to talk to. I love you Mica.

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I love pictures like this because I’m the same. When I have my beautiful wife next to me I can’t help but want to hold her and touch her. I can’t wait to be crazy and cute with yoy my dear.💛

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I think this is so me when I look at Mica. I just look at Mica and see this beautiful and breath taking work of art. I ask myself every day what I did to deserve her love. You are so beautiful my darling and I can't wait for you to get here so I can hold you and look at how beautiful you are. I love you Mica bear

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I think it's been really interesting how we made this our song from the first month we were together and how it still rings true even today. You are and have always been my sunshine in the darkest of days and the stormiest of nights. You know, I always thought I was allergic to the sun, but I think that I just hadn't been exposed to it enough to react correctly. I had been deprived of sunshine for so long that I no longer knew what it was like to feel the sun on my skin and warmth in my body and then you came along and exposed me to this new kind of sunshine that still catches me off guard to this day and I love it....and you 💛