“Women’s requirements are too high!”
I saw a “how to attract a partner” meme made by incels and some of the things that they’re bitching about are weird.
Like “women want men who have a career and a car.” Don’t you want a career for yourself? And if you live in a community where a car is needed, don’t you want one? Being able to transport yourself is freeing. Don’t you want those things for yourself?
“Women want you to have friends and hobbies!” Don’t you want a fun thing to do in your free time aside from sitting at home? I know it’s hard to make friends as an adult but I joined a recreational softball league this summer. That’s a good way to meet people and a hobby. It’s good for you to have a hobby and have friends. Shouldn’t you want those things?
“Women want you to have an education” sure, college is expensive but you can get a decent education at community college for relatively cheap. I worked while going to school online. It’ll take longer but you can do it’s. Trade school is great. You can make really good money practicing a trade. Having more opportunities in your life is a good thing. Why not try and pursue those opportunities?
“Women want you to go to the gym everyday.” Not really? I don’t think the majority of women like roided out muscle men. Women want a partner who tries to take of themselves. Go for a walk once a day. That’s free. Eat a vegetable. Try and balance your diet a little. Wash your face. Drink some water. Those healthy habits that are good for you and will make you feel better. Also you’ll look better.
Women want potential partners to have happy, full, fulfilled lives. I don’t understand why that’s mean or bitchy or cruel. These are things you should want for yourself.
“Ugh women want me to better myself! Too hard. Too much work.”
TL;dr Most of what women want in a boyfriend/husband are things you should want for yourself. I don’t see why that’s bad. You should want a partner that wants the best for you.
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Credit to the original poster NvrmndOM who posted this on r/IncelTears on July 23rd, 2026 at 4:15 PM UTC.


















