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I grasped two things: I wasn’t as happy as I could be, and my life wasn’t going to change unless I made it change.

Gretchen Rubin, The Happiness Project (via simply-quotes)

Do yourself and everyone else a favor and make your impact a positive one. Please do not be remembered for being dismissive, rude, or unkind. Please do be remembered for being polite, interesting, thoughtful, for listening, sharing a story, doing your dishes, cooking a meal, buying a drink.

PJ Bond, The Road Most Traveled (via seethreepio)

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Reality

When I was younger, I wish someone had told me straight-up that not all adults experience “a calling”. That many of them never find particular purpose in a career. That sometimes, their job is just what pays the bills and they have to seek satisfaction and fulfillment elsewhere.

Because as an adult, this pervasive notion that there exists a perfect path for everyone, that people should love what they do, and that work is meant to function as a vehicle for fulfilling a person’s grand life destiny is not only inaccurate for many of us, it can be toxic.

The ideal is so ingrained that I have to remind myself constantly I’m not a failure because I don’t adore my job, and because I’m not rocking the world with my work. That is okay.

Sometimes, work is just work. There isn’t always a perfect career path, magically waiting to be discovered. There might not be this THING you were born to do. Sometimes, you discover that what you really want to be when you grow up is “paid”.

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Sums up my thoughts lately. But I have realized that there are activities I do enjoy that I will give more attention to in my “free” time. Perhaps, soon enough they will occupy my “working” hours as well.

--Crystal.