what sign placements need to work on
Aries: You need to stop rushing into things because you feel like it. Youâve likely been told this a million times but youâre not completely convinced anythingâs worth being patient for. As an Aries moon, you have a deep need to get things done, move on with life, as fast as possible, itâs always âon to the next oneâ ⊠losing an opportunity because you didnât act on your impulse fast enough would be a nightmare to you. When Marsâ ruling sign is in the moon, impulse is a key word especially when it comes to emotions. You need to learn that feeling strongly about something does NOT always mean you have to act on it. You choose to ignore that sometimes it is possible to act too early for example, coming on too strong with potential partners and scaring them off, or expecting someone to get over upsetting events quicker than they can and dismissing them when they canât. Use your head for once. You need to be aware that what you feel and what you do, dont always have to be aligned. It may be better not to start something rashly that would be a waste of productive time so⊠do learn to weigh the pros and cons (something your sister sign Libra excels at). Normally what happens is you start something on an impulse but you grow bored of it quickly and divert your attention elsewhere. You excel at initiation, but you lack endurance and perseverance. This emotional need for excitement and new projects can hold you back in your life, especially in most careers where skill like patience and perseverance are highly sought after or required. Also, just because you move on from things quickly doesnât mean everyone else does. Learn to be respectful of othersâ pacing and approaches even if it doesnât feel ârightâ to you - not everything is about you and you are not the world authority on the right way to feel no matter how much it feels like you are, ESPECIALLY when youâre so painfully oblivious to any depth or causes behind your emotions.
Taurus: You need to learn to get your mind out of the gutter. If you donât, you will never grow emotionally. With a fixed earth moon, you genuinely believe holding on to things is the ârightâ approach, even if these things are currently of no use or value, out of fear that youâll need them later. This applies to both possessions and principles. Youâre so stubborn with your beliefs and youâre well aware of this⊠The reason most of you choose to do nothing about this is because youâd rather stick to what you know and be wrong than to risk adopting a new belief or approach that proves to be ineffective and a waste of your time. This leads to stagnancy and a feeling of being stuck⊠And you know why! STOP letting your deep seated fear of change and âlosingâ valuable things/people hold you back from taking risks and leaps out of your comfort zone. STOP letting your emotional need to be absolutely sure of details/pros and cons hold you back from iniating or making a move in relationships or careers. Time isnât forever, you know this better than most. What you need to do with all this fixedness is ACTIVELY challenge your schemas and thoughts. Learn to prioritise rationality over comfort and it will become gradually easier to step out of your comfort zone. Unlike Aries, you excel at persevering but lack initiative. Wouldnât it be better to start something without being completely sure of all the details and pros and cons and slowly become more certain over time than to lose an opportunity because you were too busy meticulously assessing if it was worth the time and effort? And if you end up at a disadvantage then at least you know for certain whether it is worth your time or not. Let. Things. Go. Your way is NOT always the ârightâ way of approaching things just because it feels comfortable or practical to you. You need to learn to be more tolerant of othersâ approaches to things. Youâd think youâd have learned that by now with all your apparent love for peaceâŠ
Gemini: You need to find stability in every aspect of life, especially emotionally. All that chaotic Mercury energy might seem fun and great at first, but gemini moon natives can find themselves feeling lost, confused and annoyed with their scattered mind. It is therefore extremely important to find some grounding influence if you want to achieve personal growth and, for this particular moon, a way to calm the restless mercurial energy or risk imploding in on yourself with your propensity to rationalise and analyse your emotions instead of simply feeling them. One way you can express this is through communicating/teaching others or stimulating your nearly insatiable intellectual abilities through being the student and learning new things. Your strength lies in your resourcefulness and ability to bounce back from most difficult situations. This changeable nature also means your moods are like the wind.. fleeting and unpredictable, the Gemini moon combines the mutable signsâ adaptability and the air signsâ abstracted and detached logic. You need to learn to develop empathy for others or at least be supportive of their emotions rather than dismissive. You need to stop avoiding working through your emotions and get over with the painful process sooner rather than later. Being ruled by the planet of communication is no excuse for being insensitive to the emotional needs of others and/or your own. Most importantly, you need to find a core. Stick to your plans, see what happens.
Cancer: Stop giving into your emotions. While you do feel emotions more strongly than most, you let them control you too much and they guide all of your actions. In order for this moon to reach true self-actualisation you must develop objectivity. You have to develop your rational skills and actively attempt to distance yourself emotionally from situations; this will be extremely difficult but it is vital for your growth and it will help you feel more in control of your emotions. Moreover, you need to stop being so stuck in the past - your sentimentality means your past or childhood memories had profound effects on you that you tenaciously cling to, but you must let go and live in the present, look towards the future. The possibility are endless which is why looking to the past to guide the present and future is so detrimental and counterproductive. Learn that clinging onto things that are already slipping away wont keep them in place, it will only elongate the healing period. You know this. You have a tendency to wallow in self pity though⊠Stop being self-involved and divert your enormous emotional capacity to others, thatâs when you are at your best. You also need to learn to take risks in relationships and become less guarded - not everyone will hurt you.
Leo: You need to stop being so dependent on attention or praise from others to feel emotionally secure. Moreover, having an enormous emotional need to be recognised is not an excuse to demand attention from everyone you love. Stop assuming you are everyoneâs top priority cause really youâll just end up hurting yourself with this assumption. Itâs childish and arrogant to expect everyone to pay undivided attention to you all the time and you know this and yet⊠You still continue to do it? Just because others give you a free pass to be as demanding and bossy and self-absorbed as you wish to be doesnât mean itâs ok for you to grow complicit with this, no matter how much you want to be. Your optimism is contagious and your will so strong itâs infectious, thus therein lies the problem: pride. You are always under the deluded assumption that you are right and everyone elseâs opinions are inferior, wrong or irrelevant but you must work on being more open to criticism and correction from others, otherwise youâll drive people away with your prideful insistence and stubborn refusal to admit you are wrong. You must also work on adopting more reasonable expectations of the people you love as you often demand a lot.
Virgo: You need to adopt a more forgiving, positive lens for the faults you find in others and yourself. While your high standards and nitpicky nature allow you to achieve great accomplishment and have competent capabilities, they can ultimately be your downfall. Stop being so critical of yourself and others out of a mistaken assumption that itâs helpful and necessary. Sometimes focusing on your strengths and positive traits is whatâs needed in a situation. Your perfectionist and obsessive tendencies can make you go over the same thing several times which actually conflicts with the productiveness and efficiency you so desperately need in order to feel emotionally secure. In order to achieve self growth, you must accept that you cannot achieve perfection or youâll spend your entire life chasing it. The best thing you can do is give things your best. Tell yourself there was nothing more you couldâve done, which is normally true. Burn out your restless mercurial energy through analysis or other forms of detailed communication, but do not rely on this. To reach full potential you must be able to remain calm in moments of chaos which you despise. Skip or change routines.
Libra: You need to stop depending on othersâ companionship to develop your own personality and/or feel emotionally secure. In order to self-actualise you must learn to be comfortable and confident on your own. Realise your own worth by going out alone, eating alone, staying in alone etc until youâre comfortable with being left alone. Stop letting others decide things for you. You need to develop your decisiveness and not let people take advantage of your easygoing personality. While you do require equality in a relationship, you can be a bit of a pushover with others in fear of being left alone if you assert yourself. Thatâs not healthy. Work on standing up for yourself and making your own decisions - ignore your superficial desires to have companionship and realise that this is vital to your personal growth. Also there is a tendency to be somewhat detached and rational with emotions, so you need to make a conscious effort to be more empathetic to othersâ emotions.
Scorpio: You MUST stop trying to control everything and everyone. Manipulating others and controlling them will not ensure their loyalty to you. What sense does it make to control what canât be controlled? And yet you never stop trying. Closing yourself off from people to avoid betrayal is unproductive and unwise. You may be eliminating any chances of betrayal, but youâre also effectively denying yourself any meaningful relationships and emotional intimacy with others - an integral need of the Scorpio moon. You need to put more trust and faith in people. Not everyone is out to get you. Isolating yourself does not make you invincible, it will only make you miserable.
Sagittarius: You need to let yourself form meaningful relationships with people without getting flighty. Your biggest issue is emotional commitment. Even all the traveling in the world wonât necessarily make you feel whole, as enlightened as you pretend to be. You want constant excitement and stimulation but you need to learn to make do with what you have and enjoy the simple things in life⊠The world wonât be accommodating to your need for variety and change, so you feel smothered by routines and any stagnancy. You need to learn that committing to things is not a punishment, but actually reap many benefits - especially with Jupiter watching over you. You also must learn to develop a sense of empathy and respect towards othersâ emotions as your bluntness comes off as insensitive and irreverent (and it is). Not everyone moves on as quickly as you.
Capricorn: You have an innate sense of self-control and resilience which are both your greatest strength and weaknesses. Your need to have things in order and in control hinders your potential to grow, explore and learn because youâre so terrified of making mistakes in the first place. You think sticking to what you know/the comfort zone will stop you from making mistakes because itâs already âtried and testedâ. However, you must experiment and develop some versatility to truly learn. Making no errors doesnât teach you anything. With the moon in detriment, you are uncomfortable openly expressing emotions and affection and prefer to keep it under wraps. The main challenge with Capricorn moon is to overcome the saturnian âblockâ and express their feelings and emotional needs without shame. Capricorn moon is terrified of emotional intimacy however and preoccupies themselves with work and career. There is a deep need to be productive and useful which they often focus on fulfilling when their need for firm yet gentle guidance/love is unfulfilled. You must learn to open up to those who care about you and thrive on a little disorder to achieve self-actualisation. Learn to enjoy rewards without feeling guilty.
Aquarius: You need to stop searching for your identity through global causes. You disguise your detached insensitivity behind a faux-altruistic worldly veneer, as a transparent attempt to hide the fact that you donât really know yourself. You stubbornly refuse to interact with your emorions outside of analysing them and you must learn to acknowledge them sooner or later! Itâs just over quicker when you make the right decision and address this weakness early on. What happens often is Aquarius Moons often neglect figuring out who they are deep down and instead preoccupy themselves with global issues that they find more ânobleâ and âimportantâ. However there is no way of achieving personal growth without knowing yourself on an inner level. Donât be complicit in this cycle of obliviousness.. youâd think youâd have learned to break this routine by now when your moon is ruled by Uranus.
Pisces: You need to learn to stop yourself from getting lost and drifting off in foggy daydreams. When Neptune meets the moon, the imagination is rich and vibrant. There is a tendency to maladaptive daydreaming and escapist tendencies which can turn dangerous if this leads to addiction/substance abuse. Work on being more in touch with reality and the menial world. Itâll keep you in check. Face your emotions and fears head on, stop running away! Avoid your flight tendencies and stick to a plan, make lists, all sorts of menial tasks that engage you with the âreal worldâ. Do anything to keep yourself from losing your grip and giving into unhealthy temptations.
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Aries: Learn to just⊠pause for a second and read in between the lines. Actually think about things⊠The surface level wonât always be honest to you. Learn to rationalise thoughts and weigh the pros and cons.
Taurus: Learn how to open your damn mind. Itâs a cliche phrase only because few actually invest mental energy in developing tolerance to other viewpoints and very few actively challenge their fixed schemas. Regardless, that is what you need to do to achieve a âgrowth mindsetâ. You want practical advice? Actually listen to what others are saying, not what you can prove wrong. Prioritise logic and rationality over your comfort in sticking to mental routines. It will be uncomfortable but itâs vital for your growth.
Gemini: Learn to look at the details. Stop skimming over everything, that will inevitably bite you in the ass if you keep looking for the âgistâ of things. Also learn to develop mental endurance. You excel at absorbing a variety of information and mental versatility but you get distracted too easily. Some things are worth paying attention more than 2 seconds for⊠Every time you catch yourself diverting your attention, be proactive. Force yourself to go back and see if you missed anything worthy/important.
Cancer: Stooooop linking every mental stimulus to your past and stop confusing your sentimental insistence on using the same emotion-based approach for practicality. You might have a rich imagination and great memory, but you need to learn to be more rational. Try to memorise things in different ways. Pay more attention to reality and the present.
Leo: Ok 1) stop yelling and 2) stop blowing everything out of proportion. Constantly exaggerating details will eventually get in the way of your not-so-subtle goal to be credible/recognised and respected.
Virgo: You need to learn to look at the big picture. Nitpicking over tiny and often irrelevant details may have bode well in high school but it can cause you to miss the point or answer that is in plain sight. Perfectionist tendencies make you go over things a million times paying utmost attention to all the little things and⊠this reductionist and obsessive way of thinking ironically gets in the way of the efficiency you claim to prioritise.
Libra: You need to learn to be more decisive, and more importantly learn that extremes are not necessarily inferior. If you act as a mediator in an argument, actually try and reach a practical solution and/or conclusion instead of just endlessly weighing abstract pros and cons. Learn to think on your feet. Some decisions are better made with less deliberation. Prioritise productiveness over logical assessment. As for indecisiveness, if youâre stuck between two decisions flip a coin or use an online decision maker for more than two decisions and in the moment it takes to generate a choice, youâll know what decision YOU want to make as youâll find yourself secretly wishing for it. If you genuinely are unsure, go with the decision the generator made. This will help you become more confident in making decisions.
Scorpio: You need to learn to accept that sometimes thereâs no depth to things. Learn when to stop probing and go ⊠probe somewhere else instead of wasting your time. Some people really are that shallow. Some jokes really are that inexplicably bad. Some information really is that cryptic and you canât figure it out simply because you donât know all the information. Stop over thinking every single thing. Some things are a lot simpler than you think they are. Save your time. Distract yourself with something intense or complicated enough to override your overly analyticalâ mind.
Sagittarius: Stop preaching oh my god.. giving a generic ass answer to faux-deep questions does not make you a philosopher. Learn to look at the details. Also stop being oblivious to how blunt you are, it can be detrimental to your growth. Learn to exercise self awareness in the way you communicate.
Capricorn: You need to learn to pay attention to what you canât see. Like the other earth mercuries and Aries, what you see is what you believe. Only looking at things at face value holds you back from mental self-actualisation, along with that God complex. You think ignoring whateverâs between the lines in favour of logic is practical and yet ironically insist your line of thinking is right to the point of bias. Focus less on whatâs âefficient and productiveâ and more on detached logic as well as paying attention to the unobservable.
Aquarius: Stop thinking you have all the answers holy fucking God complex⊠You claim to be tolerant and open minded but go off at or shun anyone who doesnât share your opinions, even when evidence is presented. Work on being less rigid with your opinions and accept that others might know more than you/be more ~globally aware~ than you.
Pisces: Learn to likeâŠ. be present. Stop daydreaming your life away. Stop giving in to your indulgent fantasies. Itâs not productive, but thatâs foreign language to you anyway. Basically actively remind yourself to pay attention to the real world, and in detail. Set external reminders. Do you really wanna look back on your life realising you wasted most of it daydreaming? Youâre a deep thinker in a way the other signs arenât, but on the downside thereâs a reason Mercury is in detriment when itâs in Pisces. Your path to mental actualisation may be more difficult for you than others, but thatâs why itâs so VITAL that you start now if you havenât already. A developed Pisces Mercury has all the answers to the questions no one knows. Donât let yourself slip away. Even if itâs tempting.
Aries: You know relationships can like⊠have a few moments of quiet right? Like itâs possible to have a fun and exciting relationship without going to a different rollercoaster or nearly dying every day. You need to learn to pause every now and then and actually think about what your partner would enjoy, because half the time you just seem like a chaotic bumbling mess incapable of just chilling for a while. Learn to COMPROMISE in relationships like your sister sign Libra. Venus is in detriment in Aries so itâs hard for sentimentality or romance to be expressed. The relationship doesnât have to be fun 24/7 or about doing things. If it is then the relationship isnât about being in love with the person letâs be real itâs just about doing things you feel like doing, just with a companion. Learn that itâs ok to just stay in sometimes. It doesnât necessarily mean the relationship is stagnating or the spark is dying or that youâre âsettlingâ - you may simply be growing through the relationship by feeling secure enough in the union to do stuff you wouldnât normally do. Also liking someone doesnât mean you have to immediately jump into a relationship, try extending the chase for a while and you might be pleasantly surprised how fun that stage is. Outside of the area of relationships, you can be impulsive with regards to finances and you indulge in immediate gratification. Learn to CONSERVE, hold back and appreciate the beauty in things. And the next time you try to show a friend or someone you care about an appreciative gesture, consider lending them an ear without judgement instead of suggesting a fun night out for faux-selfless reasons..
Taurus: You need to learn to be more spontaneous in relationships. You are very loyal and stable and therein lies your weakness. Learn to take risks in relationships whether youâre attempting to start one or in a deeply committed one. Stop using the fact that youâre âsettled downâ as an excuse to be lazy and complicit. You can have fun outside your comfort zone⊠You just take a while to assess whether a relationship is worth investing in or not. Keep in mind that they wonât wait forever though, better to take a chance in a relationship and realise itâs not going to work than to miss the opportunity to start one because you kept wondering if you should take the risk⊠At least then youâll know for sure. Aside from relationships, Taurus Venus can be very indulgent so they must be careful not to over indulge and become lazy and too preoccupied with worldly pleasures. You need to stop focusing on your own comfort. Take chances. Change up the routine. Donât let life become stagnant. Just because something feels comfortable doesnât mean itâs healthy.
Gemini: As a mercurial Venus, you need to talk less and do more in relationships. Youâre not fooling anyone by just being verbally expressive, your actions have to back up your words. Stop freaking out when someone says the words settling down. You can have a healthy, exciting relationship even when you commit to someone. Outside of relationships, you really just need to listen to people, like actually listen to what theyâre trying to say between the lines instead of listening to wait for your turn to speak. You give up on pleasures easily, the type to give up on a show two episodes in because itâs not mentally stimulating enough or too boring. Stop that. Learn to be patient.
Cancer: You need to stop being a creature of comforts and stop being so reliant on reassurance. Work up the courage to be affectionate with people even if they arenât reassuring you 24/7 and actively challenge any insecure thoughts when the people you love arenât around you. Learn to be more independent, not everyone appreciates clinginess - not to mention this placement is more likely to have dependency issues. Get out of the house, have fun by yourself. Learn that a relationship is strongest when you donât need reassurance because the security between the people in the relationship is that unbreakable. Outside of relationships, there is a tendency for comfort eating or comfort spending if the wallet allows it. You need to develop confidence and security from within rather than from these external factors. Learn to let go of past hurts.
Leo: You need to learn to be more reasonable with your expectations. You have a larger-than-life, almost childlike view of love and these demanding expectations can be exhausting and even crippling to the people in your life who canât give you the flamboyant over-the-top grandiose displays of affection you dream about. This is disappointing to you, but not everything can be grand all the time - a lesson that must be learned when the Sunâs shining hot rays meet Venus. That doesnât mean your partner/friends/family love you any less, they may simply have a more toned-down way of expressing love. Loving you can be⊠expensive. Leo expects grandiose luxury 24/7 and this can lead to over indulgence and laziness in relationships. Leo Venuses may also be impulsive with their spending and always treat themselves if the wallet allows it. Keep an eye on this and control your appetite for luxury in order to grow. Be considerate of your partnerâs needs/other peopleâs needs rather than endlessly thinking about how they donât measure up to YOUR ideals.
Virgo: Venus falls in Virgo so the planetâs desire for calmness, beauty and social grace conflicts with Virgoâs critical, nitpicking, finnicky nature. Stop being so quick to judge othersâ appearance and point out their flaws just because they donât match up to your extremely high standards. These standards can be unreasonable. You constantly criticise those you love because you think it helps improve them, yet you are extremely sensitive to any criticism thrown at you. In order to reach personal growth you need to develop confidence in your appearance and self worth to the point where you are unaffected by outside criticisms. You also need to express your appreciation for those you love in more positive ways, like compliments. Constant criticism will make no one think kindly of you, despite your seemingly good intentions⊠Insecure virgo venuses can be critical out of a dissatisfaction with their own appearance. Work on being more reasonable and less judgemental.
Libra: You need to work on your sincerity. Youâre friendly and peace-loving so people enjoy your company but you have a tendency to treat all people the same, regardless of how close or distant you are, bringing your sincerity into question. You yourself often wonder if you like people or if you only like the idea of them but you rarely probe beneath the surface to avoid awkwardness. Your interactions can therefore be quite superficial. You value respect and peace above all so you may be reluctant to bring up issues in relationships. Learn to stop avoiding conflict and address importantâ issues even if it disrupts the peace. Stop thinking of people as abstract concepts and really decide whether or not you like certain people. This will help eliminate miscommunication and any resentment from the other party.
Scorpio: Love doesnât have to be painful and dramatic in order to be transformative. Your need for over the top drama in relationships can be tiring and exhausting to others. Stop relying on intense drama to work out your trust issues. Instead, you need to work on challenging your paranoia of being betrayed, letting go of control in relationships and avoid guilt-tripping/manipulating people into staying in the relationships. When Pluto is expressed through Venus, there is a tendency to destroy relationships before they even start (and then some more destruction if it does take off). Just because you find love painful and messy doesnât mean you have to make it that way for the people who care about you. Stop treating them as toys that need to be tested. Address YOUR trust issues directly to achieve personal growth and form/maintain healthy, strong relationships. With this venus there is a strong attraction to the taboo so be careful, donât get carried away by your desires.
Sagittarius: Stop looking at people as âexperiencesâ to be tried. In order to achieve growth and fulfilment you need to surround yourself with loyal and caring people who donât disregard your need for freedom and independence. But for full self-actualisation, you need to realise that commitment and freedom are not simultaneously exclusive; instead of leaving relationships the second youâre not stimulated, try waiting it out. Learn to develop patience with your friends and people you love. Not everyone can be intellectually stimulating 24/7. Avoid buying too many souvenirs when traveling.
Capricorn: Learn to enjoy pleasure without feeling guilty and learn to loosen up and quit treating relationships like a business contract. If you keep assessing the costs and benefits of relationships you may miss out on an opportunity, not to mention this cold and calculated approach to relationships makes it lose its sentiment. Sometimes itâs better to just jump in even if you donât know how much you have to lose. This is not to say you are cold and calculated, but you hide your warmness behind a cool veneer. The problem is, most people wonât/forget to look beyond the surface level. Therefore, you must put in an effort in being more socially trusting, warm and at ease until you actually feel less tense and stiff. Not that it matters. Youâll likely distract yourself with work anywaysâŠ.
Aquarius: Learn that donât have to prove your uniqueness to the world through your partners. Aquarius venuses often enjoy being in progressive relationships and challenging traditions. This stems from your fear of being tied own down and discomfort with traditions that make no rational sense. This is fine, but do not toy with othersâ affection for you out of a need to prove something. You can be in a stable and committed relationship while still being progressive - you need to understand they arenât mutually exclusive. Moreover, you can be careless with or oblivious to the needs of other people in relationships. Most people have no idea how you feel about them. Take initiative and explicitly let them know. Work on being more attuned to the other personâs needs, even if they feel âlesserâ than your own âglobal humanitarianâ ones. Ironic that this needs to be mentioned to a sign that seemingly values equality..
Pisces: Learn to set boundaries in your relationships. Donât let people manipulate you, walk all over you or completely disregard your basic needs and get away with it just because you think you love them/care about them. Setting boundaries will not get in the way of forming relationships/finding Tru Love (if you believe in that). In fact it channels and filters the purest and most transformative forms of love towards you. You also need to stop projecting your idealistic standards onto the people you love - you will start to associate love with disappointment inevitably because most people wont live up to your unrealistic standards. You may not realise how unrealistic they are, but wherever Neptune goes, there is danger of illusion and deception. You also need to put more action into showing people you care because your displays of affection can be too abstract. Just BE there. Finally, stop giving in to escapist tendencies. Donât fall into temptations. When neptune meets Venus, there is danger of addiction/substance abuse or at best maladaptive daydreaming. You are not doomed. Simply learn to control your temptations. Pisces also co-rules Jupiter so there are overindulgent tendencies. Be proactive. Actively try and catch yourself indulging in escapism and force yourself to snap out of it if you can. Jupiter will keep an eye out for you.
Aries: Stop being so rash in your decision making! Youâve heard this before and you probably got into trouble many times but you always seem to bounce right back. But if you donât exercise self restraint and control you will land yourself in irreversible trouble one day. Immediate gratification will never give you the high achievements you so ambitiously seek. You HAVE to learn endurance and patience.
Taurus: You HAVE to learn adaptability. Your fixedness and stubbornness work well in persevering and career accomplishment but it also means a lack of malleability, difficulty in bouncing back. You may be tough to break, but once youâre broken itâll be difficult to put you back together unless you learn to be versatile. Donât have your mind set on one thing, always have back ups in case things dont work out. You are not always right and you will end up pushing people away with your rigidity. Learn to compromise. Control your temper when you finally do blow up - this placement has a tendency to push down anger in moments where they can be righteously angry and then build this up until it turns to rage and comes out at completely inappropriate moments. Curb this. Learn to speak up when something angers you right then and there instead of holding on to your anger⊠Little to no good comes out of this.
Gemini: Watch your tongue! With Mercury meeting Mars, you have a propensity for saying hurtful things in arguments. You need to learn to control your crass indifference to othersâ emotions when you feel threatened. You need to realise that itâs not acceptable to discard emotional values and principles in order to assert your intellectual superiority e.g. spilling secrets/insulting things the other person is insecure about/using manipulation, etc. There is a tendency to be deceitful and flighty in arguments and life in general here, so you must develop perseverance instead of taking the easier way out. Once you do this, you will be a worthy opponent.
Cancer: You MUST learn to stop resorting to, or more often relying on, manipulative tendencies. Mars is in fall when it enters Cancer so it can be more difficult to develop the placementâs strengths and thus there is a tendency to rely on the weaknesses instead. There has to be a way for you to get your point across or win the argument without victimising yourself and demonising the other person/people. You need to learn to assert yourself in the moment express your anger the instant it comes up, instead of holding on to your anger like Taurus Mars. When you do this, your outbursts will seem more reasonable and less confusing and deluded to other people⊠Make an active effort to be as DIRECT as possible. Say things plainly and explicitly. Soon you will develop more confidence in your assertions and you will feel less defensive about everything. Being rational is very, very hard for this placement when mad which is why you have to start working on this from an early age whether itâs through simple common sense mantras that engage your intellectual mind or taking anger management classes. When youâre angry, the whole world revolves around you. It doesnât matter to you how the other person feels, youâre blind to this when you blow up despite, or perhaps because of, how empathetic you are generally. All that matters in that moment is that YOU feel hurt. You have to work on being less self-absorbed when irritated, or dangerous things can happen as a result of your blind rage. Learning to prioritise rationality over your own feelings is a must for this placement. Also stop fronting and acting like youâre tougher than you really are⊠it could land you in deep shit one day if you go looking for trouble to prove your worth. Regardless of how powerless or insecure you feel, your manipulation is maladaptive and must be actively curbed. If and only if you take a proactive stance against this will you start developing confidence from WITHIN, and succeed in all aspects of life regardless of oppositions.
Leo: You must learn how to be objective and less self-involved. Simply yelling that youâre the best doesnât make it true - it in fact conveys self-esteem issues. While you do have a natural confidence, this confidence is highly dependent on the reassurance and praise of others which you manage to constantly receive, so is it really confidence? Your journey to self-actualisation has to begin with developing confidence in your own worth regardless of the attention you get. Also stop being so prideful and rigid, itâs not productive and itâs a waste of time. Youâre not always right, thatâs a fact - the only way to know if you ARE right in a particular issue is to step back and shove your ego aside and look at the situation from a distance, from different perspectives, etc⊠THAT is how you know for sure. Learn that letting go and/or considering alternate viewpoints is to your advantage too. Learn to listen to others, accept that they may have better ideas than you. How can you expect any one to believe the whole confidence act if youâre so easily provoked by the tiniest perceived slight?
Virgo: Another Mercury-ruled Mars like gemini, you need to watch your tongue. Stop using the fact that your sharp-tongued criticisms are factually observable as an excuse to berate others, especially if you attack weaknesses they let you see/ told you theyâre insecure about. Youâre not as mature you think you are when youre angry, in fact you can be quite relentlessly petty from all the built up restless frustration that comes with being a co-ruler of Mercury. This gives you an immense drive to intellectualise why youâre right⊠which is also borderline childish. You need to work on your hypocrisy if you expect anyone to take your criticisms seriously/be affected by them, especially when youâre the type to constantly dish out criticism but unable to take any. You also need to work on being more accepting of other peopleâs approaches - like Leo and Aquarius, you have a hard time believing others know better/more than you or have better ideas and approaches. You have to accept that youâre not the authority on how to do things ârightâ if you want to achieve personal growth. Zooming in on and obsessing over details isnât always as efficient as you think it is, this finnicky nitpicking can actually be your worst enemy and a waste of productive time - learn to look at the big picture. The whole is not the sum of its parts.
Libra: You MUST learn to be more decisive and straightforwardâ. Endlessly weighing the pros and cons in tense situations is rarely productive - sometimes a quick, swift decision needs to be made. In order for you to grow as a person, you need to be able to think on your feet. You have a tendency to insert yourself into arguments to act as the âmediatorâ but fail to reach a concrete solution or conclusion out of fear of ruffling any feathers/escalating the tension or due to getting lost in weighing the situation. Donât do that, donât appoint yourself as the mature mediator if you wonât take mature actions. Learn to directly tell someone if you think theyâre wrong instead of beating around the bush - chances are, their reactions will be the same. Learn to explicitly express and assert your needs to others instead of dropping hints⊠The worst that could happen is they ignore it, but thatâs almost a given with your passive aggressive approach.
Scorpio: You MUST let go of control and stop being so defensive. Like Cancer Mars, you can be easily provoked but not out of feeling hurt, but rather out of paranoia that your privacy is being invaded or the implication that you donât have as much control over things as you think you do. Guess what, you donât. The sooner you accept this, the quicker the path to self-actualisation will be. Youâre sensitive and hyperaware of power struggles as a result of a deepseated fear of losing the upper hand and being on the lower end of the scale. This may have been spurred by potential feelings of powerlessness early in life. Regardless, you need to let go of your need for control. You need to stop resorting to manipulation or downright ruthlessness to get what you want. Control your emotional impulses that urge you to display dominance⊠A developed Scorpio Mars wonât need to display it. Thrive on the loss of power rather than fearing it; Scorpio is ruled by Pluto after all, the planet of transformations and shifts in power. Once you start to loosen your grip and become less defensive as a result, you are actually at your best as you are fulfilling your Plutonian purpose of destruction of the self and completely rebuilding a new self from the ashes.
Sagittarius: You need to work on your crass indifference to othersâ emotions like your sister sign except here this is more impulsive and self-serving. Your bluntness means people can rely on you for your honest opinion, but you use it like a dagger when provoked. You get over it fairly quickly, but you canât expect others to do so too. You have to be respectful of othersâ approach to things - youâre not as accepting as you think you are - and the time it takes for them to heal, donât expect forgiveness for your (often insincere) apologies, it only makes you look more entitled. You must learn to commit to your projects and not move on to the next interesting thing that catches your eye. You might have an unrivalled enthusiasm for worldly experiences and education, but you lack the perseverance and steadiness required for this. You need to learn to persist even when you feel that your interest is starting to fade. Like Aquarius, you need to practice what you preach if you expect anyone to adopt your views.
Capricorn: You must learn when to let go and be inflexible. You pride yourself on self-control, but you hold back from indulging in the merits you get as a reward for your ambition and work ethic. So whatâs the point? Do you only do it for pride? Is that the only way you feel important? You must learn to let go and live a little. Stop being so rigid about everything; your need for control and order can be stifling to others. You call yourself a long term planner but where do you see yourself going if you constantly overwork yourself without allowing yourself to enjoy the rewards? You also need to humble yourself down. You may be practical and down to earth, but a confident certainty in your own abilities and knowledge can sometimes manifest as arrogance. You have a God complex that needs to be addressed in your journey to personal growth⊠Youâre so sure that youâre right that you rarely stop and think and consider the other personâs viewpoint without pressure. Youâre so concerned with whatâs efficient and practical that you always stick to what you know, losing the very objective and logical nature you like to pride yourself on⊠You must learn to adapt to occasions where things donât bend your way, where you turn out to be wrong or where you have to experiment with new methods - you have to learn to do all this without resorting to the very level of pettiness you consider yourself above. Rise above this tendency to do whatever to win the argument/ have the last word, itâs childish no matter how you masquerade it. Also be wary of a tendency to step on others to reach the places you want out of a hunger for power⊠If you want it bad enough you can get there through your own work ethic.
Aquarius: You must learn to stop being so inflexible in your views and opinions. You rarely resort to emotional manipulation or rage when angry, not out of respect for others but out of a HUGE superiority complex. You think youâre âaboveâ that like Capricorn Mars but instead of being hypocritical by ending up resorting to the very pettiness you think youâre above, you simply cut the person off and disappear from their life if your values were incompatible and you couldnât convert them to your side. Ironic considering the tolerance and open-mindedness you constantly preach to others. Learn to humble yourself down and stop thinking your opinions are always right or that you know more than others. Like your sister sign leo, you need to learn to accept that others may know more than you/may be right. Just because you disagree with someone on something doesnât mean they canât be in your life.
Pisces: Toughen the fuck up and grow a backbone. You need to stop letting people walk all over you and pretend itâs for ~selfless~ reasons when really you do it because you loooove wallowing in self pity. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and relying on escapism. Snap out of it. You MUST be proactive and combat the disillusion that comes with a neptunian Mars. Stop relying on external sources to deal with difficult situations. Face it head on for once. Youâll be relieved. Youâll get through it sooner if you do. Do everything you can to stay in touch with reality. Distract yourself with lists or mentally/physically demanding activities. Donât let yourself slip away. Stick to plans for once. Focus inward on your emotions to find the root/cause behind certain emotions. You MUST learn to set boundaries. Once you start focusing on yourself and set hard limits instead of excusing othersâ actions, asserting yourself will be much easier.
*This is based on the archetypes and basic traits of the zodiac signs. Maintain an objective approach when reading these.. if a description seems off, remember to look holistically at your whole chart. Obviously I donât know you personally, but astrology is inherently neutral even if my interpretation isnât and just because YOU donât express a certain trait does not mean it is not a trait of said sign. So donât bother with the ânot all ___â rants lmao save your energy.
**Astrology is not deterministic, nothing is set in stone just because you have a certain placement - donât try to justify detrimental behaviours using this excuse e.g. âi have a Scorpio Mars and Moon so I canât help but rely on manipulative tendencies :/â which is laughable because 1) itâs a shitty excuse 2) it just reinforces underdeveloped traits that discourage any personal growth. You have some degree of control over your behaviours, use that to your advantage.
***I excluded Sun & the outer planet sign placements from this particular post as the description would be too generic and generalised due to the nature of the post. They will be added on the Aspects version of this post as aspects are more personalised and relevant when it comes to the Sun and outer planets.
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