Confessions of a Virgin

Anything about being a virgin that bothers you, empowers you, or any little thought that you want to share, you can submit it to us. If you want to be anonymous when you submit, put a (*) in your message.

[fahadaccount]

The price you pay for ignoring your gut feeling is very expensive

[plow-and-propose]

I'm just-

we classified the colossal squid in 1925, put together from pieces found in sperm whale stomachs.

we've found them dead or dying or in distress, floating on the surface or entangled by trawlers.

but now

in 2025

100 years later

we finally find one alive and thriving in the deep Antarctic sea

and it's a baby.

[a-virginsconfession]

thanks god for your tumblr. I am a 21 virgin and I feel like I am carrying the worst secret ever. When I go to class I always wonder if people know that I am a virgin. I am just so scared of being judged. I know it is ridiculous because there is no shame for being a virgin but society makes it look like so. I feel ready I just haven't found anyone. Just needed to tell it to someone :)

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[dadbot]

Just in case

[sappire-charizard]

I’m actually going to reblog a thing just because this is really important.

As someone who has epilepsy and used to have several grand mal seizures a day, I’d also like to add that “offer help” can range anywhere from keeping the person calm to explaining to them where they are and what they were doing to even just telling them they should sit and rest for a while longer (lack or coordination is common, and it can be hard to walk straight or see clearly).

It’s okay for them to take up to a half hour to fully regain their bearings and sort out what they were doing prior to the seizure. Just answer any questions calmly and be there for support.

If they come around and you start to panic or shake them or ask them what the heck is wrong with them they are going to freak out and panic too.

I cannot stress it enough that this is bad.

If someone has a seizure and they come out of it, please. please stay calm. They are likely disoriented and confused, even if it’s only for a minute or two, and you don’t want them panicking on top of that because they can have another seizure as a result.

[felicityredbarrow-blog]

IMPORTANT

[happylittleblogger]

IMPORTANT because last year a kid in my class had a seizure, none of us even knew he was at risk for them either so just cause you don’t think you know anyone doesn’t mean you don’t 

stay safe

[kyuofcosmic]

I have to stress how important it is to time a seizure. If it lasts more than a few minutes, call an ambulance.

DO NOT CALL THE POLICE. I’m dead fucking serious. I had a grand mal in public once and the POLICE were called and imagine coming out of the seizure, feeling like you got smacked in the head with a sack full of bricks, confused, dazed, in desperate need of some sugar to boost low blood pressure and some DIPSHIT has called the police and I was being threatened with being ‘drunk and disorderly’. It took a phone call to my doctors office to get them to back off. The police cannot properly deal with sick people. 

Offer help can be:

assuring person where they are/what time it is

getting them something to drink if they can; seizure burns so much energy and does cause a blood pressure drop

getting them safely to transport or a carer

getting them some dignity like a blanket/towel [loosing control of your bladder and bowels is fucking horrifying]

ensuring they have a way to get home. Someone who has just had a seizure should NEVER DRIVE straight after

calling emergency services if you notice any of these symptoms because they may have stroked out.

Why you shouldn’t put anything in someone’s mouth: they will choke. Yes, they may bite their tongue but I can assure you it’s less traumatic than cracking your jaw on someone’s greasy wallet or choking on a spoon.

DO NOT HOLD ANYONE DOWN. Example: someone pinned my right shoulder mid-seizure a few years back and how I have a permanently displaced and clicking shoulder. Let the person flail around, those muscles are out of control and restraining them does cause more damage to the patient and you.

[jadethest0ne]

If you need a specific time frame, I’m a lifeguard certified in first aid, and we’re told to call an ambulance if a seizure lasts more than 5 minutes. Don’t be afraid to err on the side of caution and call earlier if you are concerned.

Some other specific circumstances we’re taught:

Walking seizures exist, too, and a person might walk aimlessly while having one. Again, don’t hold them back or down, just try to be a physical cushion so they don’t walk into anything or trip. If you can, get people to form a circle around someone having a walking seizure. If they fall down, cushion the fall, but again, do NOT hold them down.

For seizures in water, don’t try to remove them from the water in the middle of a seizure, just support their head above the water by putting your arms beneath their head/neck/upper back area, and letting them essentially lay face-up in your arms.

When they come out of it, similar to above, stay calm and offer assistance.

[mapsontheweb]

How much daylight are you gaining this March?

[insomniac-arrest]

S.A.D. pride flag

[somethingusefulfromflorida]

I’d rather get the extra hour of sunlight at the end of the day in fall. It’s wasted in spring because the days are getting longer anyway. In December, the sun sets for me at like 5 or 6, it’s dark by the time I get home from work, and I could really use a fall forward. I’d rather have a dark morning than a dark evening. Why are you making me lose sleep for a week in spring?

[catchymemes]

[vtmb2spoilers-deactivated202112]

hope u dont mind me keeping ur tags because ur right:

[calmdowncalmdown]

I’ll reblog this every time I see it.

[moki-dokie]

this is why i steer clear of hard drugs. i’ve seen a fair share of stories similar to this. it’s good and great and awesome until it’s not and then there’s little hope for escape if you either don’t have help or can’t break out of the cycle for a second to realize you need to get that help.

anti-drug campaigns should absolutely be run by recovering addicts. shit, that’s what the anti-smoking campaigns do.

[illbeartheburdenofyourhatred]

kids these days dont understand projecting your middle school anger due to being an outcast into vitriolic hate of justin bieber

[illbeartheburdenofyourhatred]

ppl adding on about how justin bieber is actually a terrible person this is about drama between 11 year olds in like 2009. we didn’t know a single thing about the guy. your opinions were solely based on whether you were part of the 90% of teenagers who would cry if justin bieber jumped off a building or you were the 10% who would sit back with popcorn and yell “do a backflip”.

[fuck-yourself-daily-deactivated]

Support her goals. Lick her pussy.

[btterflydream444]

[verykashb]

[sen-s-ual]

✨ Little reminders ✨

Virginity is a social construct

Masturbation is healthy and normal

Sex isn‘t everything in life. It‘s okay to not want to have sex

It‘s nobodies business, if and with how many people you have sex

You can love multiple people and have several consensual/ethical relationships

Even though your mental health struggles might feel like a burden, You aren‘t a burden when you are seeking help

Boundaries are there to be respected

Your feelings are valid and not to be debated

Sexuality is a spectrum and you‘re allowed to discover your sexuality in your own tempo

You never owe sex to anyone

Always ask for consent

[quietstorm-thundathighs]

consent can be revoked at any time

[pastel-petticoats]

There's nothing wrong with being a sex worker, or with enjoying sex work

[pastel-petticoats]

There’s no modifiers to this, btw. Not “its okay to be a sex worker if you have no other options” or “its okay to be a sex worker but also you poor poor victim”. No. It is okay to be a sex worker. Full stop.

[kanyes-diary]

be my baby and my best friend.

[gothicdarling]

[laketaj24]

PSA 🚨

[twitblr]

For Real 🙏 (x)

[hairstylesbeauty]

[everythingstarstuff]

@smeccea