I am the queen in this life is one of the most misogynistic manhwas on webtoon.
Announcing that a historical manhwa has misogynistic undertones is like announcing that a fork has been found in the kitchen, it's unfortunately something to expect with a lot of korean comics, however, I personally believe that Sister, I am the queen in this life, takes the cake compared to other women's romance graphic novels you'd find on webtoon or tapas. It is a story with such passionate hatred for women, that the remarried empress looks like the Barbie movie in comparison.
No, I don't think I'm overthinking anything, I genuinely believe this story, and maybe even the author whenever they know it or not, hates women.
Sure, IATQITL wasn't the first korean webnovel/webcomic to feature male villains who were forgiven/sympathetic while female villains were never given a chance to be more than what they started out as, but it doesn't end there, the more I reread this story, the more uncomfortable I feel, and here is why.
1: The narrative tries to appear like it criticizes the patriarchy by presenting the concept of misogyny its simplest, most comical form.
2: The female lead is a perfect, all-knowing woman, she is so perfect that she is often the only woman the majority of the male characters will treat with respect and/or genuinely fall in love with.
3: The villainess is repeatedly mocked for having a smaller chest than her younger sister, starting as far back when said villainess was still a teenager.
4: A man's mental illness is treated as sympathetic and nuanced; a woman's is treated as hysterical, obsessive, and annoying.
5: Isabella isn't treated like a rapist; she's treated like an undesirable whore who has to rely on aphrodisiacs to convince a man to sleep with her, she is shamed for the wrong reasons.
6: Women who generally seek out men themselves are treated as whores/villains, unlike Ariadne, who is the one being sought after by other men.
7: Isabella's role as "The evil harlot of the kingdom" ends up exonerating the men she sleeps with, since by reducing her to being so pathetic that she has to drug men to be attracted to her, this means that the men who lust after her could be viewed as misunderstood victims.
8: Lucrezia is slut shamed in her first appearance and it's meant to be interpreted as Ariadne speaking the truth.
9: Isabella is punished by being forced to stay in relationships with men she detests, such as her marriage to Ottavio and her one sided relationship with King Leo in the novel.
10: The only "skills" Isabella has all involve amplifying her beauty, she is depicted as a vapid and stupid blonde who only wants makeup, dresses, jewelry, and attention.
You COULD defend some of these examples by pointing out that Maletta and Cesare are villains so of course they would body shame another woman, or that it's "historically accurate" so of course there would be misogynistic characters, and that could be the case if the series in general didn't reek of many, MANY other chapters shaming, mocking, and ridiculing the female characters for "stepping out of line."
I am the queen in this life is terrible for a lot of reasons, most say it's bad because Arabella was killed off or because Ariadne fell in love with Cesare again, but the blatant misogyny oozing out of the narrative is something is what we should also be mad at.