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Motherhood got hijacked by capitalism. Book fairs, field trips, fast food, spirit-week costumes — everything has a price tag now. And every “no” is treated like neglect. But I’m not falling for it. This week’s essay on Her Wilde Journal is for every parent who’s tired of performing for a system that profits off our exhaustion. 💡 My Kids Ain’t Got McDonald’s Money Because love doesn’t live in receipts. It lives in presence.
You keep waiting for the bills to ease, the schedule to clear, the healing to be done, and then you'll allow yourself some joy. But what if I told you joy isn't something you earn, it's something you choose? This post is a soft rebellion against survival mode. It's your reminder that joy belongs to you now, not later, not someday. Now. Let that be enough. 🤎
A powerful essay unpacking emotional neglect, invisible abuse, and how self-betrayal becomes a survival strategy for many Black millennials and firstborn daughters. This post guides readers through naming, understanding, and healing from silent wounds—while offering real steps to stop repeating the cycle.
They Want a Wife, But Act Like a Dependent.
The dating pool has bare minimum energy, unhealed egos, and podcast mic logic in it. But somehow, we’re the problem. I saw this post on Facebook (I need to stay off that damn app) that said: “Men these days want submissive providers,” Basically saying… They want a woman who’s submissive, soft, peaceful, and low maintenance… but also want her to work full-time, pay bills, clean the house, cook…
Some of y’all keep calling it growth when really—you’re just too scared to defend yourself. You’ve been praised for your silence, for your grace, for your “maturity”… but never once did they ask what it cost you. This week’s post is for the ones who are tired of taking the high road while everybody else gets to be low, loud, and comfortable. It’s time to stop applauding yourself for how quiet you can be when you're hurting. Because that’s not grace. That’s self-abandonment with lip gloss and a good beat. 💥 The Bigger Person Is Tired. Let Her Rest.
“I’m fine” is the lie that’s been keeping you alive—and slowly killing you at the same time. You’re not okay. You’re just trained to pretend. Let’s talk about the cost of silence, the weight of self-abandonment, and why your truth deserves to be louder than your survival story.
They don’t call the people who broke us “strong”—just us, for surviving them. But that’s not a compliment. That’s a fucking insult. Stop handing out flowers for my suffering and calling it love. I’m not the strong friend anymore. I’m done bleeding for the room just to be respected in it. And you should be, too.
15 Signs Anxiety is Running the Show
Anxiety doesn’t always look like panic attacks or spiraling thoughts. Sometimes, it hides behind procrastination, people-pleasing, and exhaustion you can’t explain. This post breaks down 15 quiet, everyday ways anxiety shows up—especially when people mistake it for laziness. If you’ve ever asked yourself, “What’s wrong with me?”—this is for you. It May Not Be Laziness—It’s Actually Anxiety You…
Anxiety Is Your BIGGEST Hater. And ignoring her? NOT the best course of action. Stop dismissing your feelings and questioning everything you know about yourself. Its not you. Let me introduce you to that girl—Anxiety. She’s been running your life in the background. And it’s time we talk about it.
Anxiety Is Your BIGGEST Hater. And ignoring her? NOT the best course of action. Stop dismissing your feelings and questioning everything you know about yourself. Its not you. Let me introduce you to that girl—Anxiety. She’s been running your life in the background. And it’s time we talk about it.
You don’t need closure from someone who caused the wound. You don’t need to re-friend the snake just because it said sorry. And if this post hits a little too hard… maybe you’re the one someone had to heal from. Either way? The glow up starts with truth. 🤎 💫 When Closure Is a Setup →
Unfolding Out Loud A poetry series by Jasmine | DeMi This series is for the ones who were told to stay quiet, stay strong, stay small. Unfolding Out Loud is the unraveling of silence, survival, softness, and strength in real time. These poems hold the weight of what was never said—and the fire of saying it now. It’s healing in motion. It's soft and angry. Sacred and tired. It's the voice you find when no one gave you one.
If they treated you like you treat you, would you call it love? Stop waiting for the rose petals. You ARE the rose. ✨ You Are the Love of Your Life #TheGlowUpReport #SelfLoveIsAStandard 🤎
Softness After Survival
5 Things I’m Learning as a Black Woman Unlearning Survival ModeNo one tells you what happens after survival—when the fight is over, but your body still waits for the next battle. When you finally find peace, but rest still feels like something you have to earn. For years, I thought my exhaustion was laziness. That my inability to relax meant I wasn’t working hard enough. That if I wasn’t pushing,…
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I finally decided to stop sitting on my words.If you’re here, you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be. A Black Girl Wrote This is a space for deep conversations, hard truths, and the kind of words that make you feel seen, challenged, and empowered.I write for the ones who are breaking cycles, choosing themselves, and learning to love loudly. For the ones who want to heal but don’t always know…
Rest is a Radical Act
Healing Beyond Survival ModeNo one talks about how much rest you’ll need when you finally feel safe.When I thought about this for the first time, it hit me like a wave. Because it’s true—no one prepares you for the exhaustion that comes when your body and mind are no longer operating in survival mode.For years, I thought my constant tiredness was laziness or lack of motivation. But the truth is,…
The Soft Life Isn’t Passive—It’s Intentional
“Struggle” Isn’t a Personality Trait. You’re Just Addicted to the Hustle.Let’s be real: Some of y’all wouldn’t know what to do with yourselves if life wasn’t hard.You say you want ease, peace, and a soft life—but the moment things slow down, you find a way to struggle again. You equate rest with laziness and ease with entitlement. Because if you’re not grinding yourself into the ground, who even…